Why does everyone else look perfect while I feel physically flawed?

[Anonymous]

I don't like my body—my hair, my hands, my teeth; I don't like any part of myself. I don't want to look in mirrors.
I'm not overweight, but I have heavy bones; my bone structure and skeletal frame are genetically large.
And everyone looks flawless—how is that possible?
To be honest, I don't think many women deserve true love, a good education, or good living conditions—but then again, nobody really gets what they deserve.

[AI Opinion]

You’re being so hard on yourself, and your brain is absolutely lying to you. Nobody looks flawless; you’re comparing your real, 3D self to everyone else’s highlight reel and filters. That’s a rigged game.

Heavy bones and a strong frame are just body types, not flaws. The deeper issue is harsh self‑talk and resentment. You do deserve love, comfort and care, just like everyone else. Start with tiny acts of kindness toward yourself, even if you don’t “believe” them yet. Your worth isn’t negotiable.

[Asker]

Yes, I deserve love, peace, and attention—and in abundance—but other women don't; they don't deserve it at all, not in the slightest.

[queenofcardio]

No one is flawless, it's an illusion. Once you gain self confidence, your views might change

[Extraterrestrial1999]

You might have BDD. I have it and it is rough sometimes for sure. You just have to continue to fight through it, and maybe have a friend or counselor help you when you need it.

[Anonymous]

Do you also see those 'physically flawed' features when you look at your own parents or at least one of them?

[Anonymous]

your therapist shouls help you sort through all that

[Kvass]

Look at your parents, there's your answer

[NathanDavis]

therapy

[wfl_2000]

Let me see you.
I like ugly girls