How to Be a Temptress 101

How to Be a Temptress 101

There are some women who attract men to themselves like honey attracts bees. If you want to be one of these women then you have to act magnetic and intriguing to a man. Looks do play a role in this as does personality but, the main element to becoming tempting to a man is being CONFIDENT in yourself...

How to Be a Temptress 101

No man wants a needy, whining, insacure woman.Although, I will not give out all my secrets to you ladies. Here are a couple things to start with.

1. Have intellectual conversations

He wants a mental match that will hold his stamina and entice his mind, making him think on a deeper level. He craves intriguing conversations that show you can hold your own weight, socially or sitting at home.

He desires a woman who can add value to his life allowing the relationship to grow.

2. Smell delicious

Smelling delicious is the trait of a temptress. You need to have a signature scent when you want to be tempting. It should be warm and captivating and not too strong and overpowering. It should be your scent that should bring you back to a man's mind again and again. Remember smell is the strongest sense tied to his memory. I suggest citrus smells personaly.

How to Be a Temptress 101

3. Have your own life and value yourself

To create this value for yourself, you first need to cultivate a lifestyle where you’re firing on ALL cylinders.You’re not just working on one aspect of your life, but seeking to improve yourself on multiple levels.This includes your career, hobbies, passions. Men don't want a woman who's only hobby is texting or calling him. More importantly, this sends a very clear signal to guys that makes them think this one feeling:

“Hey, this woman is pretty interesting.

Go out be social make him wait for you to call. A temptress has no time to be sitting around chasing after a man. She is very busy and in demand from many other suiters besides him.

4. Shut up and Listen

Most women talk about themselves repeatedly. This is not sexy or interesting to a man at all. Any man's favorite conversation topic is himself so ask him questions about that topic. Make him think you are entranced with him and his vast knowledge give him the affirmation he is looking for. Also, bragging on him never hurts.

How to Be a Temptress 101

5. Body Language, Body Language

Men are visual creatures and most of them need visual cues to realize your interested in them. Be happy, smile, and always look into his eyes. Be bold don't be afraid to lightly touch his arm or fix his shirt collar. This will show it's possible your intrested in him but not 100%. Look yourself up and down and then look at him this is called a covert self-offering. In Psychology/Ethology all animals have covert

self-offering behaviors.

Good luck ladies...💞


9|6
2552

Most Helpful Guys

Most Helpful Girls

  • OH MY GOODNESS!!! :o This is one heck of some reallyyyyy GOOD AND AWESOME advice!! I love it and i'm glad i read this fully! :) I just wish there were more advice because i seriously love this!! :D

    1|0
    1|1

Recommended myTakes

Join the discussion

What Guys Said 50

  • Very, very good. Enjoyed it!

    0|0
    0|0
  • It makes sense but is overkill because it is not that complicated. I mean I pick up on fake cues immediately and if I sensed any of this as an act, that would be a turn off. No one is talented enough to make all this look natural and it would most likely flop. An old saying is "don't try to bull$hit a bull$hitter".

    5|2
    0|0
    • Please to meet you player I'm the coach

    • An illustration of irony indeed in that you preach "playing" a temptress-impression-illusion game while indicting me as a player.

  • ... or some girl will be the exact opposite and still have men chasing her. This is the mainstream idea, but far from being all that attracts a man.

    5|2
    0|0
  • Well written! A bit over simplified, but you did a good job. I think a greater emphasis needs to be placed on developing girls' sense of identity in childhood. Every time we tell young parents that their daughter is beautiful, we kind of reinforce the idea that if she weren't physically appealing, no one would care about her.

    2|0
    0|0
  • Dressing like a slut is a great way to meet bottom-feeders who will pump you and dump you.

    Think about who it is you want to tempt, because different men go for different kinds of women.

    How to Be a Temptress 101

    Consider yourselves mansplained.

