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Girls, describe your perfect guy?
Conveniently for me I just wrote this out for another reason, so here's what I said:
The most important thing to me, besides that he love me and I love him back, is that he be a good person. Into this category falls things like not being a criminal, not being into drugs, not cheating on people or lying about where he is. I'd like him to be a generally positive person. It's okay to be stressed sometimes, or to be upset when there's reason to be upset, or to even have a bad day, but ideally he'd generally be in a good mood, because it's a lot easier to deal with such a person, and they're more fun. He would be nice to me. I can't expect someone to be nice 100% of the time, but a thoughtful, sweet, affectionate guy who wouldn't intentionally say anything mean to me and would generally respond to me positively and not be dismissive or make me feel bad/insecure about myself. He would like me, be attracted to me, think positively of me in general, and tell me so. He'd be willing to talk about issues when they came up. I'd feel comfortable around him; he'd let me be myself without feeling judged. We'd work together well and get along generally, and have an undramatic relationship and he wouldn't start arguments for no reason, and when we did argue, he wouldn't get violent or super mad or break things. He would have generally compatible interests with me; we wouldn't have to like exactly the same things, but there'd have to be things we liked doing together for fun, and he wouldn't want to go out and party and get drunk all the time. He'd support me in my goals. He'd have the same general goals and expectations for our relationship as I do. He'd want to get married, eventually, stay together, have a few kids, have a life that's compatible with the life I want. He'd probably be an atheist. He would either make more money than me, or would think nothing of having me making more than him. He'd be smarter than me or at least not feel inferior if he felt like he wasn't.
As far as looks, my ideal guy is taller than me (which doesn't take much), somewhere between 5'6" and 6'. He'd have dark hair, an inch or two long, light-colored eyes, and pale skin. I don't really care about people's bodies, but he'd not be muscular and not be fat (although if he was, that'd really not affect my decision). On the ridiculously-skinny side would be good with me. He'd like doing pretty low-key things, like playing pool, going to the movies, and going on walks, maybe things like rock-climbing or kayaking every once in a while.
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Personality-good sense of humour, knows how to make me wet myself from laughing, respectful, has good manners, holds the door open for anyone, kind, caring, thoughtful, generous, isn't bothered by appearances, thinks I look beautiful even when I've been crying, doesn't mind if I want to wear my sweats all the time, will put up with my weird phobias, doesn't get jealous at the slightest thing, will put me before anyone, won't listen to rumours or anyone that wants to split us up, will never be unfaithful to me, trustworthy and will trust me with anything, will tell me what's on his mind when he goes quiet, will never put another girl before me, will talk on the phone for hours when we can't see each other, will just sit there in silence with me when we have nothing to talk about, will put up with my stupid questions but above all will love me with all his heart <33
Career-doesnt matter about his career, if he has no job then he has more time to spend with me and if he has a job then as long as he is doing something he loves then that's all that matters.
Looks-gorgeous eyes for me are the most important feature on a guy because I want to look into the most beautiful eyes and I want to enjoy looking into them. I love unique eyes and I love brown eyes and I love blue eyes lol. I prefer guys with very short hair that doesn't take them forever to style and won't get in a mess in the wind-i don't want them to be bothered about their hair because that's a girls job. Good complexion-lots of spots is unattractive. I prefer a guy that wears sweats and trainers and hoodies-very casual but very sexy.
Interests-someone who likes r'n'b,hip hop and dance music, someone that will enjoy going shopping with me, loves going to watch movies, loves watching movies in bed with me, a guy that would rather have a night in with me than a night out with the lads, a guy that loves to play and watch football (soccer) and someone who just likes hanging out and enjoying life. Plus, someone who wants to travel.
