Guys, what methods do you use to hide the fact that you’re staring at a woman?

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I know a few of these such as whipping out your phone, looking at everything else, or wearing dark sunglasses? Is there any unknown methods lol I know I’m asking you to spill your secrets here, just curious.

DonaldDarko · Accepted Answer

You can't really stair at women you can only glance. Using the peripheral vision is best because you don't turn your head. That or you just look from far off. In the 21st century you're not going to find women that are much worth looking at anyway. They're going to be covered in tattoos , have metal stuck in their face. If they don't it's going to be dude energy or you're just going to be aware of the puke inducing "body count". These are not very nice ladies, they're dystopian monstrosities from an Orwell inspired sci fi novel.

Wise4myage · Accepted Answer

Sunglasses, lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The biggest strategies they use are scaring me, challenging, gaslighting, threatening (including potential rape threats-oral sex counts as sex even if a woman is heterosexual), insulting, destroying peace, coding to ruin my life, playing games while I just mind my business, competing even when I just want to coexist, destroying my memory, destroying my REAL history and creating a completely new situation to CHALLENGE even when all I ever wanted was to be held and good leadership qualities.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Lol. Good question. Here are a few I picked up and will contribute (though I'm interested to hear what the fellows admit to as well): A guy will stand behind you and watch you bc he knows you can't see him so he'll stare in peace. A guy will shift his gaze to a point just past your ear then act like you're the one who was staring at them.  A guy will use peripheral vision to keep an eye on "his gal" then comment on something he supposedly didn't see.

Fashionista Amy · Accepted Answer

It's all about subtlety! You could always pretend to be deeply engrossed in a book or magazine while sneaking a glance. Adjusting your jacket or pretending to check the time can also work. Keeping it light and respectful ensures everyone feels comfortable. 👀 Remember, the key is to be respectful and not make anyone uncomfortable.

Tom567456 · Answer

Omg this is embarrassing. I was on a transatlantic flight to France to see my family (they're French) and I was sitting next to (whom I thought) a beautiful woman and we got to talking. She told be she was Moroccan and anyhow she was dark and gorgeous. She was alone (I didn't see her with any family) but she told me she had a baby and she was going over to see them. After several hours I couldn't help but notice that the front of her shirt seemed dark/damp (I mean she had a very large chest and parts seemed wet, a dark wet stain I mean) so I assumed she was lactating. I couldn't help but think of her topless (yes, large breasts with large dark areaolas in my imagination) and I got an erection and honestly I got wet too (but I covered it with a book I'd been reading so she couldn't see my bulge). She seemed not to notice that she was wet and that I was aroused.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I keep a folding cane and dark glasses in my backpack. I pull a Stevie Wonder act and it fools them every time. Sometimes I'll do Ray Charles instead...

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I don't really Stare at women... Even the butts because I'm always cautious that somebody could be watching me.. But on the occasion of when I do stare I just make sure they have no idea that I'm looking.. So I use the slick method many women use, which is to stare when they are looking away or preoccupied with something else.. It doesn't always work when they are either trying to sneaky look as well or are very observant..

Shiprex · Answer

Motorcycle helmet though it's probable a motorcycle is being ridden so the "staring" tends to be more like seeing, spotting or noticing. It's only staring when it's noticed and she feels something about it

Bricealan · Answer

@noirette put on dark glasses, so she can't see where I am looking, or pretend to be looking at my phone, while REALLY taking pictures of her ass and Camel toe

WhiteSteve · Answer

When I check out girls at the gym, it’s via a series of somewhere between one and maybe six mirror reflections😂

Likes2drive · Answer

I have really good peripheral vision so they never know if I do want to look lol but I never stare but I may glance and I’m at the beach. I have dark sunglasses on anyway so then it’s even easier if I want to.

Makeushiver · Answer

I usually don't bother to hide it. If I am interested I'll make sure she knows

ShrunkenGuy · Answer

Should only glance or multiple glances, it’s rude to stare.

Pretend I think she looks familiar and I know her then realise she’s not who I thought she was.

I’m looking behind her, for a street sign, a shop, an address, perhaps nature (tree/leaves behind her) whatever is plausible.

Should remain a gentleman, even if appreciating the beauty of the world on display.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I had no idea guys did that lol. Just kidding. I like what u said sunglasses or looking at my phone. I try not to perv or be a creep however. But I am a horny young male... what can I say!

TrimmedTip · Answer

Wear sunglasses
Use peripheral vision
Glance briefly, not stare
Pretend to look past her
Check phone while glancing
Use reflections (mirrors/windows)
Talk to someone while looking
Time it when she’s not looking

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

I generally don't stare but when I do, I have directed my gaze above the gazee. Sometimes it works other times, it does not and when caught the best thing to do is smile and acknowledge. Apologize if necessary.