    1|2
    1|0
    • Yeah, but you will still hornbag all over the slutty ones. You just wouldn’t want to date one.

    • @Drinkingcoffee It must be convenient to always think the worst of men, because it excuses your own worst behavior, right?

      I don't "hornbag" over sluts at all, and lots of men don't. Sorry if that goes against everything Oprah taught you about men.

  • Yep... pretty much spot on! I remember all these... er... tactics when I was a young lad. If you have oatmeal for brains (as a guy) it all works really well and you will be snared in her net in no time!

    But I digress. These are all VERY important 'tools' for ladies to land their man. Now - get out there ladies and start clubbing those poor helpless seals... er... BOYS!

    0|0
    0|0
  • it's so obvious when girls are following these steps though. my rule is If i spot any girls following these steps, and they have a college degree or currently enrolled in a 4 year, they're using these tactics to lure. aka wh*re. aka faking it.

    0|1
    1|0
  • 😂😂😂😂
    It is called living for others.
    Fake life
    And this process will make a women greedy desired for men and she may never settle.
    Man will eventually loose interest on such women when they figure out whats really happening.

    1|1
    0|0
  • Advice for poor unfortunate souls...
    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=xfkkMHieqcI

    1|0
    0|0
  • She looks like the pictures of the girls from the Escort Service, only when you get to their "high end hotel room," it turns out to be a Motel 6 and she looks like your cleaning lady.

    0|0
    0|0
  • I like the tip about fixing his shirt collar. If a girl starts doing stuff like that I know she's confident and likely interested. Makes my job easier to flirt back if I like her.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Nice take owl girl even though i don't agree in some points... such as her career or she doesn't have time to chase him or make him to call...😏

    0|0
    0|0
  • I approve of this message.

    I meet so many women who just don't shut up about themselves, even if their lives are boring as hell. Even had a few girlfriends, and a recent one, who barely showed any interest in who I was and always focused the conversations on themselves. I may as well have been a wall or a robot asking them questions and getting them talking. Kind of annoying, but I got used to it, because most women I find are like that.

    I don't offer anything about myself if they don't ask. But I really appreciate it when they do ask me about myself. But that's good advice for any situation. Everyone loves to talk about themselves.

    Good advice.

    0|0
    0|0
  • I think these things will work because a large % of men are so thirsty.

    1|1
    0|0
  • I don't like strong perfume. But if you 'accidentally' touch me, I will easily understand how serious you are.

    1|0
    0|0
  • I'm not sure this is a very good long term plan, as soon as penetration occurs all your ''power'' is lost and gives way to a more natural state of mind.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Guys like me love an intelligent conversation but not all guys will, smelling good really helps and guys don’t always pick up on the hints, I would make sure he knows you like him

    0|0
    0|0
    • Also if your insecure, a decent guy won’t look down on you for it, I think both genders should be honest with people they are attracted to

    • Insacure isn't my flaw

    • I’m not saying it is, I’m saying in general for any girl but that was good advice, thanks for sharing!

  • 0|0
    0|0
  • It's just the way you're drawn. Great pictures, er, I mean, great take.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Great take.

    Some women are a magnet for men while some women who are just as good looking really are not. I guess it is all in the presentation.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Floral or citrusy never interest me. Those are scents for women who are wanting to please other women.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Very interesting - A lot of that would get my attention nut some would be OTT but thats just me.

    0|0
    0|0
  • That second image is one heck of a female body lol
    Where can I find that hum?

    0|0
    0|0
  • Learn C and PHP
    Do his work
    Make him spaghetti
    Sit on his face

    0|1
    3|0
  • Only women I've met that I could considered temptresses had two things in common

    1) sex appeal. They radiated it. The way they dressed, looked, and acted. They had this ability to make me wanna fuck them until they couldn't walk but also wanna protect them (from other guys fucking them). It didn't hurt that they both had big tits

    2) they made me feel important. They flirted, listened, showed an interest in me, broke the touch barrier, made me feel like they could care about me and I was wanted.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Jessica Rabbit always seemed a bit tranny to me.

