4getmeNOT: depends on the guy. Generally any group at all, including just two, is enough to scare guys away. Some however will be okay with two and 3 or more will be too much.
Hands down, I agree with everything here! Although ''high mainentance'' and ''the ring'' wouldn't bother me that much, I gotta tell, if the girl doesn't make an eye-contact and doesn't smile, that makes the approaching MUCH harder!
For some reason people suspect every stranger who talks to them is a serial killer, or wants to rape them, not to mention that most of abuse actually has been done by their family and friends not strangers.
This is a very well articulated article. I know I'm guilty of at least half of what you mentioned. I'll change it up, and see what happens! Anyway, very good article.
Great article. The member of the pack scenario is something that is very intimidating for some guys. No guy wants an audience while he is trying to make a great 1st impression.
But its so weird to smile and walk ard the campus.. Plus walking slowly? Looks weird.. imagine a pretty girl smiling for dun know what walking ard the campus slowly alone.. -.-lll
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4getmeNOT: depends on the guy. Generally any group at all, including just two, is enough to scare guys away. Some however will be okay with two and 3 or more will be too much.
Hands down, I agree with everything here! Although ''high mainentance'' and ''the ring'' wouldn't bother me that much, I gotta tell, if the girl doesn't make an eye-contact and doesn't smile, that makes the approaching MUCH harder!
For some reason people suspect every stranger who talks to them is a serial killer, or wants to rape them, not to mention that most of abuse actually has been done by their family and friends not strangers.
Just a simple smile is enough to break the ice!
This is a very well articulated article. I know I'm guilty of at least half of what you mentioned. I'll change it up, and see what happens! Anyway, very good article.
#5- are you saying those who dress well and take care of themselves won't get approached as to those who wear whatever will get approached?
So, question then. If girls are unapproachable when in a group, how many girls makes a group? 3 or 4? And if it's just 2 girls, is that okay?
Great advice ...Brilliant! One should never be so desperate to be in a relationship they drop all their standards
Wearing short skirts/dresses. You have to cross your legs all the time when you're sitting, That comes across as a closed/defensive position.
:( that is how I normally and typicaally dress its my style. I've had many guys said I dress rich. Am I shutting theem down because of my outfits?
I hate when girls are focus on their phones, MP3/IPads, and walks really fast. I agree everything that's said here.
No idea when you wrote this, but this seems pretty spot on.
Great article. The member of the pack scenario is something that is very intimidating for some guys. No guy wants an audience while he is trying to make a great 1st impression.
DishLady: try copying it in segments, so that you are omitting anything that has "funny fonts."
No, I'm trying. I get an error message about "streaming"... No idea what that is.
DishLady: No, I don't =( Can't you just select the text and copy/paste it?
Lol. Thanks. Trying to save/print it, but it's not working. Do you have a PDF version handy?
I love this one! If I cite the link, can I use this for a group I'm counseling this semester?
Lamby, maybe you're not making any eyecontact with guys?
But its so weird to smile and walk ard the campus.. Plus walking slowly? Looks weird.. imagine a pretty girl smiling for dun know what walking ard the campus slowly alone.. -.-lll
It's all true, except the ring, I never notice that until I'm already talking to her.
sixstring--that is modesty...not something considered "non-approachable"