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Why you aren't getting approached - Ladies (Page 2)

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  • WeaponZero
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    4getmeNOT: depends on the guy. Generally any group at all, including just two, is enough to scare guys away. Some however will be okay with two and 3 or more will be too much.

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  • Rayner
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    Hands down, I agree with everything here! Although ''high mainentance'' and ''the ring'' wouldn't bother me that much, I gotta tell, if the girl doesn't make an eye-contact and doesn't smile, that makes the approaching MUCH harder!

    For some reason people suspect every stranger who talks to them is a serial killer, or wants to rape them, not to mention that most of abuse actually has been done by their family and friends not strangers.

    Just a simple smile is enough to break the ice!

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  • WMusiq07
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    This is a very well articulated article. I know I'm guilty of at least half of what you mentioned. I'll change it up, and see what happens! Anyway, very good article.

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  • calialltheway1993
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    #5- are you saying those who dress well and take care of themselves won't get approached as to those who wear whatever will get approached?

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  • 4getmeNOT
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    So, question then. If girls are unapproachable when in a group, how many girls makes a group? 3 or 4? And if it's just 2 girls, is that okay?

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  • yeths
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    Great advice ...Brilliant! One should never be so desperate to be in a relationship they drop all their standards

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  • sixstring
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    Wearing short skirts/dresses. You have to cross your legs all the time when you're sitting, That comes across as a closed/defensive position.

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  • calialltheway1993
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    :( that is how I normally and typicaally dress its my style. I've had many guys said I dress rich. Am I shutting theem down because of my outfits?

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  • Snar87
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    I hate when girls are focus on their phones, MP3/IPads, and walks really fast. I agree everything that's said here.

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  • Gone_But_Not_Lost
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    No idea when you wrote this, but this seems pretty spot on.

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  • 7gnat
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    Great article. The member of the pack scenario is something that is very intimidating for some guys. No guy wants an audience while he is trying to make a great 1st impression.

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  • WeaponZero
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    DishLady: try copying it in segments, so that you are omitting anything that has "funny fonts."

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  • DishLady
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    No, I'm trying. I get an error message about "streaming"... No idea what that is.

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  • WeaponZero
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    DishLady: No, I don't =( Can't you just select the text and copy/paste it?

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  • DishLady
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    Lol. Thanks. Trying to save/print it, but it's not working. Do you have a PDF version handy?

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  • DishLady
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    I love this one! If I cite the link, can I use this for a group I'm counseling this semester?

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  • thegirlnextdoorxx
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    Lamby, maybe you're not making any eyecontact with guys?

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  • Bernetta
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    But its so weird to smile and walk ard the campus.. Plus walking slowly? Looks weird.. imagine a pretty girl smiling for dun know what walking ard the campus slowly alone.. -.-lll

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  • alexsc
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    It's all true, except the ring, I never notice that until I'm already talking to her.

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  • rotarymoon
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    sixstring--that is modesty...not something considered "non-approachable"

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