    3|0
    0|0
  • Yeah! Now this is accurate!

    1|0
    0|1
  • Well said

    0|0
    0|0
  • Don't be bad, just be drawn that way.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Look at you!..
    A goddess

    0|0
    0|2
  • Show more from Guys
    20

What Girls Said 23

  • I think this depends on the man you want to attract really. Also the situation/setting.

    For me, I'm in a "Temptress" mindset I'm one of two things. If it's with a stranger I'm piecing the apart and playing with them. I've done that with men who have dangerous backgrounds or things about them.

    If it's with my man it's foreplay or teasing. So it's like a slow building the I'm crafting for fun times later.

    It all depends but those are my uses of that behavior.

    0|0
    0|0
  • good one...

    and big boobs, tiny waist, wide hips, curvy ass, flat stomach, and long legs help too.

    2|1
    0|1
    • You supporting?

    • There are no standards of beauty. Keep away those fake standards.
      A perfect ass woman is the most unattractive

  • Good One, hun.
    However... Like Some, hun, Now Disney Pictures, Be careful it is not Depicted PC. xxoo

    1|0
    0|1
  • Sorry, but in my opinion, if you follow those rules you're nothing but a fake. To attract people be yourself and work only on your confidence and looks (if needed). Make sure you're comfortable with yourself and don't worry about what others think.

    1|1
    0|0
    • "How to be a temptress" isn't that the point? nothing genuine in there lol

      and only good advice i think it offers is if you just read the headings and fill in the rest with common sense lol
      "smell good" yeah no one likes other people who smell like piss and alcohol lol

  • Just be yourself. And if a guy doesn’t like that then they aren’t right for you. Attract someone that appreciates you just how you are without following rules. Fuck rules! 😋

    1|0
    0|0
  • well, a LBD, black nylons and heels have always done the job for me.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Maybe it's just in my experience, but I haven't had to work on the things you mentioned to have a guy interested. Either that or I'm following them without knowing about it.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Awesome. I just need to pick a signature scent lmao
    xx
    ~ Mrs Manson

    0|0
    0|1
  • To me a temptress means slut and/or tease. You could have worded it better.

    0|1
    0|0
  • If I have to work that hard for a man I rather not have him at all. Yeah, I can be extremely alluring but none of that is what attracts men to me. What attracts men to me is the fact that I have SOMETHING that is common in liking with them like loving anime. I am funny and I do not try hard to "seduce" them which is why they are attracted to me.
    Some of this is helpful like the smelling good part but a lot of this is utter bullshit. Mostly YOUNGER boys are attracted to women like that however older men are looking for women they can find a common interest in and can get to know.

    1|1
    0|0
  • Yeah i dont have the time. I prefer just being myself and not caring for attention.

    0|0
    0|0
  • I can't get over how short Jessica Rabbit's fingers are, it's like 80% palm

    0|0
    0|0
  • Wow!!!

    Agree 100%.

    0|0
    0|1
  • The secret remains a secret... lol

    0|0
    0|0
  • All of what you said is correct. 😅

    0|0
    0|0
  • "Don't seek attention, attention seeks you."

    0|1
    0|0
  • Good take

    1|0
    0|0
    • Do you even say anything else that this.
      Everywhere i see you "good take"
      Speak up something what you felt.

  • thanks, but I'd rather not be a whore.

    0|1
    0|0
  • Mehhhh

    0|1
    0|0
  • you are just like me. beach :)

    0|0
    0|1
  • okay. nice take.

    0|0
    0|0
  • You forgot the most important thing: Be good-looking or have a good plastic surgeon
    If you're average or below average you can't be a temptress

    1|0
    0|1
  • These kinds of things intimidate men sometimes and drives them away.

    0|2
    0|0

Recommended Questions

Loading...