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i honestly don't care about his body type so long as he's not 300 pounds or something unhealthy like that or if he carries himself well with those 300 pounds, I can take that too, haha.
personality: sense of humor, respectful, has some prospects for the future (careers, education, etc), smart (I have to be able to hold a decent conversation with you), openminded (no racists, intolerance for religions/homosexuals/gender/etc). he has to be willing to build a friendship before the relationship and keep that friendship during the relationship. I want us to be able to hang out one night like I'm one of the guys and still be able to make out the other night 'cause I'm his girl ;). I want him to be eager to learn/try new things, laid back
if he has a good mix of music, movies, and interests, that's awesome. if he plays an instrument or sings, that would be cool. I'd love a guy who can cook, and who's committed. no 'playas' thank you very much. he has to be considerate of my feelings and be willing to compromise. I want someone who'll stand up for me (even if he thinks he'll lose the fight) and will make me feel safe (not just from physical harm, but will assure me that I won't get my heart broken). he doesn't have to be some macho dude to do this. being around any guy makes me feel more protected anyway for some reason...
ummm... yeah. I'm mostly attracted to guys with dark hair and light eyes or dark hair in general... but yeah, blondes are in too. I don't have a racial preference, even though I don't particularly find asian men/indian men (like people from India) attractive for some reason. I'm sure there are some fine looking ones out there (i've seen some) but idk... they just never struck me as datable for some reason :/
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5'7"-5'11" with hazel or amber eyes (unless he has black hair, then I like blue eyes) dark brown hair, a nice straight nose, a heart-shaped face, 2 eye brows, defined lips (like billy boyd's) a nice singing voice, nice shoulders, decent chest, clean nails and ears, nice smile (not necessarily perfectly straight teeth though)
as for personality, I like a guy I can argue with and who can actually stand up to me! I like an intelligent goof ball. not raunchy humor, I much prefer wit and sardonic humor. if he has an understanding of history it's awesome and if he's able to look at things critically, that's pretty cool (just not at critically as me because he needs to keep me in check :P I'm pretty harsh)
it'd be great if he would be willing to learn to ride horses because I'm bit on that. but if he can take a hedge already, then I'm pretty much all his.
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They want a douche with an enormous wang and a lot of money.
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The most important thing in a man to me is one who is true to himself. Someone who doesn't care about what other people think and they just live their live to make themself happy and no one else. I think some people think they have some sort of "standard" to meet up to and that is just crazy to me. You only live once so worry about making yourself happy and not the world around you. That being said I like someone funny above all, someone who doesn't take life to seriously but is still responsible. Someone with a balance of street smarts and book smarts who doesn't have a silver spoon in their mouth. I like men who earn what they have and aren't used to things being handed to them. I think earning things builds character. I don't care about someone's career choice as long as it makes them happy and they work hard. Its better to make less and enjoy what you do then make a million a year and hate your job. If you can have both that is great too! I don't care about his interest as long as he is passionate about something. I like when I have different interest then the person I am with that way we can share them with each other. As far as looks go I don't have a type per say. Looks are least important to me because those things fade over time. I do like bigger guys, big arms and shoulders. Guys that are tall. It doesn't matter what you look like are long as you are confident with yourself that is the sexiest thing. NOT COCKY though, there is a thin line...
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personality is abit thing for me, like I couldn't date a guy just for his looks. there would have to be more "inside his head" haha..
personality:
-kind
-genourous
-loving
-has a great sence of humor
-not cocky
-spontanious (but not crazy)
-knows what they want out of life and is scared to get it, so ambitious
-loves the outdoors
-isnt materialistic
-not vain
-i don't mind if their shy, just as long as they open up to me
-some who accepts everyone and gives them a fare go, and doesn't judge
-someone who just adores me, and would give 110% into the relationship like I do
-romantic. not all the time, but it would be nice.
looks:
-healthy. they don't have to have a 6 pack or pecks, but as long as they keep themself in decent shape I'm happy: )
-(im going to sound so hypicritical when I say this, because I'm so white, but they gotta have alittle bit of a tan)
-they don't have to have blue eyes, but I melt when guys have blue eyes! mmmmmm. . .
