What body insecurity/flaw hurts the most the one who has it?

[marish01]

Body dismorphia is common among both genders.

To me it has been my weight. I gained weight at 16 and lost in 23. So I have suffered from body insecurity for 7 years.

Weight

Height

small dick/loosy vagina/big vulva

Saggy breast/vulva

Big teeth, mouth

Big nose and ears

Other

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

When I was young, I was malnourished and I was always skinny. People would tell me they were jealous, envious and so on.

They sometimes told me I was empty bones.

I wasn’t that skinny, I always had a nicely shaped butt, even when I was very skinny.

At that time, there was literally nothing that I was insecure about, apart from my nose which I broke around the time of my puberty.

And then after puberty blue birthmarks started appearing on my face, first they were small, they grew the more time I spent in the sun or the more I was stressed. I avoided the sun, but couldn’t avoid the stress and now I have those birthmarks on both parts of my cheeks.

They really did make me very insecure, because I didn’t expect them and didn’t expect them to grow in size.

It’s not hereditary and I am not scared about my children having them, but they did change my life and mindset in a way. I would be far more confident without these birthmarks and without having my nose broken.

[Rei13]

It honestly depends on the person. I chose weight because that has been the thing that caused me the most insecurities over my appearance than anything else. Whenever I was obese for my height it didn’t really bother me for the most part since I still thought I was pretty. I was able to attract men that are attractive and date them. I didn’t feel insecure over it until a guy I liked rejected me over it pretty brutally when he wasn’t in good shape either. I ended up losing a ton of weight after that but I’m a lot more self conscious over it now in general even though I objectively look a lot better. It’s funny because when I was fat it was usually a non-issue but now that I’m skinnier I get more rude comments about my facial features, which haven’t changed since my face has always been slim lol. Those comments catch me off guard tbh but it doesn’t make me dislike what I have. So I can see how other people could be self conscious over that

[Anonymous]

I would imagine it depends more on the person then the "flaw". I was insecure about a great many things when I was younger. But I think you reach and age and point on life where people simply can't hurt you anymore. I'm largely numb to people insults to me anymore. There's nothing someone can take from me that life has not already done.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

My weight I went from 372lbs down to 254lbs but all my life I was overweight and even as a child and teen in school.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[provokeesmokee]

I think it really depends.

I struggle with weight, used to struggle with height, and struggle currently with changing perception and dysmorphia about boobs.

I'm working to get as light as I can while maintaining my physical abilities in my fave sports and hopefully that shrinks my tits to the point binding is enough to make my chest flat.

If I get to that point and it isn't and I still feel dysmorphic about my breasts, I'm considering top surgery.

After that, we'll see. I don't identify as a transman, but maybe I'm transmasc enough to consider some HRT. We'll cross that bridge if I ever come to it.

[enterr10]

You used to struggle with height. Being too tall or short?
And how did you overcome this?

[provokeesmokee]

Just not liking my height. I compared myself to others a lot.

It took finding the benefits of my size in sports and my other activities - and also just coming to the realization height isn't everything - to start moving past it.

It's ultimately not something we control, so it's not worth worrying about too much.

[enterr10]

You are short that's why you dislike your height or tall for a girl?

[Sonorous]

I selected "weight" because that has harsher consequences. I've never been insecure about anything like I have been of weight.

[jaskin777]

My weight is what I'm really insecure about i don't really eat much I constantly check my weight on the scale I walk and swim. I am 150 but want to get down to 80 100 or even 80 pounds.

[Anonymous]

the worst worst is probably being very fat or having an ugly face. for guys also maybe having a very short height too like 5'3 and an actual micropenis

[enterr10]

Even a 5'7 guy is extremely insecure about his height since that's quite short for a man.
How do you feel about short men? And how tall are you

[Anonymous]

Who in the hell picked the small dick option?

I guess men really do think with their dicks.

[marish01]

I guess to many men a penis size under 7 inches is small.
Being insecure about something that only your doctor and partner can see shows immaturity. Of course unless it's below average in size.

[nudeNhorny]

so you think if it's below average, then feeling insecure about is justified?

[enterr10]

Isn't having small penis a concern and something to be insecure about?
Most women make fun of smal penis

[warsevf]

I am no handsome fella, but looks aren't my insecurities i have

[AmeerX]

It's more weight or rather I am not athletic. I need to exercise more

[dreamstar72]

My shoulder posture one side is off.

[MissBoogus]

Nothing , my nose when I was younger

[enterr10]

Are you quite tall?

[MissBoogus]

@enterr10 no

[enterr10]

Comfortable with your height?

[MissBoogus]

@enterr10 yup

[enterr10]

How tall are you?

[MissBoogus]

@enterr10 5’6”

[enterr10]

Oh wow. You are quite tall that's why!
How do you feel about short men?

[MissBoogus]

I don’t like ‘em

[enterr10]

Lol so blunt and straight forward.
:/

[enterr10]

What is the height range that you like on men?

[enterr10]

Being short man sucks tbh.

[Anonymous]

How much did you gain and lose?

[Anonymous]

small dick for me 🙋‍♂️

[marish01]

I know who you are. Yours is 4 inches. You said that.

[Opinion Owner]

hey it's 4.5, you disregarded half inch.

[eagle1951]

everything these days lol