Wha is being myself?

[Anonymous]

I am a transwoman but I wear man’s clothing. I just feel blending in. But I was in trouble when I look for a boy friend. Gays are not into me because I am too feminine and I was unnoticeable for the men who look for transgender. In my mind being myself doesn’t necessarily have to do with clothing. Clothing is just clothing. But it matters to a lot of people. I guess we are visual. I am very shy and scared to dress up. I feel like I am going to be judged a lot. My psychiatrist tell me to do it. Don’t care what other people think. But I was building up my image as a man even though I act talk like a man. I can become an actor. But they don’t seem to be interested in Asian actors because Asians look like Indian who white people murdered them billions of them. I like white guys and some white guys are nice but I don’t know. Maybe I just go back to Korea become an actor there

I mean what is being myself? Wearing a women’s clothing or just live as a man? I am confused..

Updates

6 mo

I meant even though I talk act like a woman*

[AI Opinion]

Being yourself is about embracing what makes you feel authentic and comfortable. It sounds like you're experiencing a lot of external pressure and confusion about identity. Remember, clothing is a form of self-expression, not a definitive label. It’s okay to experiment and find what resonates with you without feeling pressured by others’ expectations. Your comfort and happiness are most important. Allow yourself the freedom to explore what feels right in the moment, and know that’s valid and valuable. It's a journey of self-discovery, and there's no rush to define it perfectly. 😊

[Berethor]

All transgenders are confused, you born as a male, so wearing man’s clothing is being yourself, gays really have a problem with feminine act? didn't many of them act feminine too?

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Camp_Gay

[slatyb]

You have to decide for yourself. No one can tell you who you are. We all have to choose whether to change our clothing style to attract others, or to wear what we like and hope to attract someone who is happy with that.