-a gorgeous smile always draws my attention in: D so smile away boys!
job:
-dont care, as long as they not sleeping in a hole and have bad hygine or dirty cloths
-and as long as their happy with the job they have chosen to do
interests:
-camping
-swimming
-cricket
-boxing (the real one)
-footy
-laughing and just having a good time
-SOCIALIZING!
see... I'm not that hard to impress!
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Personality-
sweet
caring
teasing
funny
not to clingy
doesnt totallly ignore u
romantic(im so cheesy like I would love for a guy to sing to me *bruno mars especially cough cough*)
not ashamed of u
doesnt give a d**n what people think somethimes
wud do anythin for u
not easily embarrassed
crazy(but in a good way)
not a player
can argue an opinion
likes to just randomly talk
isnt obsessed with a girls look (I hat guys that are like he nice butt and ill just roll my eyes and make a note to self I hate you I like the compliemnt but still)
confident but not in a conceited way
I HATE CONCEITED PPL just sayin ;P
looks
short hair
not a gansta or nothin
good haircut
nice smile*if you hav a crooked smile that looks hot I luvvvvvvv that*
nice eyes(preferably blue but other colors are great to)
taller than me (but most girls are lol)
sporty but not like coby bryant or anythin
career
idk as long as they aren't gone a lot and are ent like robbers lol
interests
music
sports
me lol ;P
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Personality: Main thing I want in a guy is for him to not only get along with me, but with all my family and all my friends. If they don't approve then there has to be something not right with the guy. He has to be funny,but not really funny because I might get annoyed of that easily lol, not very sensitive but still has feelings because I grew up with two brothers who love to argue their point so I learned well and that's just how I am so if I start debating, he can't get offended or sensitive because that just sucks. He has to like to cuddle, be confident, very accomplished, he has to be organized, know what he wants and isn't afraid of going for it.
Looks: I know I probably won't get the full deal personality and the looks but I still have a preference lol. I absolutely love carmel colored skin, dark eyes, dark hair, tall, thin but muscular... ex. Enrique Iglesias. He's my ultimate :) Athletic would be nice too.
Career: Definitely Doctor, it's like the hottest profession next to Firefighter :D And knowing that your man is saving peoples lives as a everyday job makes it that much better :)
Interest: Music, sports but not Hockey and he isn't obsessed with watching it like.. "Oh my goodness I need to watch the last half of the game or I'll die!" OK I was exaggerating a bit but you get the point. It would be cool if he was a handy man around the house too... :)
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Frankly looks don't matter at all! Of course I have a type that I find really attractive, but when it comes to the "perfect guy", it is not about looks! It is more about the way that he makes me feel when I am around him:
1. I have to feel that he can protect me :). He can do some small gestures like if we are crossing the street hold me from my shoulder... that shoulder touch is a winner guys! But also physically, he has to be taller and bigger than me (not fat! that's a turn off)
2. I have to feel that he is capable of taking care of me and a family. This is probably due to my age, but I wouldn't date a tree huger with no money, no job, no future plans... He has to know how to hold a job, has a career, makes enough money to start a family . Even tho I am not willing to marry him from day one, I wouldn't date if there is no potential there.
3. Yes I am a mature adult, but when I am around him, I should feel like a child: happy and playful. Has to make me smile and laugh, doesn't have to be a class clown tho!
4. Smart. We should be able to talk, not only feelings but about politics, economy, theatre, cinema, literature...
5. I have to make sure he loves me for who I am, and not only for the looks. I want to feel comfortable next to him, don't stress about my short skirt, my hair, my make-up...
For the looks: (again it is not as important, but just to give you an idea)
1. Height: taller than me, but not a giant
2. Weight: athletic. no fat. get in shape guys!
3. Eyes, hair, skin: dark brown or green eyes , dark brown hair, kinda tanned healthy skin. No blond or blue guys, they look very cold.