Desi_Butcher · Answer

It's inevitable to not adore or glance at a pretty lady but at the same time I don't like making a woman uncomfortable. So I only check them out while they're not looking at me or occupied into anything else. Bonus if we make an eye contact and then she's interested in checking me out as well lol

Anonymous · Answer

Just paying attention to where her eyes are looking, and taking advantage when her head is turned.

Same strategies I think women probably employ, but women are typically just better at them and/or care more about not getting caught.

Women are better at deceit in general.

nl171 · Answer

I don’t hide it. I just keep eye contact and if I look I smile at them

LiamS95 · Answer

If I really like her I don't hide it at all.

genericname85 · Answer

i just don't stare. staring is stupid. you can take little peeks. the best tactic for that is reflective shades. and even then you don't stare. you take a peek and then turn your head else where and close your eyes. use the effect of visual persistence instead of bluntly staring. and even then i try to look for reflective surfaces instead of peeking directly. that way you can get away with way more.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Look away when I think she's caught onto my ogling.

SotiCoto · Answer

I always wear sunglasses outside because I'm light-sensitive to the point where I can't see in normal light levels...
That said, I don't have cause to stare most of the time because I'm just not that interested. More often than not I catch people staring at ME because they assume I'm blind or something. That said, if I'm inclined to inspect someone, I'll keep my face turned away as a precaution, even though they can't see through my glasses.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

I always use an extra eye! 😬👍

Anonymous · Answer

I'm scared to look at woman because I'm worried they'll think I'm a creep. I always try to slowly look away and pretend I was looking past her or in the area instead of looking at her. I don't really check woman out either. It's more like if they enter my field of view I might think they're pretty. Another part of it though is my anxiety. I have trouble making eye contact with people because it makes me uncomfortable and feel threatened and exposed.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Look away every so often, then look back when she's not paying attention.

noohair · Answer

The caveman part of the brain does a constant evaluation of every woman it sees as a candidate to pass DNA. Even 70 year old men do this. It was very important in ancient times and less important today. So if you get mad at a guy for this you are just going to cause trouble. It is done on a subconscious level. Women have this attitude that they can fix things in a candidate for a partner and that is also a bad idea because you can only fix yourself.

MackBoy · Answer

Easy way stare is take the phone camera and take photos, if that girl asks taking photos of her, I will show my selfie photos taken and send the photos of her recycle bin. When she asks I can show her my gallery and she be like I didn't take any photos. Isn't my unknown method great?😛

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I don’t typically stare at people at all. If i do, it’s usually because i don’t care about the social implications as much as my safety, or someone else’s. So i won’t be the least bit worried about hiding it.

Anonymous · Answer

I just sneak glances when she isn't looking and pray I don't get caught.

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RingOfFire · Answer

🤣🤣🤣 Dark sunglasses do the trick. They can't see your eyes roaming and neither can the girl you are with. So EVERYBODY is happy. 🙂

Billlewis · Answer

I usually wear a baseball cap, because I hate sunglasses.

Benjiman19 · Answer

I prefer to look past someone who I'm trying to look at. Look at something else past them and then go back to what I was doing by looking at her before I do. Or to wait until she's turned away to get a look at her back side.

Paige90 · Answer

They wear sunglasses

TrueConfection · Answer

This question reminds me of that scene in Grown Ups when the guys take turns staring at the girl fixing her car. 😎

Anonymous · Answer

"Staring?" I don't stare, I glance. Staring would make me feel kind of guilty/creepy anyway.

Zylos · Answer

Looking at everything but her. It sucks, but you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.

WonderingManII · Answer

I don't hide it, I just look at her, and look away. If I notice she isn't looking at me, then I will look a little longer.

sinestro23 · Answer

I've literally never "Stared" at a woman... kinda creepy

jamesgoldman · Answer

I don't but then I'm checking their jewellery not them

AviatorTom · Answer

I don't hide that. If I find a woman is attractive enough to look at, I look.

Katrina5 · Answer

Sunglasses , their on phones or they say looking at the wall. I use that method to check out people I’m interested in.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Why hide or stare? Smile & say hello! Am I missing something here? 🧐

MOUTHWASHING · Answer

I dont. I just stare at them and wait for them to notice. Then if they stare back i move to talk to them

Knightwatch27 · Answer

I don't hide it lol. I stare if I see a beatiful woman. She doesn't like it I quit it, she doesn't mind I keep staring.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

No methods, when i look at a woman, i don't hide it!

LiamJHayden · Answer

I don't hide it on the rare occasion I do so.

Anonymous · Answer

I usually look away.

Anonymous · Answer

When I was a kid I'd use the pocket change method.

Thecubs22 · Answer

No you'll catch me playing it off, by looking at something else. Especially if she's very sexy looking. Lol!

Boobslover01 · Answer

Dark Sunglasses

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I look right into their souls 😳

Reijen · Answer

The side eye. Gotta really practice it.

Asgard356 · Answer

Rest my arms on my lap

Anonymous · Answer

yeah find an angle in which she can barely see you

robocop666 · Answer

I dont they check me out instead.

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