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Why Is He Not Asking Me Out? (Page 2)

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  • Hughman
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    Whiney biatches...ha, I forgot about them. But that's a whole different topic - you won't know she's a whiney bitch till you've been on a date or two. They still get asked out, they just can't keep guys.

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  • Hughman
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    The male checklist boils down to 'Do you make me horny?', 'Can I talk to you without feeling bored (or intimidated)?' and 'Can I show you off to my mates?'. And we rarely deviate from this.

    Girls on the other hand - Mr Good Enough is never enough!

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  • BeccaBearx
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    I'll just sit here with my Big Mac and call it all bullshit. I'd rather have someone who takes me as I am than be different just to get a bloke. One of the worst articles I've seen in a long time.

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  • Rahim517
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    It's hard to believe that women think men are all boorish a**holes. Ladies, this kind of childishness is NOT representative of the thoughts of all men.

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    • emmabee11
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      Agreed it's a load of coswollop... and saying these things doesn't make a girl "the right girlfriend", he's just part of the "change a woman into what i want" group, these guys are the type of guys that spend controlling and telling women how to be than loving them, i bet he has no girlfriend and if he ever has he was probably dumped every time because he thinks controlling them and pushing down their self-esteem telling them who they are now isn't good enough for him will keep her there, i know the type... and they are just... pure evil it's what.

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  • delicatedreams
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    I definitely fall into the quiet girl category who's currently crushing on a quiet guy. Yes, quit accurate. I'm a realistic girl, though quiet, so I did not find this remotely offensive.

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  • Hughman
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    Cheers, I'm just doing my bit.

    How do you feel it's offensive? (or is the truth just too painful for most people? I know I feel insane sometimes with the shizzle I now know)

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  • esahc88
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    Maybe intimidation, some time guys don't like to ask you out and then feel stupid when you say no. Also maybe you are acting like you aren't interested.

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  • poofs517
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    I see your point :) great article you made some spot on points, sorry I sounded so harsh I was already thinking about all these things earlier on what I have to do to 'get the guy I want' ugh :(

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  • dominiquois
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    I guess my only problem is excess weight. I'm def not obsese just slighly overweight. I just hope the feminazis don't terrorize the comment section. Great article!

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    • emmabee11
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      Love yourself don't let guys like this push you down, guys like this probably can't keep a girlfriend if their life depends on it, they would rather tell you that you aren't good enough now and change you than accept you, terrible type of men

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    • dominiquois
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      True

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  • dalila
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    What you said is.Basically look your best and guys will come to you...Interesting how come guys don't do that too.Shallow.

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  • hot_princess7
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    Very very blunt and to-the-point. Somewhat offensive... but also some of this just needs to be said, even if it is offensive... Good tips.

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  • lost-angel
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    Hmmm...

    I don't know which one I fall under.. maybe manly? lol

    guys tell me I'm like a dude... a lot.

    Nice article though :)

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  • Standingpretty
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    I wish my friend would read this article and take ALL this advice to heart. Yeah,don't forget, guys don't lik whiney bitches either.

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  • Shrugs83
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    When guys write things like this I always feel like maybe I should stay single if all dudes honestly believe this

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  • Hughman
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    Agreed, but there's a fine line between making the 'first move' and being needy.

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  • frustratedchump06
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    Whats wrong with girls asking guys out then? geeze, I hate gender roles in our society

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  • keenox
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    *YOUR looks!!! What's so hard people? English is not my first language, but this is very annoying.

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  • GlassHeart
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    I do everything right and I still don't have a man...

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    Can confirm some solid truth to some of these points.

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  • Deyanira
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    Very good! Excellent advice. I have a few acquaintances who could stand to have this rammed down their throats.

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