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okay umm.. Loooks
honestly doesn't really matter, but obviously everyone has a preference.. (naat really specific)
Hair- if you look good with short hair that's a turn on, cause that means you have a nice face :P
overall face- a cute smile and nice eyes. idfc what color. cute nose, I don't know why but I've always been into the nose thing :P
overall body- as long as your in shape, I'm fine with whatever, obviously noone is gona have everything you want (6pac, big arms) so whatever, tanish- dark skin is my fave but who really cares, I don't expect anyone to go get skin cancer cause they feel the need to be darker .
overall personality- #1.. adventurous ( likes to travel, loves animals, brave ), has goals in life.. but realistic ones, are book smart but don't let school get too much in the way of their life.. down to earth and easy to talk to, can see the real beauty in a girl. NOTTTT AN ASSHOLE
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My perfect guy is attractive in my eyes, he is my hero because even when he doesn't agree with me he validates my feelings, he truly listens, and cares. My guy has something to teach me and loves to learn. He is passionate but not violent, he sees the good in others and he has a balance between being social with others and spending time with me. He is honest and expressive, he knows that he isn't perfect and doesn't expect me to be either. He doesn't pin another woman against me with comparisons and if he's afraid to open up to people somehow he lets his guard down with me. He makes me smile and he allows me to treat him like my prince and then my king but we rule together not one over the other. He doesn't expect me to be the best women he just expects me to be the best me and he works to improve himself. If he notices he has wronged people he apologizes sincerly and he is looking for a relationship mixed with fun, peace, support, acceptance, growth and exclusiveness. Forgiving towards me/others and himself. Someone with similar values. He doesn't get bored easily because he can make any simple thing seem magical and interesting.
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mmm dream guy ok he has to be well educated, sensitive, witty, outgoing, caring and showing it (of course not needy), knows how to talk and socialize, have a clear mind, respectful, openminded, and willing to learn,with a sense of humor and it is quite charming to find some romance from time to time.
about the way he looks, well it isn't important to have specific character or so but necessary to be in good shape Muscles are good but not too much just shape or may be a bit more
looking good in sporty style and in tux of course clean and tasty, has to be taller than me
a pretty face dark hair as black is good or blond hair very light ;)
any career is good as long as he is happy with.
Interests are mainly Art (gd tatse and objective judgement), Bascketball, a fan of nature it is a necessity and a same general tatse with music and likes to watch movies, no prob with some difference of course
IT Is a Must that he like Kong fu and if he practices it would be gd
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My perfect man. Well being as I'm only 16 it's not as set as some but, if I could make the guy of my dreams he would be:
Looks: 6'2. Auburn brown hair. Eyes the color of pine needles. He would be tan, and be sorta skinny, but muscular. Not ripped, but cut. He would have that killer smile, and I like guys with worker hands, like rough ya know.
Personality: He has got to be funny. And sweet, but has a bit of a bad boy side, but not the ass type. A tad bit cocky, not like "I love myself" but "I'm hot, ok. so what" the "I know I look good but I'm not gonna brag" type of guy. I would like him to be simi smart, like at least make B's and C's, but only because I like to have intelligent conversations, and when I make witty comebacks, it's sad if you don't get it. Though, will stand up for me, but has a soft side to let me win sometimes. He won't be afraid to be seen holding my hand, or kissing me infront of his friends.
Interests: I love a man who plays sports. A guy who likes sports, even loves sports. I like a guy who likes movies, and has his set group of friends. It makes me feel better because sometimes my friends are first, and if he loves his friends then I won't feel bad if one of my friends is crying at home and I say "Honey, I can't go out tonight my girlfriend needs me," ya know.
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GREAT question.
My perfect man:
He would be from a good family and would have grown up in southern New England (CT, RI, MA). He would have gone to prep school (groton, choate, exeter, avon, etc.) and a nescac for college (williams, amherst, colby, bates, bowdoin, etc.). He would be a seasoned hockey or lacrosse player and would be built, but not ripped, about 6'2" and blonde.
He would be really funny and kind of a douche in the right circumstances, but always nice to me. He would love comedies and action movies, but appreciate the occasional viewing of Love Actually around the holidays. He would be a fantastic cook and a great gift giver, but he would be terrible at following directions and not very handy.
