Pssh it goes both ways;
At our age, most people are just in it for easy gradification - that means morals / standards aren't as important as how hot that person is you hooked up with a few nights ago.
Us genuine people are always overlooked because we will ultimately make someone bring out the best in themselves - and a lot of people aren't ready for that type of self analysis and reconstruction. It's tooo much work right now lol
So it's so much easier to just settle for whatever guy is whipping his junk out, or girl cocking her legs open. Who cares about the person they're attached too?
Anyway, guys ultimately do care about morals / standards - but like most of the youth - those factors aren't taken into greater consideration until later in life. When people have a chance to experience more, learn, and figure out what they really desire in a partner, as well as what they themselves can bring to the table.
A lot of people like to focus this question around gender - but it's honestly a case of maturity.
Some people in our youth have it figured out pretty much already, and are typically the one's who get bypassed because we refuse to settle for just anything.
But humans are incredibly impatient, and want what we want, when we want it. Being told you have to wait sucks -
However it always seems like sh*t happens first before the good stuff starts rolling in.
As far as looks - those matter too. Looks / personality are the two major things that play into choosing a partner, for both social, personal, and biological reasons. ( Has to do with the pairing of certain genes to increase immunity, variation etc...I'd go into it more but eh, you get the point :P )
So don't take it as everyone is incredibly shallow and don't care about standards - there's a lot more to it than what's apparent..
As a woman I think all men are different. Guys I know differ in many ways. There's the guy who wants the model type & could care less about her heart or brains. But then there are guys who date the girls not everyone would go for because she is different, sweet, smart etc. Take me for example; I'm a curvy woman with MANY flaws but the guys I have dated have always been athletic and attractive, the last guy I was seeing was perfect to me and I was to him. It's all about the man and how he views things. Beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder. You can't judge the whole gender based on a few.
i think we are kind of brain washed by TV and reality shows into thinking that. But I do know there are a lot of guys out there that do truly care more about the inside. I mean, that should be what matters for long term relationships. we're all going to be old and ugly someday. men don't want to have to wake up to an untrustworthy whore every morning. maybe short term but not long term. that's where our 50% divorce rate comes in. relationships won't last long if you don't enjoy the person company and don't trust them or can't have a good conversation with.
Come on, Marilyn Monroe a whore? She's an angel compared to the sluts walking around nowadays. I agree with you on the Kim Kardashian part, but I'd only hit that with a rusty ten foot pole.
Men want casual sex, that doesn't mean men don't look at the inside. I'd have sex with a hot girl with no personality, but I'd never date her. Most men are the same.
I think that some people value physical attraction over mental/emotional attraction and if a person was attracted to girl like you described then they probably would stay with her. Men and women who go for the "bad" guys and girls always think that they can change or fix their partner even when their partner has no intention of changing.
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Not all men are like this, but yes...for the most part men are shallow. But women are just as guilty of the same crime. The whole world is shallow. Tough fact of life.
Well I don't want a whore or a housewife. Yes the inside matters greatly to me. If a woman is beautiful on the inside it makes her way more beautiful on the outside.
Looks attract the man, and personality keeps him. If I have fallen in love with the girl, then I probably would stay.
QA, when it comes to negative man-hating users on this site, go come in second or third right after Udolpixie and MzNatalie...I give you 2-3 years before you turn into a complete lesbian
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