Ex still wears things I gave to him, does it mean anything?

[Anonymous]

And his friend also still talks to me?

I'm asking cause I keep seeing photos of when he's performing he's still using the guitar strap I gave him (he has plenty others) and the belt I gave him. Those are the two almost perm. things that appear.

Also, his friend who performs with him and is fairly close to him speaks to me; sends me links to their new songs to ask me to listen. We all have qualifications in music, and when me and my ex were together he would send everything through me as almost verfication if it was good.

The two songs were called:

"Never Alone" and "Being Without You". Being Without you was definitely written by my ex (I know his composition style)

Now, everything else he does implies he's at least trying to move on. I'm just confused, I thought it was a "no-no" to talk to a close friend's ex, and if he is moving on, why does he still wear the stuff I gave him...?

Updates

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My mistake, he wrote the usic to "Being Without You" and he wrote all of "Never Alone"

Does it change things?

[krazzyfour36]

He still loves you but doesn't show it.. I think he wants you to restart... Because he's restarting will show him down(in his sense)... You should try then!

[Asker]

Thing is, I've tried contacting him 3 times to at least make it not awkward, not necessarily back together, and he's blocked me online on stuff..last time we saw each other he completely ignored me.

And then he does stuff like this... it just seems really weird?!?!

(Btw, yes, I still love him, but I also want him to have space to mature, and me space to sort my life out, so I'm OK being single for now)

[krazzyfour36]

Just tell him that you still love him as soon as you get the first chance to contact him from now... Because I don't think You want to regret it later(not telling him)! Just take the chance gal.. You'll have to... He may reject and you can live the life you are living but think if he agrees your life will be happier ... Just tell him All the best wishes from me!

[Asker]

He hasn't blocked me on Facebook but I don't want to do it on Facebook. I sent him an email before I was put under a general basically saying, look, I want us to be friends I don't want you to feel awkward around me (I was scared I wouldn't wake up again) and he ignored that. I still have his Xbox as well..

True. Do you think it would be best done in person? I would feel best with that I think... maybe that's too much? Thank you hun, much appreciated!

[krazzyfour36]

Of course sweetheart... If not internet, not mobile phone, not messaging, then talking in person would be best .. Just attack him at the first chance and believe in yourself because you WANNA do it! And you're welcome!

[Asker]

Well, the methods I've tried is texting, email and in person, but in all fairness I didn't try very hard in person!

Absolutely...can't hurt right?

I'm going to add you as a friend, I don't mind you knowing who I am because you're lovely! :D

[krazzyfour36]

Wow! Really that's so sweet of you! So, for IN PERSON its my all the best wishes to you dear! And if you don't mind can you hit me up at fb because am more active on it!

[Asker]

I'm more active on it too but if it's OK, I'd like to get to know you a little better first?

[Asker]

Screw it actually, I'll take a risk haha, PM me your Facebook or something :)

[krazzyfour36]

Haha.. I would like to be tested : how am i? Lol Facebook.com/krazzyfour36

[Asker]

No No not at all what I meant, I've just had a bad experience before, added someone and they were a bit of a creep...big mistake haha

[krazzyfour36]

Haha.. Hm.. I know.. But wheres the 'friend request' I was about to receive on fb? =)

[Asker]

Sent it now, sorry I had to go earlier