I personally think this take was insightful! Yes, there is a reason that girls love these fictional guys and the sooner you realize and discover their secrets, the sooner you will get the girl! You should do one on chick books like the fault in our stars etc :)
Wow props on actually doing your research, but so unnecessary really i dont expect a guy to be like in a soap and lol all that shit was new o me, i only ever watch Days. lol Great though.
The time you've put into this is take is respectable! Well written and informative, you should do more of these!
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There's a simpler process A. get rich B. Hit the gym C. Get a plastic surgery Will make u the ultimate fantasy and get u a lot hotter girls than the fangirls of. those. guys
Rob Kardashian is the one that made me finally realize it isn't about any of those things at least to hot girls. He should have gotten all the hot girls he could ever want, but instead he had a serious of terrible relationships where the girls emotionally did damage to him and became a fat slob.
No. Because it's a lie. You don't pretend to be something you're not. I'm betting that if the majority of women found out that you weren't being who you said you were, they wouldn't be interested in you because you lied to them.
Everyone pretends to be something they're not. It's called a social mask, and everyone uses one to one degree or another. The way you act in front of one person or group, isn't the same as you do in front of a different one. There might be enough similarities to maintain a degree of consistency-of-identity, but there are little tweaks we make dependent upon who we're around.
And,
Everybody lies. And most people have good reasons for it. ... Okay, a lot of people have good reasons for it.
And, OP isn't talking about changing your image. He's talking about refining your image. Up-playing your positive aspects (or downplaying them, if they're intimidating), and downplaying or justifying/letting your negative aspects/be understood.
Pretty much everything is a lie of some sort. People just get angry, because it shows them how they're lying to everyone.
That's all anyone tries to do in social situations.
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I personally think this take was insightful! Yes, there is a reason that girls love these fictional guys and the sooner you realize and discover their secrets, the sooner you will get the girl! You should do one on chick books like the fault in our stars etc :)
I learnt to steer clear of women who like soaps. Worked a charm
Interesting take, even though I've not seen any of these! I liked the concept and you wrote it well.
Women actually pay attention to this shit? Jesus Christ women are complicated.
For men, all women have to do is be attractive and treat you well, they don't have to act out a fucken sit com
TEEN soaps.
Women are not hormonal teenagers. They're childish and need direction, but they aren't teenagers. Stupid take; No soup for you.
lol f*** off
Insightful.
Wow props on actually doing your research, but so unnecessary really i dont expect a guy to be like in a soap and lol all that shit was new o me, i only ever watch Days. lol Great though.
The time you've put into this is take is respectable! Well written and informative, you should do more of these!
There's a simpler process
A. get rich
B. Hit the gym
C. Get a plastic surgery
Will make u the ultimate fantasy and get u a lot hotter girls than the fangirls of. those. guys
Rob Kardashian is the one that made me finally realize it isn't about any of those things at least to hot girls. He should have gotten all the hot girls he could ever want, but instead he had a serious of terrible relationships where the girls emotionally did damage to him and became a fat slob.
Ikr that's pretty sad
i have tried the 'Lucas' approach and it works, thats who i really am, i was geeky before i was "handsome" or anything
so that still carries over
Yeah right, Yamcha.
Lmao!!! wait until you see my wolf fang fist!!!
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Yamcha. It doesn't matter what facial expressions you make. You're still going to be the first one to get his ass kicked. :\
You won't say that once I show you my WOLF FANG FIST!
Good take, I just can't relate that well I guess, since I never watched any of em lol
I watched Gilmore Girls once, I came away a feminist.
Ok. This was too cute. Hahaha great post. 😍
Haha you get me. : )
This advice isn't going to help any if I don't watch any of these show and never will.
I consider myself intimidating... Well I love those examples I am so gonna try it out.
Very informative... gr8 job
Lol all shows I actually loath, and the only soap I watch is the Young And The Restless.
Yeah... I dunno. I think I'll just stick to being me.
Shouldn't this be how all men act. It's called being a gentlemen
No. Because it's a lie. You don't pretend to be something you're not. I'm betting that if the majority of women found out that you weren't being who you said you were, they wouldn't be interested in you because you lied to them.
I didn't read all the info but from what it seemed it was seemed like the points were embrace who you are and show you care etc.
Everyone pretends to be something they're not. It's called a social mask, and everyone uses one to one degree or another. The way you act in front of one person or group, isn't the same as you do in front of a different one. There might be enough similarities to maintain a degree of consistency-of-identity, but there are little tweaks we make dependent upon who we're around.
And,
Everybody lies. And most people have good reasons for it. ... Okay, a lot of people have good reasons for it.
And, OP isn't talking about changing your image. He's talking about refining your image. Up-playing your positive aspects (or downplaying them, if they're intimidating), and downplaying or justifying/letting your negative aspects/be understood.
Pretty much everything is a lie of some sort. People just get angry, because it shows them how they're lying to everyone.
That's all anyone tries to do in social situations.
Wow. Fantastic. Weird. Crazy. Great read.
People still think life is like a sitcom? Wow.
Awesome advice thanks!