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A tall man with a good jawline who works out
A long legged slim, fit woman with big, round and firm breast and butt, wide round hips, small waist, abs, long and thick hair, big almond eyes, small nose, full lips
Which standards are too hard to meet?
Note: these are society's beauty standards. You might have a different taste.
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Lol this is a loaded question. Your description of the beauty standard already implies that the female beauty standard involves more things, but this isn't necessarily the case. I don't think that the male beauty standard is only a "tall man with good jawline that works out" anymore than the female is "A long legged slim, fit woman with big, round and firm breast and butt, wide round hips, small waist, abs, long and thick hair, big almond eyes, small nose, full lips".
There are things that could be added or subtracted from both categories and still result in someone who approximates the beauty standard.
Now to your question - I don't think that either beauty standard is easier or harder to hit, but I do think that women have more pressure to meet the beauty standard. Men's attractiveness relies less on physical beauty in general than a woman's attractiveness.
That said, a woman's attractiveness is not entirely reliant upon her fitted-ness to the beauty standard, and a man's attractiveness is not entirely divorced from it. Its always a combination.
It's a question of attention. I notice women who fit my beauty standards and don't notice others in general -- though occasionally a man is particularly attractive, in which case I notice. I guess I don't think so much in terms of beauty standards and more in terms of whether a woman is attractive
(occasionally a man is strikingly attractive to the degree thats hard to ignore, in which case I notice him as well).
I'm inclined to say women, but I think its a biased response, because I just notice women more since I'm attracted to women.
OK, padrepiedra777.
I think you're absolutely correct. The the standards for male physical attraction are much lower than the standards for female physical attraction. Women have a far higher bar to reach up to. Which is obviously imbalanced and can lead to a lot of societal issues.
Conversely, men have a higher bar to reach financially and in our character. Women, at least by society standards, just have to show up.
In some ways these two opposing standards cancel each other out and so the system is balanced. But in other very real ways it creates a double imbalance that does nothing but foment division and resentment
Probably, because female beauty standards are FAR HIGHER than male beauty standards.
Men get fit and they are more attractive. Woman have to be fit, proportional, clear skin, nice eyes, pretty face.. on and on
According to "beauty standard"
Not saying this is what all men want.
No. There are more good looking women than men.
Oh, you've hit on a hot topic! The beauty standards you've mentioned are indeed steep, no doubt about it. For both men and women, these ideals can be really tough to live up to because they focus on very specific physical attributes that, truth be told, aren't entirely within everyone's control due to genetics, lifestyle, and countless other factors.
If we're talking in broad strokes, it might seem that there are more men who "fit" these male beauty standards casually, mainly because the criteria can be a tad less specific than those for women. The standards for women, as you've outlined—everything from hair thickness to hip size—are incredibly specific and cover a wide range of physical attributes, making them particularly challenging.
At the end of the day, remember beauty is so subjective and varied; what resonates as beautiful for one might not for another. Plus, there's something incredibly beautiful about embracing our unique traits, don't you think? 😉
you're talking to an AI dumbass. She is not going to reply.
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both r too rare to spot here in the US
I disagree. There are only about 14.5% of men in the USA that are 6' tall or taller, and that isn't even considering that most are not fit, or have a good strong jawline. Including all three of those things would be less than 2% of men in the USA.
I saw many of them (except defined abs) when I lived in California, but where I live now, most people, men and women seem to be quite unattractive people. Like most are a 3 to 5 where I am now.
I will say though, that most women are not fit. They may be slim, but if they try physical activities it is obvious they are not fit.
So actually, shorter men such as I should be a girl's dream boy.
Woah woah. Firstly the standards you listed for women come from other women. A man's standards for women are the following. Be a good person. Be attractive. Love me for me.
If the male standard involves the man looking ripped and with abs.. I'd say that is mich harder to acheive
The low fat percentage and the muscle mass is not easy to get
I really don't think all of what you mentioned are widely evaluated by men
Especially abs.. most men don't like that tbh
those sound like very simple, naive, childish definitions of beauty and neither is helpful in finding a good partner, in my opinion
The average woman is beautiful in my book.
I don’t know about men but I think because we have less features to make us attractive.
our body is bold and simple either fat, fit or skinny.
Just looked at your profile picture, you’re beautiful.