He would be spontaneous and always up for fun activities like sailing and snowboarding, but he would hate hiking. He would have a lot of experience sexually speaking and would talk like a porn star in the bedroom.
He would be incredibly outgoing and have tons of friends. He would drive an SUV and he would love dogs, preferably big ones. His specific job wouldn't matter as long as he's happy, fulfilled, and making bank. He should love being on/in/around lakes, oceans, and rivers.
And most importantly, he should challenge me every day, and always bring out the best in me.
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Alright lol this should be fun.
My perfect guy would be incredibly nice and sweet. He would be funny too, but not like annoying funny, just able to make me laugh. He would be caring and always there to listen to me when I need somebody to talk to. He would have to act normal around my family and friends, not like some of the guys that get quiet and attached to me (that's basically saying, I feel threatened by your family and friends...). I mean he doesn't have to be loud or talking at all times, but I wouldn't want him to just not talk. I would want him to be smart, (not like really smart where he is always trying to prove me wrong), but somebody that I can have an intelligent conversation with. I am really into community service and helping other people, so it would be really cool if he would do these things with me. Play the guitar or some musical instrument (this is optional, but definitely a plus). Okay for looks .. basically I'll describe the guy I'm crushing on lol. Light hair, like a light brown blondish color (though I usually tend to go for people with darker hair). blue eyes (eye color doesn't matter either). Definitely not somebody with a whole lot of muscle. I usually go for thin guys who aren't exactly built lol. Not too short, but not too tall. Around my height, maybe a little taller (I'm 5'6). Career doesn't really matter - something that he loves to do though, so that he is really happy with his life. For interests, anything really - I wouldn't want him to be too serious, so some fun stuff would be cool - like music, writing, hahaha ... I don't know anything that's fun. I wouldn't want him to be perfect (I know that sort of ruins the question lol), because I hate perfections. I think that imperfections are just as attractive. How's that? lol. -
He is sweet.
Funny.
Smart.
Goofy but can be serious,
Sense of style,
Clean.(hair, clothes, ect.)
Treats me like no other.
Makes me blush,
Keeps me smiling.
Someone I can sit there with without any words and its normal.
He introduces me too his friends.
Isnt shy to say "this girl right here is my girlfriend"
He does not need to be a sports freak,
He doesn't have to be a doctor or make a lot of money, as long as he loves what he does and has a future in what he wants to do.
Have pretty eyes, I prefer green or brown.
i Adore guys who play guitar, if not have a good taste in music.
He doesn't have to agree with me on everything but I prefer him to respect my opinions.
Compliments me when I look bad.
There for me when I need him.
He needs to know what I like and don't like.
Be honest,
Someone I can trust.
Someone he doesn't mind if my friends are annoying.
He isn't shy.
Holds me and loves me.
i can laugh with him.
Someone who excepts my flaws and loves me for who I am.
He can tell me what's one his mind and if he needs me.
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Personality:
Outgoing, has to get along with all types of people. Non-judgmental. Must give me my freedom, and in turn want his own freedom to pursue his own things. Secure, warm hearted, good with kids. Not controlling, HAS to have a good sense of humor. Like to hang out with mutual friends but also be willing to have nights separate from one another. No qualms about sleeping alone (I plan to do a lot of travelling when I'm older). Be loving and supportive, but not needy. Be a knowledgable person, which doesn't necessarily mean booksmart... but someone I can carry on an intelligent conversation with. Someone not afraid to confront me when I'm out of line. Has to like cuddling by the fire in the winter time :)
Looks:
Average build. Not too muscle-y (it's creepy). I like brown hair/dark hair and brown eyes, because I have blondish hair and green eyes. I think brown eyes are gorgeous. Taller than me (which isn't difficult, I'm 5'3") Kinda athletic, at least enough to do fun things like hiking or swimming.
Career:
Anything that makes him happy, and something that he loves. Preferrably not a surgeon or lawyer, or any job that doesn't allow much time for a home life.
