They are leaving written proof so the guy could do anything with that. Anyhow I don't know most women neither do you. It’s conjecture I’m a woman and prefer it head on so as not to waste time 🙂
my first girlfriend aproached me because i was wearing a sabaton shirt while walking by, she deliberately stood where I could see and talk to her. So yeah go ahead and talk to the guy you like, I found it amazing.
@UnaKaizen Yes, I know that, I was talking about the "All it takes is confidence and confidence is very sexy" part. A woman who is generally shy but dares to take the risk when it comes to you just shows how much she values you, and there is nothing better than that. That is not what I meant.
Turn off for me. Depends on the situation, If its like a drunk chick at bar she thirsty. If its like a chick who been creeping on me for 5 months maybe give her a pass for the effort.
@UnaKaizen the courageous one who do have more choices and also tend to have happier relationship. The chicks who wait for guys to come to them have only half the options and subsequently less happy relationships .
Dudu that’s so weird it’s happening to me as well! But I’m starting to get tired of it so I started engaging her in conversation when I see her she is talking more. Sometimes it’s easier for someone to comfortably express themselves via text
Then when there's no more steam, she starts asming more questions about me or something I had mentioned around her that I didn't think she was even paying attention to at the time like a year later
@Tomblebee so all they praying I did for this person to contact me, then she just does our of nowhere means anything at all. The situation was hopeless then one day wham, she's the last person in the world who would ever interacted with me
This is basically what happened with my last boyfriend. I met him at a social game of hockey. Asked his name for calling purposes. Became intrigued that he knew mine without me telling him.. Went home asked my bro about him (same school), given his last name searched him up on the gram (miny crushin) searched up his nick-name which i was given... when his insta was his actual name.. no luck. Ah well wasn't meant to be.. Three weeks later scrolling through a friends following list to broaden my followers list, found him, sent a request.. Ba-bam will you go out with me. Wtf. Shit happens.
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you rockkkk. The world needs more women like you ;)
Day that shit happens, I'll go to church and tell Jesus he actually did something right
Most guys love it when a girl shows strong interest. It makes us feel like a million fucking dollars, as long as she's not insane.
Speaking of insane, is it wrong that I want to do unspeakable things with Jenna Marbles?
Women don't make the first move because they are not attracted to guys until they emotionally connected with the guy.
Women usually do it in subtle ways like leaving a note
That’s not subtle it’s just silent 🙃
@UnaKaizen it's more subtle than blatantly saying it
No you’re dating it in writing. Plus you’re leaving proof which in my opinion is way ruskier. Rather just say it.
@UnaKaizen They usually write something, leave it, then flee, so they don't have to take rejection head on. That's less subtle.
They are leaving written proof so the guy could do anything with that. Anyhow I don't know most women neither do you. It’s conjecture I’m a woman and prefer it head on so as not to waste time 🙂
at least they show SOME effort
I don't like it when girls come on to me, for some reason whenever i reject them they get real salty and it just becomes a cringefest
I only make my move when I know the feeling is at least mutual... I will not dare if he shows zero interest.
Yes, that's pretty common for lower functioning guys.
@belarus Can't really comprehend what you're trying to say as English isn't my native language? care to explain a little?
my first girlfriend aproached me because i was wearing a sabaton shirt while walking by, she deliberately stood where I could see and talk to her. So yeah go ahead and talk to the guy you like, I found it amazing.
I think a lot of men find confidence attractive in a woman, but I'm not one of them. I find the shy girl type a lot more adorable, but that's just me.
Approaching doesn’t mean you’re not shy it just means you’re brave.
@UnaKaizen Yes, I know that, I was talking about the "All it takes is confidence and confidence is very sexy" part. A woman who is generally shy but dares to take the risk when it comes to you just shows how much she values you, and there is nothing better than that. That is not what I meant.
Got it. I feel the exact same about guys actually 🙂
Turn off for me. Depends on the situation, If its like a drunk chick at bar she thirsty. If its like a chick who been creeping on me for 5 months maybe give her a pass for the effort.
So how does anybody get anywhere I’d making the first move is a negative thing?
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@UnaKaizen the courageous one who do have more choices and also tend to have happier relationship. The chicks who wait for guys to come to them have only half the options and subsequently less happy relationships
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Wow! Must be a privilege just to talk to you. LOL
Its a breath of fresh air, and it Rarely happens to me.
In case I've known her before, it's a turn-on. But I already happened to be approached by weird ones, that was a huge turn-off.
So if outta nowhere I get messages from a girl who knew I was crushing on her, but avoided me like the plague then, does that mean something
How does one go about avoiding the plague?
@Tomblebee you don't get it
Dudu that’s so weird it’s happening to me as well! But I’m starting to get tired of it so I started engaging her in conversation when I see her she is talking more. Sometimes it’s easier for someone to comfortably express themselves via text
@Latinochef83 I tried talking and the responses come in seconds as soon as send them
Then when there's no more steam, she starts asming more questions about me or something I had mentioned around her that I didn't think she was even paying attention to at the time like a year later
No. I gettit. But you can't simply avois the plague.. That shit catches up to you.
@Tomblebee so all they praying I did for this person to contact me, then she just does our of nowhere means anything at all. The situation was hopeless then one day wham, she's the last person in the world who would ever interacted with me
This is basically what happened with my last boyfriend. I met him at a social game of hockey. Asked his name for calling purposes. Became intrigued that he knew mine without me telling him.. Went home asked my bro about him (same school), given his last name searched him up on the gram (miny crushin) searched up his nick-name which i was given... when his insta was his actual name.. no luck. Ah well wasn't meant to be.. Three weeks later scrolling through a friends following list to broaden my followers list, found him, sent a request.. Ba-bam will you go out with me. Wtf. Shit happens.
You are a god-send, woman.
I love it when she makes the 1st move
Great take I love women who go for what they want
I wish one would, however that is still rare.
Yes, unfortunately.
I like it when that happens
I would like it if she did...
It is a turn on!