Which is more attractive? A dad bod or abs?

[Anonymous]

I always wonder what people finds more attractive

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

I have those defined groin muscles, I never thought I would have them, but I got them.

Still got 14kg to lose before I get to full Olympic rowing BMI.

But I'm 6ft1 and broad/powerful at 100kg/98kg, so dropping 5kg here and there isn't too crazzy.

[emeraldsaphire]

I mean fit I guess. I don't really care too much about that part to be honest. It's not about what you look like, it's how you make me feel. I'm not saying physical stuff isn't important, but appearance really only matters in the beginning. It's how I decide if someone is worth my time. The thing is I mostly look at faces. So this kinda thing just seems unimportant.

[asarjam]

LOL obviously the abs.

But how you use the body usually matters most - personality, sexual IQ, body movement, how you treat a girl, the clothes you choose to off-set the belly.

Lots of room to win an attractive girl to someone with high-end courtship talent. But if your personality is the same as your belly, you are in big trouble. :)

[Anonymous]

A study I looked at a while back showed that giant, roided out guys were the least desirable body type. Even less desirable than obese guys and scrawny guys. Athletic builds were, by far, the most desirable. Heavy, but muscular, builds were really popular too.

[1073sucks]

Skinny and scrawny desirable? Doubt.
This is probably ONLy true among 16-17 year olds because after that, skinny does not look appealing. I personally was only attracted to skinny guys for a short period during high school and after that I saw it as unappealing. Skinny is just as bad as fat or too bulky all on same boat. For or slightly chubby is best look for men

[Opinion Owner]

@1073sucks they weren't desirable. They were some of the lowest scored body types. But the roided guy was the single lowest score, below the scrawny guy and obese guy.

[Screenwriter]

A fit body is always more attractive, though there are afionados for all body types. Some people like spongy male bodies. I don't think it's a good look.

[Anonymous]

I like both but I have a weakness for a dad bod I'm a baker so I make lots of treats for my husband and he's finally getting some fat rolls... small ones he's 6'3 and in shape he's a diesel mechanic but I will pinch them and call them my cinnamon rolls lol

[Anonymous]

Nobody actually likes a dad bod.
if you fall for someone with an dad bod you’re gonna like him however he is but you didn’t love him BECAUSE of his “dad bod”, it’s not eye appealing. Neither in men or in women. It’s just not.

[Opinion Owner]

I want to add that big giant muscles are just as unappealing as dad bods.
Just being fit with some muscle is ideal. Flat stomachs are sexy on anyone as long as they’re not “skinny” you don’t need tonnage super Abs either but don’t be “skinny” cause that’s unattractive to me personally. Skinny arms too and you don’t have to have super muscular arms just skinny arms to me in men are not appealing. Looks like an overgrown child.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Are you a personal trainer or something? You seem to have thought A LOT about what is and isn't physically attractive.

[Opinion Owner]

@FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa it’s called common sense. Not everyone will agree there ARE exceptions, this is simple an over all. When you find commonsense you’ll understand.

An example is saying a fit woman look more desirable than a fat one that has no defined lines. Then you’ll find the odd people that prefer the fat looking round bodies and say what I just said is a lie. It’s not a lie, they are simply an EXCEPTION, which is the minority, those with common sense understand that in average, the typical man will find a fit body more attractive than a 300pound etc.

Simple Common sense but it’s not actually common especially against those leaning toward the left. Are you a leftist? Most likely if you can’t grasp the simplicity of what I’m pointing out here.

[Nikki1989]

I hate the term dad bods, but if that is the current terminology, then that is what I like. Average, normal bodies. This nonsense that nobody likes dad bods is ridiculous.

[lilBigPotato]

I like both but not obese like in the picture. It should still be at a normal weight range, just don't need to be too muscular. Obviously if someone is in great shape that's nice

[Elliegirl]

I don’t mind either way as long as he looks healthy. I’m not that into chiseled abs, but I’d rather he not have a big belly either.

[AnonAndrew]

Are you serious? :D

Abs, obviously. Fit is always going to be more attractive than fat to 99% of people.

[Douglas1179]

Your low self esteem is manifesting itself. Not everyone has an irrational preoccupation with body image.

[Hwassa]

If he is healthy then it doesn't matter but he needs to be sweet and kind tho

[debbiedenise]

Fit bods, but some guys can carry off the "Dad Bod." look pretty well.

[FreyaRed]

How can a girl resist to a good nourished huge beer bag. XD

[DeeDeeDeVour]

LOL!

Is this a trick question?

[Anonymous]

Regular lean. I dislike the chisled look only because of the brain attached. It tends to be obsessive personality. That is hard to live with as much as lazy dad bods brains.

[NathanDavis]

to each their own... that's how it always is

[AviatorTom]

All guys have abs, it's just that most of us guys hide them under our dad bod. 🙄

[MoonFace2]

Abs but at my age I’d take either. My body isn’t perfect either.

[Mac-One]

The breasts are ok but the sagging stomach has to go.

[andreasderjuengere]

I'm a ''Dad'' - and I don't resemble both types.

What's wrong with me? :D

[Hellraiser1984]

No woman will ever pick the dad bod. If they say they will they are lying. Just like no guy will pick the fat woman.

[Knightwatch27]

Try to ask something less pointless. Everyone knows it's muscles.

[marshmallowcream]

Abs , don’t like a dad bod at all

[TadBehaya]

Abs any day! 💯

[PeterLegg91]

Good choice ;)

[IslaTheWitch]

healthy

[exitseven]

I will take the abs.

[Sabrina_Caleri]

Abs/olutly

[exitseven]

I see what you did there

[RingOfFire]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Unit1]

Clever one

[DrPepper12]

Abs n pecs where it's at

[valentina4eva]

absss👌🏻

[Anonymous]

anyone who says dad bod is virtue signaling

[aromatic_xo]

Obviously abs

[PeterLegg91]

Abs easily , yes please

[missindiana93]

Abs definitely.

[PeterLegg91]

Why you choose abs? :) had a good Christmas?

[rogofff]

Lol. Obviously abs.

[RageBabe]

Woah. 😧

[Anonymous]

Abs.

[Anonymous]

Abs.