Is there any type of clothing you don't find very flattering on the opposite gender?

[Genie23]

I see many guys where I live wearing skinny jeans and it's been years now. I don't like the way skinny jeans look on guys. I prefer to see them in a more comfortable looking pair of jeans/pants.

If I talk about women's trends, I didn't like that dual tone jeans trend, where one leg colour has different colour or has a lighter shade than then the other.

[Lliam]

Ripped, distressed, "fashion" jeans.

Black, klunky, Goth/Punk shoes/boots.
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Hoodies. They remind me of monk's cowls.

Black leather motorcyle/bomber jackets.

I despise platform shoes, especially spike heels with platform soles.

[Genie23]

Monk's cowls...🤣🤣🤣

[WhiteSteve]

I have to say that young women’s jeans are atrocious these days, in my opinion. Just very unflattering. Boyfriend jeans? I think that’s what they call them…HORRENDOUS, lmao. I’m not a fan of high-waisted pants. My heyday was in the 00s, so I’m used to women in low-rise jeans, I thought those were a great look. I do get that they aren’t for everyone, but on slimmer gals, whooooo-WEE, I’m not mad at that. Then curvier women I find look the best in the high-waisted stuff. Back in the 00s everyone was following the leads of skinny girls like Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Paris Hilton, etc. Then Kim Kardashian came along and it was all about being thick. I feel like high-waisted stuff is the skinny girl’s attempt to create an illusion of curves. But in any case, they’re all just too loose and look ill-fitting.

Look…it’s no woman’s job to dress to put on a sexy visual for me or any other male onlookers…I’m just saying that if that IS something you’re aiming for, you’re doing it wrong. Way, way wrong. Women’s gym outfits? We’re in the Golden Era, don’t change a thing, holy smokes😅😅😅 But you’re fumbling in the streets with the baggy jeans. Leave relaxed fit jeans for middle-aged dudes with fat stomachs and surprisingly flat asses😂 The female body is a beautiful thing. Dudes…. not so much, lmao.

I feel like everyone’s trying to attain one particular body type in a given era, rather than just having multiple ideals with correspondingly flattering styles. Like why can’t low-rise and high-waisted all be in style, and then everyone wears what suits them best? We’re going about fashion all wrong, we throw out good looks just because of the calendar advancing. Dudes looked wicked fresh back in the mid-20th century, suits, combed hair, fedoras…. that was fly, but we’d look at someone funny if they dressed that way today. We shouldn’t. I feel like we should always try new stuff, but if something worked 50 years ago, it should still work 25 years ago, and should still work today. But that’s another rant for another day.

Can I do a bonus unisex one? Socks and slides. Stop it. Fucking STOP IT🤮

[A_Bell]

Low rise jeans are for tramps.

[musicbrain5]

I’m guessing you also remember those super huge, baggy jeans that were popular in the late 90’s/early 00’s. JNCO jeans was the brand, I think. Those looked shitty on everyone.

[WhiteSteve]

@musicbrain5 Oh my lord…. burn them, and fire the ashes into space in a coffee can😂😂😂

I play hockey with this one teenager sometimes, I think he’s 16, and he showed up in baggy jorts last week, so I’m guessing those are back in style with the kids. Saw Cincinnati Bengals QB Joe Burrow was wearing my old part-in-the-middle haircut from high school…but then he cut it because he had a terrible first game, so we may have averted a crisis there, because I’m pretty sure no one on the planet short of Matthew McConaghey is as cool as Joe Burrow, lmao. Fingers crossed the popularity pendulum doesn’t swing back in JNCO’s favor, YIKES. I’m just old enough that that’s more from when I was in college than high school, so I never fell victim, but I was pretty hood back in those days, so my 90s hip-hop jeans (in an array of colored denim…and sometimes with a matching denim vest🤦‍♂️😂) weren’t much of an improvement, lmfao

[WhiteSteve]

@A_Bell Aw, come on, that’s something my would-be 85 year old mother would’ve said😂

I worked at a Hollister Co back in my 20s, we sold exclusively low-rise jeans, I worked with many girls who wore them, and I would argue that most of them were not what someone might call a tramp. You were probably in elementary school at the time, just trust me on this one😜 Are low-rise jeans even made anymore for our current tramps, orrrr…?

[A_Bell]

With their underwear showing.

I just remember the term "tramp stamp" for those atrocious tattoos that said things like "juicy" on their lower back. Disgusting.

[WhiteSteve]

@A_Bell Well, there was kind of a duality to that. For sure there would be incidents of exposed underwear, but most of that was seemingly unintentional, in everyday life, anyway. There was a look where there’d be the super-intentional whale tail, and side strings would be pulled up high, and I’ll give that if I had a daughter I wouldn’t let her out of the house like that, it’s for sure a trashy look in that case. But it’s not my place to tell anyone how to dress or make character assumptions based on their dress, or to even have particularly rigid character expectations of anyone, beyond just dealing with people and life coming in good faith. As long as your intentions aren’t malicious, I’ve got room for a lot of different types of people and behaviors. Way bigger problems in the world than a lower back tattoo to worry about. I’ve never been harmed by an alleged tramp stamp and I feel pretty confident I never will be, y’know?