Interests:
HAS TO LOVE ALL KINDS OF MUSIC! Play guitar or any interesting instrument. Be outdoorsy and like fishing, camping, hunting, laying under the stars. Into college football and most sports. Like attending concerts or anything loud and fun. Have an interest in the world in general, humanity as a whole, planet earth itself and all of its beauty. Have an interest in the arts, and world traveling. And an interest in me, of course!
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hmm I think that the deciding factor always ends up being the chemistry between two people. but my dream guy would most of the time be like this
taller than 5'9. I'm short but I'm attracted to tall guys
i like dark or light hair
I LOVE good bone structure... a manly jaw line is sexy
classy taste in clothes but doesn't matter as long as it looks fresh and good on him
the eyes (not the color) but the twinkle makes me melt- "smile with your eyes"
great athletic body
personality also varies
i like a guy who pays attention and knows how to treat a woman
he respects women and not just his gf.
loves his mama
he is loyal to his friends and is respectful to others
i like funny and witty
i can handle sarcasm
just overall out going and uplifting
he has to have motivation and desire to strive for the best none of that weed smoking lazy ass guys
if he is christian then he would be heaven on earth. I haven't found a good looking genuine christian guy :(
i would want someone who makes me feel secure and does new things with me, like rock climbing or sky diving and isn't lame and just wants to...do nothing.
but still its all about chemistry because I like a lot of things it just has to come together
some interesting examples
adam brody
gerard butler
jake gyllenhall - he can pull of the scruff
sean farris
brody jenner - but he's a jerk
anything from a little nerdy to bro works as far as looks but personality will be the winning factor
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looks
5' 10'' - 6' 2'', green eyes, dark brown/black semi-short (not too short) hair, long strong hands with veins that show strength, brod shoulders, strong (not without any muscles, but not with bulging muscles either), mocha-white skin tone, fierce facial bone structure, and a very smooth yet manly voice
personality
good sense of humor, semi-modest, easy going, someone who doesn't really open up to a lot of people (but he opens up to the people he really trusts - ME), not obsessed with staying fit but stays in good shape, moral (good values in life), knows how to follow his heart, and wants to take care of me while wanting to be taken care of by me
career
someone who's not afraid to follow his dreams (as long as his dream isn't something that would hurt others or leave him with a guilty conscience) I would love to be with someone who doesn't make a lot of money but follows his dream
interests
music (the oldie/goodies - rock, pop, r&b), playing a musical instrument (guitar, drums, piano, or violin), sports (anything but golf), painting, acting, play pranks on people, going on nice vacations from time to time, sex (with me only) haha, movies (all kinds except for the stupid movies that try to make fun of other movies - anything but those, I hate those), something that I don't know that he can teach me - horseback riding (tried it once when I was 8), playing sports (even though I now how to play most of them), sex (we could learn that together) haha
this is my perfect guy, but pretty much what a really want in a guy is that he is loving, caring, masculine (as in - he is my strength so he is strong for me), funny, relaxed, and passionate guy... oh and by the way (I don't have anything against other religions - I have many close friends that I trust that are of a different religion) but I really want the guy to be christian (I don't care what kind though - catholic, apostolic, orthodox, ...etc. ) -
well there's no such thing as perfect, but for me it'd be enough if my guy was into serious stuff, like longterm goals finding a marriage partner, a guy who respects himself and doesn't care what others thnk of him, who is moral and courageous at the same time, hopefully he is still a virgin, its definitely a plus for me, because it means he's not out to get laid for the sake of getting laid but rather he wants to share that moment with someone special, I like him to be himself, have somewhat similar interests as me, we should be able to get along fine and think alike, he should be badass outgoing and in control of himself, intellectual at the same time...he doesn't need to have a 4.0, but he should be street smart...he should have his ambitions, goals, and be open to trying new things.
for looks, I don't have anything specific, it really blends with the given personality of the guy, he should just be original and be himself...he shouldnt try hard to be somethings he not, I mean I see guys on campus wearing collared shirts and fancy jeans, and blue contacts geled spiked hair, and they talk like they just graduated 6th grd, and it just turns me off when I see a guy trying too hard...and at the same time I've met guys who are street smart, quick, funny, and outgoing always on top of things and knowledgable and wearing a simple tshirt and jeans makes them incredibly good looking and hot! -
I've always been in love with the movies how the guy just sweeps her off her feet. but I never found it true. I always cry because somehow no matter how hard I try. I always get the worst relationship.
