Adorable/cute VS. Hot

[Anonymous]

Reccently a boy I'm kinda into has told me and other s that I'm adorible and cute, he has used the word hot once to me directly when he was smashed. Other than that anytime he talks about me to people (hes a friend of my bff bf, so only a select few of his friends know me) he will say that I'm adorible or cute.

I'm totally taking this the wrong way and thinking bad things so I want to straightened out lol

So I want to know boys what is the difference when you call a girl adorible or cute vs hot.

[bunny420]

hot = more sexual, less for relationship

cute = likes your personality, could find you quite attractive.

Nothing's set in stone though to be honest. He could be calling you cute because generally that's a safer option than hot to use. If he said you were hot people might start asking if he likes you, which he might not want.

That could have been why he told he was drunk, it could have just that he's drunk though...

It's hard to tell, but one thing I do know is that if you get called either it's a good thing. And it would put you closer to going out with him. I know a lot of guys that have used both phrases and often they want to or are going out with the girl they're talking about.

Feel free to ask any questions.

x

[Asker]

Id love to know your opinion on the adorible thing? That kinda threw me off cause I honestly have never had a guy call me adorible before.

He super touchy feeling with me and we do cuddle a bit but the present of alcohol is there. We only really see each other on outings with friends right now.

We have hooked up when we were both drunk and since than he's told people I was adorible still. So its kinda confusing lol

[bunny420]

Your super cuddly, you once hooked up, he almost certainly likes you!! :P

He does think your adorable, that's why he says it.

Do you think he's adorable, and like him?

[Asker]

I try not to like people until I know them well enough. He's a super sweet fun guy forsure! but I only met him in november, and I'm pretty cautious with this kinda stuff. The hooking up kinda threw me off cause I'm paranoid it was all for sex. The adorible thing kinda makes me think of a five year old..so I'm paranoid..

[bunny420]

Aww :(

well maybe it's the best word he can use without making it seem like he was just in it for sex ;)

ye it is often used to describe things that are innocent, but that doesn't necessarily mean he sees you as young or stupid.

I've described girls I like as adorable once or twice, cos I think they are :P

If he's generally nice and has known you quite a while then he probably isn't just out for sex, he might have stopped bothering about you now if that was the case.

Maybe you could ask him how

[bunny420]

He feels about you?

if your ok with being that direct?

[Asker]

From anybody who knows him tells me he's a completely nice guy so I should definately in trust in him more. But he did tell me one time that he doesn't feel like he's in a situation right now to be anything serious with anyone*this was before anything at all ever started with us* So I don't want to push it and I feel the same, I don't really want to be committed and daitng just yet more like see what can happen with this.

[bunny420]

Ok to sum up I'd say just have fun with him and let it happen when its ready, which I'm sure it will ;)

[Asker]

Haha I can only hope I'm that lucky, things tend to not work out for me..explains why I'm so paranoid going into this situation

[bunny420]

Aww same here :(, just try to have a positive outlook, you've gotten this far, you must have done something right =D

[Asker]

Haha I guess so eh. and its not the type of guy I usually go for so I'm hoping that's a good sign

[jmk167]

hes calling yu cutee and adorable be cause he likes yu he doesn't want to use you he wants to be with you. he doesn't say hott or sexy cuzz he probably thinks you woulnt like it. cuzz most of the time when you say a girls hott all yu think is...danm that girls hott id f*** her.. you don't think like ...danm that girls hot I wanna get to know her.

hes being cute with you be cute back I tell my girl she cute adorable gorgeous and beautiful alll the time she loves it. I only say she's hott she asks me bout what she's wheres or if I'm horny or were f***ing.

this kid likes you he's just unsure if like him back. he's trying to treat you good. show him you care about him and if you want him to say yu hott tell him I prefer hott over cute.

[darlanoy0510]

Before my crush admitted that he likes me back, he would always say I'm cute and adorable. When he's drunk then I'm very hot , beautiful and sexy to him.lol I think if you want a relationship w him then you should be satisfly with being called cute. When boys are drunk, the girl that they like are always sexy and hot to them because they are sexually attract to her too. In the boy mind, hot mean I want you now and to have sex w you now.

