What I Learned From Pretending To Be A Ditz For A Week (Page 2)

[impossiblestrumpet]

Use of slang has nothing to do with your intelligence.
Use of makeup has nothing to do with your intelligence.
Not standing up for yourself when feeling objectified has nothing to do with your intelligence.
Revealing clothing has nothing to do with your intelligence.
Having low alcohol tolerance has nothing to do with your intelligence.

[godfatherfan]

Did any of that surprise you? That is what I would have expected would happen. Sad but true...

[myTake Owner]

No, not really. It was more of an experiment to prove what would be assumed.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Interesting social experiment. May I ask why you decided to do this?

As for me, I can talk to a "ditz"... I just get bored really fast because I tend not to "do" small talk. With what you said (dress and makeup), they (the ditzes) might be more fun to look at / grab my attention quicker, but they loose my attention just as quickly. Even if just pretending to be a ditz is a no no for me.

[myTake Owner]

I've done things similar to this throughout the last few years, it's interesting to see how people treat you differently when you portray a persona that isn't your own :P

[AlwaysBelieving]

Great point. I still remember my final English class speech in high school. The teacher's jaw dropped to the floor since I was "loud and out there" which was a far cry from my usual quite and calm demeanor in class.

[LittleSally]

One Q - how could you add the last part but not just change anon to not anon?
o. O

Yeah, I can see all of these being completely true. Guys feel at ease with airheads.

[thewanderingme]

#7 is very interesting. I've always preferred dressing very modest, showing very little skin, yet I next to never get approached by "nice guys" mostly just the full of himself jackass.

[Kirah]

If being alone bothers you, why don't you approach men instead? Your entire take seems to revolve around the men who approach you. Why not approach them yourself? You'll be able to pick exactly who you want.

[Anonymous]

This is a nice take. I like it!

But can I ask something, I get if you are a ditz and a nice girl that guys will love it, cos you actually make it clear you're into them too and you also happen to be nice.

I don't like people who I clearly give off a cold vibe still trying to get validation.

But can you explain whether women will worry about judgement only with a nice guy yet have sex quickly with a not so nice one? I wrote a question can u check i out?

[Johnagain]

Good take. I wonder if it's the same with guys... with those stupid egos, and the "alpha male" competiton thing... or the GQ look at ALL TIMES and being a cute guy with perfect hair while being a jerk.

[OpenWine]

well nr 7 seems to be what I do when I see some insta hiped up bird. they are just not down to earth and you can expect the girls to act all like some black trash from detroit (oh man that was racist but my English got worse by the time) when you are just trying to start up a conversation flow.
guess I should look more for the appearance and do some work on that type you mentioned to be

[stillagoodgirl]

That was racist. Every race has their own category of trash but nice to see where your first thoughts come to

[Prof_Don]

@stillagoodgirl yup dude definitely snitched on himself!

[Anonymous]

This literally makes me scared of being alone forever because all young guys want these days is sex sex sex and because I'm not the type to go along with that, I feel like I'll be alone forever 😞😞😞

[schnipdip]

you're under 18 -.- wait

[myTake Owner]

@schnipdip She could be 17?

[LaBoheme099]

I don't see why wearing full makeup all the time makes a woman a ditz, and dressing provocatively at times can be fun.

[Default_Hore]

At times yeah, sometimes it can be enjoyable to dress that way and etc but dressing that way 24/7 is just meh. Personally I like a girl who is reserved and protects/hides her body, I can understand wanting to show it off and feel better about yourself in that way but being reserved shows to me that you care about your body and value it more than most people nowadays, which instantly makes me more attracted to you because of the fact that you care about it. Makes it more important for the both of us. Sometimes makeup can be nice, but on average I'd say dont wear it unless you're going to something fancy, that's just my take on it though and im a guy so, we see make-up differently for sure.

[Rainie_]

I don't think full face makeup does it, more like cakey faces. Many women wear full face makeup and most guys can't even tell they're wearing makeup and think it's all natural 😂

[Default_Hore]

@Rainie_ I think guys can tell, they just may not comment on it. Although sometimes it can be difficult to tell, I've mistaken it once or twice, but usually I can tell.

[Rainie_]

@Default_Hore Actually many don't, there has been so many occasions I've heard guys say they love my or my friends natural faces when we're wearing mascara, filled in brows, nude lipstick, concealer etc etc.
You might have more of an eye for detail but some guys just don't lol.

[LaBoheme099]

@Rainie_ definitely noticed this too. I think a confident woman who chooses to do as she pleases is the most attractive. When guys tell me they prefer me with no makeup I roll my eyes and usually lose interest in them.

[Default_Hore]

Them commenting on what they prefer or how they like you the most shouldn't be seen as an insult. If you they think you look better without make-up that's the best compliment you could receive in my opinion. @LaBoheme099 your choice though. (:

[RedVulcan]

Shakes head and loses faith in the world and male humans again.
Extremely logical outcome you got, were there any outliers or people who behaved very differently from the points yoi made?

[myTake Owner]

Unfortunately not from what I saw but possibly if I kept at it longer I would have found a few different people

[RedVulcan]

Yeah, maybe, but you said you didn't like it, so no need to continue. Interesting experiment for sure, but that'd be way too hard and far less rewarding for me to pull off. Not saying that you got rewarded much but girls do tend to give out their numbers less than guys in general

[Loadedgamer]

um why do girls care for attention this much!

If a men considered you a ditz or an airhead!

They don't mean you're anon and pretty!

No they say your a dumbass!

Guys will just suck up to you like a white, black, or brown knight cuck!

[Anonymous]

That's funny. I had a somewhat Simalar experiance as a Trump supporter. Ever since I openly supported him, girls intrest in me appears non existent. They don't even care to know why I support him. I went to a Bernie protest a few weeks ago and had girls giving me their phone numbers with one even offering sexual favors. That's life I guess.

[front2back]

This is why I've tried to stay that just because a woman is hot does not mean she has it easy with men. Especially if she appears or acts ditzy lots of guys will take advantage of her.

[SovereignessofVamps]

This sounds so cool! It's cool if you really did this... I'm not surprised by how people reacted.

[worldscolide]

Moral of the story... Want to be treated well, dont act that way. I ignore girls that i see as ditzy, I see them as beneath me when it comes to intelligence. i won't be with someone that is like that..

[Anonymous]

This is a great take, MissMc3. Thanks for sharing this because now everyone can know what it's like to be a ditz. After reading this, I would never be a ditz.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

So if you want to get fucked... be a ditz
If you want a real relationship or genuine interaction then be real and down to earth.

[Anonymous]

I think one thing that gets lost in all the ditz-slamming is how awesome it is to spend time with a girl with a light, positive, fun-loving personality.

[stillagoodgirl]

True, I have ditzy moments. It's like Clueless but she was just trying to help, she wasn't a bitch

[Opinion Owner]

@stillagoodgirl That's a great movie! And yeah, her character was the bomb!