The guy would have to be himself. Kind, sweet, funny, nice, smart, and maybe goodlooking(: best part. I often wonder what my perfect guy would be. I don't know because I haven't met him. and I hope one day I find him because right about now I feel like I'm left to wonder the earth alone forever. I just hope he respects me as I am. loves me as I am. Smiles and loves life with me. some girls maybe desperate like down below. but personally I'll take life as it comes. I've dated many players and bullsh*tters and some really sweet guys. some hott to. but I've always found out that I'm never happy because they are too clingy or ignore me. or cheat. or are emotionally abusive. and it hurts. I've been told more than once I'm ugly and why would anyone want to date me. and I'm starting to think they are right. and personally I love everything. jerks and bullsh*tters get dumpped on the spot... -
taller than me. I'm more into blonde or brown hair, but that's definitely not everyone. I'm a TOTAL sucker for light colored eyes, such as electric blue or green, etc. when I talk to him, it has to feel really natural. I like having some things in common, but not everything. I like supporting him in things only he does, and I like originality. a guy could be fat with bad acne for all I care: if he has a perfect smile I will stare.. not purposely... haha I do it all the time it seems. doesn't have to be a genius. nice, gentle, caring, funny. good with kids and pets maybe? he would also have to be bold: always make the first move. definitely should be in a sport of some kind.. your body isn't everything, but if you have an amazing body more people might have the chance to get to know your personality, I say. he should never be embarrassed about me or anything to do with me... I don't care about gifts; id much rather have neither of us ever have to get each other gifts... haha I always feel bad about minee. I'd rather go and sit at the beach all day with him than go a really expensive place.. he shouldnt smother me with phone calls but call every once in awhile, maybe twice a day, I don't know. always make time to see her when she wants it. never ever ever everrrrr even hint that she looks bad or anything of that category. cussing is SUCH a major turn off. so is fighting and immaturity. plus, its annoying as hell. listen to what we say.. a perfect date for me would either be going to the beach if its hot and movies if its not. going out to eat is also good but not all the time please. haha. and again, this is my perfect guy only. :)
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For my perfect guy I would like -
For personality - honest, trustworthy, reliable, great sense of humor, appreciates me, outgoing, caring, flexible (mind and body), friendly, faithful, patient, has high self-esteem (no big headedness, just the right amount of self-esteem that he gets humble pie every day), sincere, mature, protects me, a great laugh, and is sensitive towards people.
For looks - fit, with a little bit of fat but not much and is a little slender, a tan guy but not really tanned just the right amount of tan, green/blue eyes, dirty blond hair, maybe has a few tattoos on his arm, smooth skin, great white teeth, cares about his looks, and dresses like an American Eagle style.
For career - a career that helps the world, one that he loves, makes him happy, a career where he travels (so he can be with me while I travel).
Interests - shopping, traveling, health, fitness, yoga, Pilates, reading, meditating, different cultures, food (eating and cooking), helping other people.
That's pretty much it. xox -
I'll name my preferences, but a guy does NOT have to be like this for me to like him, oh gosh, if that were true I'd sound so shallow :P
Looks: Short, dark hair (but enough I can run my fingers through ;D), and a cute face.
Body: Healthy is good. I like a guy who's slender but slightly muscly. Not too much!
Interests: Art! Because I love art. ...And I'm a bit of a nerd, because I love playing Mario, Pokemon and Zelda. Even though I'm an adult. Haha!
Personality: Kind, intelligent, sensitive, and FUNNY~
Style: Really doesn't matter too much. I like when he looks stylish of course, but I don't mind as long as they don't dress like a thug or a teenager with their boxers hanging out. Not a turn on, ever! :P
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