[Asker]

I never said I wasnt sastified! not at all Adorible was just kinda weird cause I find it as a little sister kinda thing so it just seemed outta place.

Plus my closest guy friend always calls girls cute if he doesn't want to date them and someone asks him about them. So he definately put some worry in my head.

[darlanoy0510]

Sorry about that. Many guys wouldn't use the word "hot" to the girl that they want to have relationship with because it sounds impolite. Next time when you see your guy friend, ask him to say your cute again and look at his facial expression and eyes. He might develop some crush for you. Watch his actions like the ways he talks you, plays around with you and hangs out with you. Guys are very easy to read when they're in love or like someone.

[Asker]

He pretty playful with me like hell poke fun and stuff, and were usually with a group of people and hell stand near me all night, and have saved me when sleezes have been talking to me.On a few occasions we've cuddles and he'd sit with his arm around me and talk to me like I'm the only one in the room.

He usually calls me adorible, and it most definately made me heart melt. lol

I'm super worried cause we did slept together once and I'm worried its about sex only.

[darlanoy0510]

I think you guys need to sit down and talk to each other about where do both of you want this relationship head to . He clearly adore and seems to care about you. Everything you said about him seem to point that he have more feeling toward you than friendship. what type of guys he is? Is he shy? He might afraid to say anything to you because you might reject him.

[Asker]

Ive only known him since november so from what I've seen he seems kinda shy, and a little self concious and talking to people he's not very experienced with dating. I'm kinda worried to talk things to far cause before anything like this even happened with us in a conversation we had he said that he's doesn't feel like he's a position right now that he wants anything to go furthere with a girl, none specifically we were just talking in general.

[The-Dude-Next-Door]

The words adorable and cute have much more value to me than the word hot. I would use the word adorable to describe a girl who I was falling for or I at least thought of her as a close friend. Cute means that the guy views you as attractive and sweet. Using the words cute and adorable add an emotional attraction.

Lets just say I prefer "cute" and "adorable" girls much more than "hot" girls.

[seriouslyimlikewtf]

Whenever I call a girl cute or adorable, it means that I really like her. If I call her hot, it just seems sort of sexist, and I never have a chance with her, but I say adorable/cute because I want to give off the message "i like the way you look, and I care what you think about me."

OR

I like the girl, but it is hard to tell others for whatever reason, so I can use a less strong word

[maumau1000000]

Honestly, it's not that different. Sometimes I use the words interchangeably. If he called you hot when he smashed, I'm pretty sure he thinks you're hot. Drunkenness tends to reveal a lot. Why he usually calls you cute is a bit of a mystery to me, but hot is the word I usually use when I talk about girls. Cute could be his preferred word. I wouldn't worry about it.

[Anonymous]

Cute = relationship

Hot = sex slave

To be crude, in a generalization

[Asker]

Haha I don't find that crude at all! right to the point!

what about the adorible he definately calls me that more than cute! I take that as like a little sister kind way..which is kinda weird cause weve hooked up.

[Opinion Owner]

If he uses adorable I think he could look at you in a more, well, like he's protective of you, he thinks you're innocent, and he probably likes to see you smile or blush when he compliments you. He takes things from sexual, to a more, innocent and happy tone when he uses the words cute and/or adorable.

[Opinion Owner]

Though this is all conjecture.

[Asker]

I totally agree with the compliment thing..when were together mostly drunk*we realy don't see each other other situation like it hasn't been advance yet lol* He very cuddle and affectionate and I totally eat the affect up and that's the setting he usually uses adorible in. Like it just seems odd to me to have him be oo your so adorible than kiss my neck lol.

My bff said that after we first slept together, she was hanging out with him and a few people the next day and when it was brought up that

[Asker]

I stayed at his place, he said that he's not going to go into details but he had a good time and that he said I'm super adorible, it just seems weird in the contecxt

[Anonymous]

adorable and cute are better