Ladies, why do you dress slutty or try to show off to guys on social media/online?

[Anonymous]

I try not to stare, but like you all make it hard. I wish it was like back in the 50s where women wore long dresses. At least I wouldn’t have to worry about having a perverted mindset. Like it’s unnecessary. Don’t you want a guy to like you for who you are? Not by your body? I’m not perfect either, so thus why I’m urging you to dress yourself as you respect yourself. My girlfriend doesn’t even wear provocative clothing. And I had chosen her over the typical short shorts wearing girls with the heels.

[RebelinSteel]

Well that’s some 1950’s thinking there. People can dress to how they feel (with some limits), if a girl wants to wear a short skirt and top to go shopping she can. She is not dressing slutty it’s just your brain views her that way.
Why the hell should others have to dress safely just because you struggle to contain your perverted mindset….

[Asker]

I’m talking about seeking attention. No need

[RebelinSteel]

You literally said

At least I wouldn’t have to worry about having a perverted mindset.

That is you projecting your dodgy mindset issues on to how people dress.

[Asker]

Yeah, bug seeking attention was the main reason…. I’m not dodging anything here LOL

[Asker]

But*

[MisterWack]

“ I wish it was like back in the 50s where women wore long dresses “
Hmmm Solution: Stop going on social media / don’t follow those accounts and mind your own damn business, stop being such a snowflake. 1950s had lingerie ads, models, and sex symbols too (Marilyn Monroe)

[Nikki1989]

If you think it is slutty, that says more about you than it does the woman.

[Asker]

That’s like me saying I can walk around naked. Those who look are the ones who shouldn’t be staring

[joshjosh1156]

“Don’t you want a guy to like you for who you are? Not your body?”


There’s your problem. Woman aren’t dressing necessarily dressing “slutty” to get guys to like them. That’s an outdated and archaic way of thinking. Ever stop to think maybe they just like the way it looks? What’s wrong with that?

[Asker]

They can wear what they want. Not saying they can’t. I’m not their father. But if they had a good father, she wouldn’t dress like that in the first place. Guys like you are failing women….

[joshjosh1156]

Guys like me are failing woman by treating them like they aren’t just there for men? That’s some real incel speak you got going on there buddy

[Asker]

Nope. Because I have a girlfriend who respects herself. Those women don’t.

[joshjosh1156]

How is dressing a certain way not respecting themself? Who are you to determine a respectful way for a woman to dress?

[Nikki1989]

@joshjosh1156 At least one guy gets it.

[Asker]

Do you see little kids dressing like that? Of course not. Because it’s not right.

[Asker]

@Nikki1989 a simp?

[joshjosh1156]

What does little kids have to do with anything? Why when talking about how woman dressing you’re suddenly talking about little kids? That’s creepy.

[Asker]

You said “How is dressing a certain way not respecting themself? Who are you to determine a respectful way for a woman to dress?” Do you understand English simp? Because guys like you are the ones who defends this, but these same women don’t date men like you.

[joshjosh1156]

Yes guys like me defend that woman should be able to dress however they want just like men. If believing in equality makes me a simp oh well. I feel sorry for your girlfriend. I wonder if she knows you don’t consider her an equal?

[Asker]

Equality doesn’t mean anything. Didn’t you just heard me simp? I said they can dress however they want. Doesn’t mean that doesn’t come with judgement. I wore a person’s face as a mask like the Texas chainsaw massacre, do you still believe I can dress in whatever I want? And my girlfriend dresses herself. I don’t tell her how to dress or anything, simp. And you know she dresses like that? Because she wanted to. All a sudden the equality guy doesn’t believe my girlfriend can dress modest? Oh my, what a joke…

[joshjosh1156]

This is exhausting. Clearly you weren’t actually looking for an opinion. Which is weird considering that’s what this app is for. I suggest maybe going to like a kkk meeting or a taliban gathering to find people who might share more of the same opinions with you.

[Asker]

I think saying that is too far. I can’t wait to tell my girlfriend who dresses like a normal girl in America that some guy thinks you belong to the taliban for dressing like a respectable woman.

[Asker]

But I really want to apologize to you. I’m sorry for sounding mean. I didn’t mean to do so. I just was trying to defend myself on this matter. I don’t think you’re bad. Or anything. And I have no anger towards. Please forgive me on that

[Berethor]

Are you muslim who want to force women to wear burka? I don't care about short dresses.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/rcsG-u2GtZE

[Asker]

No. Women can wear what they want. I’m not their dads.

[strateguy632]

What some call slutty is just stylish not slutty. Learn what a culture is before condemned it.

[paledreams]

Some women just like to show off skin in their 20s :) prime ♀️👠

[Asker]

Yeah, but you do that for your partner. Not for strangers

[paledreams]

Oh some women potentially may dress slutty in public because they're always on the prowl - you know, grass is always greener on the single side lol 😆 - I'm not saying all people out there are potential wandering eyes cheaters lol 👁️👀👁️

[paledreams]

Then again 🧐 some couples bicker and fight and it's like grow apart and one wonders why they even got together lol 😆😆😆 broadly

[Anonymous]

Oh look a member of the Taliban... Disturbing.

[Anonymous]

dressing slutty = more male attention