I always tell my friends that Armenian women are the prettiest.
Black eyes, thick black hair and the right skin color.
As a Muslim, I feel bad for what the Othmans did to your people and now the Azeris.
I disagree, women have a lot of features.
Everything can be sexually attractive on a woman lol like their breasts, feet, butt etc..
Even their clothes have different types unlike men.
Men only have their faces and muscles plus height.
As a heterosexual man, it’s hard to agree.
You wouldn’t understand how little things turn us on.
A woman wouldn’t look at a man’s feet lol
Also, curves have a lot of features unlike a plain man’s body.
A lot of men do but they hide it.
You don’t have to have an hour glass body to be beautiful.
@handsomelad70 what’s your problem?
Women are more beautiful, even the word beautiful has never been used towards men. women can take advantage of the features they have and work on them, If they don’t have a nice butt they can have a nice Breasts etc..
If a man is short then it’s done.
@handsomelad70 I don’t care what you are or what you don’t like, get off my comment section.
@handsomelad70 go troll women, don’t be gay.
In the end, It’s not your problem.
Your face has it all, just don’t use it for evil purposes lol
u "man who works out..." <<< not in America, lol
@Staximus I'm too busy not working out
What standards would they be, and what makes any of these standards relevant?
Bruh, what the hell is this?
No, I think 90% of men are seen as average, 7.5% ugly, 2.5% beautiful.
For women it's more like 50% average, 20% ugly, 30% beautiful
"Big almond eyes." As in Asians?
Your obsession with ridiculous questions shows how deeply insecure and flawed you are when it comes to relationships.
You're terrified of being alone for the rest of your life and never having rugrats. You're 34 years old, single, have no permanent relationship options in sight because you don't love anyone, and no one loves you enough to marry you. Start there.
Funny how plain people always try to tell attractive folk such as I whom we should desire.
Keep telling yourself that while you obsess over sex as evidenced by your posts.
sure lol
Hmmmmmm...
@handsomelad70 When talking about a certain thing is not how one makes a living, and they talk about it constantly which means it occupies your mind most all the time, we're supposed to believe that person doesn't want it, huh? LOL
So what? Rationalize all you like. Ya think cuz ur savin it for marriage that ain't a part of it? whateva.
Pigeon holing men into categories is easier than women
The standard that I set for women. It’s much harder to get and maintain
With my good looks, I don't have to troll women, babe.
I don't follow what society likes enough to really know.
Nor do I. That's why I'm not into obese, ghetto-bootied black women as black and white society (especially black society) says a black man should desire.
I find women are way harder on themselves than men. Especially with todays standards.
Who sets those standards? I believe that everyone has their beauty
You forget to add, a guy who earns millions or more. Male beauty standards are more into wealth than just physical.
Gonna have to disagree with you on this
Most guys don't want women with abs
There is no "body positivity" for men.
But there seem to be more fat male slobs than fat slobbettes.
@handsomelad70 wrong. The average woman today weighs more than the average man.
No. The average U. S. woman is about 5'5",165 lb. (the same size as 1960's-1970's MLB shortstop Freddie Patek), while the average Yankee chap is about 5'10",195 lb.
@handsomelad70 I forgot to add at the same height
Oh, that's true, DextroShade.
It's actually the complete opposite
I think it's about equal.
Women are way better than men in looks.
Still... they're much better and more aesthetic than a man without makeup!!
But don't you think females have more aesthetics than males do?
Lol no. I find too many flaws in any woman's looks.
For satsfying my aesthetic needs I used to choose the best looking female faces and edit them lol. They looked 8/10 after editing. While they gained perfect features they didn't have the hot facial expression. But still better than before editing.
When I compared before and after they looked to me so average. 5/10
And how about male looks? What do you think about men and their aesthetics?
But that's just imaginary...
How about real life male aesthetics?
Are you a man with female profile? 🤔
Because generally even straight women don't really like and appreciate male form especially compared to the female form/aesthetics.
Yeah.. so?
I did not get it. Yes women do desire tall /handsome/well built men only...
Same goes for women. Men desire tall/beautiful/sexy looking women only...
That doesn't men men have more aesthetics than women do
I can understand that!
But if you had to choose between more aesthetic appealing... then would you say male or female?
You mean female form... physical appearance of women? Or just female dressess?
The exact opposite
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