[A_Bell]

Some comedian once was told just because a woman dressed provocatively doesn't make her a whore. He agreed and replied, but she is wearing a whore's uniform.

Stronger words than I would use, but it's hard to be shocked when you are mistaken for what you project.

[WhiteSteve]

@A_Bell Yeah, that was Dave Chappelle back in the day. I guess even legit whoring is acceptable to me, provided the woman is comfortable with the situation and isn’t coming from a place of emotional damage. I don’t really look at sex as some “dirty” thing that “taints” a person, so we might just be playing on different fields here, haha

[Mamaliv]

I think some men can pull off skinny jeans but not all men! 🤣
I cringe at a man wearing sandals! Any thing feminine or women’s clothing on a man is not attractive to me.
Cartoon characters on shirts on anyone over the age of 18.
Short shorts 😳 men with polished toe nails (unless they let the young daughter paint them)
I’m not a big fan of woman’s styles right now, high waisted jeans and crop tops just meh, I am busty and it is so hard to find shirts that fit just right and it drives me insane!

[Genie23]

Sounds like short shorts are disliked by most women on my question thread, lol. I do too

[Rei13]

I honestly like skinny jeans on both men and women so long as they fit properly. Cargo jeans/shorts or regular jeans on a guy also look good with either a basic top or logo shirt. I don’t like when the pants are too big, guy isn’t wearing a belt, and they’re falling down to wear you can see the boxers. I’ve seen that quite a bit. Or if then guy’s shirts have a ton of holes in them, replace it already some stores have them on sale for a dollar.

[Pinay_ako]

I cannot stand low rise hip hugging jeans on anyone. Idgaf if you have abs of steel. Just not a good look. And crocs! Who tf invented this shit. 🤣 they’re atrocious.

[Genie23]

I agree! 🤣

[0verthinkExpert]

For guys: skinny jeans/pants, long cardigans, crop-tops, "tuck-friendly" swimsuits 😂🤣 or anything along those lines.

For girls: button shirts that are button all the way up to the neck 😵, oversized blazers, and buzzed haircut.

[Genie23]

Tuck friendly swimsuit exist for men? I had mo idea, lol

[love_conquers_lust]

Dave Chapelle in his younger, less racist, less greedy, and vengeful days had a good point on this.

”Just because I’m dressed this way, does not make me a whore.”

”Fine ladies, fine. You are not a whore. But you are wearing a whore’s uniform.”

There’s a difference between form fitting and shedding clothes altogether to reveal skin.

I’d consider clothes soaked in piss, sweat, vomit, blood, feces, dirty, odorous, and things of the like unflattering. Those people need help, not exploitation. I’d call baggy clothes neutralizing.

[Grond21]

I've heard the phrase that female clothing should be tight enough to show they are a woman and loose enough to show they are a lady. I like this a lot.

A lot of what Billie Eilish wears is very unflattering.

I don't like a lot of the clothes that many women think are sexy. Often they are just trashy. When you can't tell the difference between sexy and trashy, it's a problem.

I agree with you about the jeans. I also think ones that are overly ripped or stressed are stupid.

Empire waists can be great or terrible, depending.

And underboob crop tops

[zeitgeist057]

omg thank you I have disliked empire waist dresses forever, but I never knew that's what they are called. I just called them "high waisted dresses". Though there are a few exceptions, by and large I find them to be unflattering.

[Grond21]

@zeitgeist057 Which kind do you like?

[zeitgeist057]

I like either waistless or with the waist at the actual waist. Soft, flowy materials like silk. I also really like the cleavage style where it's folded sort of asymmetrically. hard to describe, I'll try to find an image:
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Doesn't have to show leg like this, that's just how this one was. I also like a cheongsam. Here are a couple dresses I have bought for women in my life: https://imgur.com/a/p6B4Jdl

[Grond21]

You have a good sense of style. I like the first one. It has a good neckline, although I would make the streps thicker if I could, but in terms of the torso style, I like it.

The second one looks very Asian, not only because the model is. Was your girlfriend Asian when she wore it?
The third one is a beautiful summer dress.

I like the empire waist when the part below it is fitted. Especially on a girl with a higher contrast between her chest size and her torso. It can highlight that without being obscene.

[jennifer_bloom]

I find most guys look unattractive when they wear white or Forest green colours. I also don’t like visible designer logos on clothes cause I think the point of wearing beautiful clothes is to personalize your image and wearing a designer logo is like wearing a stamp on your head that says you are a commercial product and and not your own individual person. Polo understands this which is why their logos are small.

