Nice Guys vs Bad Boys – Top 9 Reasons “Being Nice” Won’t Get You the Girl (Page 7)

[pizzalovershouse]

personality helps but not every guy or girl gets every 1 to date they want so no being nice isn't going to get you tons of dates it's how we treat people we date an how we treat most people that draws intrest in a person

[ImJustCurious13]

I think this quote can explain why you shouldn't be too nice.

[Amrit]

Full marks to you man ! I learnt a lot from this one ! Thanks for the article.

[shortansweet1923]

99% of this I agree with, so insightful and very true!

[Brando]

I think this is the realistic approach to all that stupid "Cocky/Funny" bullsh*t.

[BrunetteNYC]

Just treat a woman with kindness and respect and all of the rest this doesn't matter.

[circlebill]

BrunetteNYC - Your commented,

"Just treat a woman with kindness and respect and all of the rest this doesn't matter."

What's the matter with you? Don't you realize that would be boring? How could you possibly choose to be with a man who treats you with kindness and respect? Why, that's crazy! You've got to get all that silly good sense out of your head and find a proper "BAD BOY" who'll disrespect you and treat you poorly like a sexy, attractive "BAD BOY" should!

Seriously, I think your statement is very sensible and very wise! I wish more women had that kind of good sense. Unlike many women who comment on this site, you are obviously a GENUINE ADULT!

[BrunetteNYC]

A bad boy, well lots of younger girls seem drawn to that sort of guy but it gets better as we grow up and we realize that all that does for us is get us nowhere and wastes our time.

[stormbreaker06]

its 2019.

the girlfriend phase is over.

fuck, girls and make money. that's all you have to do.

if you want to get married or want a girlfriend then you are screwed.

[MoeMoe]

Re homunculust: The a**holes are usually just for sex, but the "nicer" guys gets the girls for "relationships", long term relationships. The a**holes are only very short term.

[Marrryyyyy]

I agree 10000000000000000%. I've dated the 'nice' guy who was pretending. it ended, obviously.

[genericname85]

you don't need to be straight up "bad". you just need to have a backbone and not be desparately available for every girl.

[Zachpat3213]

I think everybody’s under the control of social media nowadays. I think people are afraid to date the nice guys because they’re too busy trying to impress their friends and family with some bad boy.

[distressedanonymus]

It's not about being a good guy or bad guy. It's about being attractive not just physically but in your personality and confidence.

Ask any girl they'd take and attractive good guy over an asshole any day

[NinaK]

As a woman who's always been more attracted to bad boys (but, fortunately, with enough self-esteem to be careful) I have to say, spot on! This is the best explanation of bad boys vs. nice guys I have ever read. Your insight is amazing!

[KingMahseri]

just be yourself , that's the greatest advice anybody could give

[Ejeffers85]

Most girls say they want a nice guy (to meet there friends and family) but secretly want a bad boy (to show them a good/wild time)

[anonimouse]

Ahh f***. I'm guilty of a number of these points.

Good read, now I know why I'm such a f*** up haha.

[stephirony]

I don't think is bad boy vs good guy, but as you said, being confident. Nobody respects a doormat. But being sure of yourself doesn't mean behaving like a jerk, both guys and girls.

[EugeneQWhipplewart]

Don't mistake "Nice Guy" for "Roll Over Beta Male SoyBoy"...

[MannMitAntworten]

I unzip my fly and pee all over the nice guy/bad boy nuttiness.

[Evil_Chuck]

I think it depends on the girl you're trying to get. If she wants a jerk, leave her to her own poor judgment and pursue a girl with more sense.