[purplepoppy]

Agree 101% if they want me to walk around advertising their product they should pay me.

[RingOfFire]

Maybe it's because I'm a guy, I don't know... but I don't know a thing about clothes and even less about womens' clothes. I couldn't even name or describe what I like and don't like seeing a woman wear. All I can say is if I like it I know it when I see it.

Oh wait... I hate seeing 99% of woman in a suit at work. Even Viagra couldn't help me get excited about seeing that. I guess there could be exceptions but I don't remember any. That's about the only thing I can think of.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Woman in a suit is hot as Hell.

[RingOfFire]

¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Maybe if you are a lesbian, but I can't see it.

[Flatmanlewis]

I agree. A woman in a properly fitted woman’s suit is a thing to behold. Of course, the better the fit and her figure the better it looks. Like men, not all women in suits are created equal.

[Lliam]

@Flatmanlewis. I agree a woman in a work suit with skirt (NOT pants) that hugs her ass is one of the sexiest things ever.

[Genie23]

I'm straight and I think women in formals look absolutely great too. It depends on the style, fitting and also how they carry themselves matters too

[Constatine]

training pants with white stipes on the side.

My ex started to wear them al the time.. while going out , when going to a party.. even when i was wearing a suit she had them on.. on the wedding day of a close friend.

That was the day i snapped.. a lead her to the door. Exit bye... see you never again..

[molonski2]

Certainly completely inappropriate - Active wear , just shows no respect for anyone

Including completely inappropriate ( lifting ) crop tops , this stuff is NOT street wear.

Then conversely , completely oversized clothes , looks ridiculous.

Mainly its matching the attire to the occasion.

[4ngelic]

jeggings (like the skinny jeans that are so so skinny they look like tights)

v necks

cardigans

super tights tshirts

fedoras

harem pants

bermuda shorts

[Genie23]

Guys wear jeggings too these days? 😳 I had NO idea!

[A_Bell]

Cargo anything. Turtlenecks. Jean shorts. Skinny jeans. Bow ties. Short shorts. Pants that are baggy in the seat. Baggy shorts. White tube socks. Anything feminine. Pink.

[Genie23]

I don't like bow ties and short shorts either! Also, men who wear feminine clothes does make me not find them attractive

[A_Bell]

Amen!

[mandyfire98]

I definitely agree on skinny jeans. They've never looked good.

[Genie23]

I wish they'd stop wearing that. It makes me so awkward, lol

[Nikki1989]

Skinny jeans, tank-tops/muscle shirts, suits, and ties.

[Genie23]

Why suits? 😯

I can understand why you don't like skinny jeans or muscle shirts but suits?

[Unit1]

Suits do not look good. I absolutely don't like wearing suits. It makes me look like another obedient corporate drone, that has no sense of unique self identity and cannot think for itself.

[AlexEfron]

Dual tone jeans? I never knew such jeans existed 🤣.

I don't like trashy clothing in general. Be it a guy or a girl. I prefer if someone dresses in a modest fashion. People have complained about me being old fashioned and wearing oversized clothes 😂, but idc 🤣

[Vampire_Killing_Time]

Polo shirts. Jeans that's hanging so low that accidently bumping into them would have that pants drop down to their ankles. A hat... on a hat. Socks and slippers combined.

[Genie23]

I never liked polos either!

[whereismyjohnny]

I have to agree with you about skinny jeans.

[Genie23]

I wish they'd stop wearing that. It looks very awkward

[CrimsonAngel09]

Whichever clothes the guys in the comments wear.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Because I bet they want women in tight dresses, the most uncomfortable things a woman can wear.

[Genie23]

Youe answers always makes me chuckle

[Genie23]

Yours* and you're right, they don't like loose clothes on us, lol

[Genie23]

Your* FML 😖

[ManOnFire]

G-strings
Tube tops on really busty girls. I love huge boobs but tube tops do not work with them.
Super short shorts.

[AviatorTom]

A woman in baggy sweats is usually not very flattering.

[Genie23]

Sweatshirt or sweatpants?

[AviatorTom]

Both

[Genie23]

I see

[zeitgeist057]

I actually think it's cute. Not so much for the look but for the vibe, it's just chill and comfortable. But sure, it doesn't flatter the actual physical form, it just turns a person into an amorphous mass.

[oatiemocha]

I hate when they only wear branded clothing but notably big logos. Or any of those brands created by Geordie Shore or TV personalities that look all the same and are tacky.

I hate the small rectangle glasses on a man too. I prefer if they have some shape to add some personality to their face. boyfriend wears the small rectangle glasses and it does nothing for me but he’s too tight to upgrade glasses.

[RobT312]

For me it’s dressing age appropriate …. I don’t like a 40 yo woman dressing like she still wants to be 18. She’d look way hotter if she dressed her age