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Playing VS Being Hard-To-Get (Page 2)
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Playing hard to get is just saying your last in line for the miles of D she had before you and she thinks she's special nah nah Im alright. I'm all cool with not passing it out like dollar bills at the strip club I applaud restraint but If you think that men are going to wait around like a good dog forget it. I got things to do and your in the way.
I don't think guys will wait because I know they will. I've had guys wait months (and years) to get with me even though I explicitly told them I wasn't interested
My what is in the way?
your in my way of getting to the girl i want.
@rufurrealz
My what is in the way?
Do you not understand proper grammatical structure. Didn't they teach you about verbs in... third grade?
you sound really pretentious... you probably were privileged and spoiled ur whole life, weren't you?
go ahead, criticize my grammar, at least im not stuck up.
sweet dreams, cup of butter.
@rufurrealz
You don't know how I sound because you've never heard me speak. I am not pretentious. You, on the other hand, are rude for calling people names. On the contrary, I have been neither privileged nor spoiled; everything I have has been earned through my own fruition
If you wrote legible sentences, nobody would have to question your grammar. Poor thing you are to not understand verbs, capitalization, and conjunctions at your age
At least I have enough self-esteem to not let the insidious falsifications of juvenile internet trolls dictate my happiness
We dislike standers that aren't us.
Your competing against other women though so you still need to set realistic standards based on what you have going for you and the guys available the less common the fewer your options you have and the more other women want thous things the greater your competition and lower your chance of getting and keeping them.
I get what you're saying, but that doesn't apply to me. I don't compete with other women. They compete with me... and lose... and get jealous... and then complain about it to people I know who tell me about
That's the difference. Knowing you don't have to compete means you don't have to play games and can wait for the right man to come along
Sounds like your in a good position then you know what you want in a guy and can get him.
u sound like a cocky woman. you think ur attractive or soemthing?
@rufurrealz
No I don't think I'm attractive. I know I'm beautiful because other people have told me so
Do not confuse cockiness with genuine self-esteem. I know that may be difficult for you since you have none
pretentious, privileged, overeducated- spoiled hater.
don't be hating on my uniqueness. you can't have me. i know this is ur way of being angry because im rejecting you... ill tell u outloud-I'M NOT INTERESTED IN PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU, OR FLIRTING WITH YOU.
sweet dreams, cup of butter.
@rufurrealz
Oh! Are you speaking about yourself now? I can recommend a good therapist for that it
where u from? :)
The master is the girl. So playing a little bit is nice. A little bit hard-to-get could be nice too but not too much.
Sounds like you have the right idea
😂😂😂😂
Women are hard everywhere.
Nice one though.
Hope you dont play hard to get at times!
Lol yeah. If relationships were easy, sites like this wouldn't exist
I only play when I casually flirt, but I don't lead guys on once I know I'm not interested
As a guy, I do have a lot of standards too when it comes to looking for a partner. Yeah, I am picky and I don't want to be with someone who doesn't meet my standards.
Some girls are mean to the guys they like, I feel like they scare to show their feelings. I will get them either way 😈
I don't like either. Just be straightforward. Why waste time?
Really liked this take, one of the more informative ones I've read.
When women play hard to get, i play impossible to get, Meaning i dont play idiotic manipulative games nor do i jump through hoops.
"Being hard-to-get"
"Playing hard-to-get"
>The same thing
>Just as bad as the other
"Men who put no effort into courting should be avoided because they will put no further effort into a relationship"
I don't think that's a given at all. I think it's a rationalization to make girls not feel bad... because for some reason that's what most important here.
I want my woman to have standards. Meeting them would make me feel special. It’s a good thing to have some, and not the same as picky.
Also most times I'm not playing hard to get , I'm just not interested at alllll.
Just be yourself. If they don't like you, just move on...
I think it will always happen--insecurity is reason.
Ahh and thus why I've out the dating scene for almost 2 years now, this shit is way too complicated than it should be, it just ruins dating if ya ask me
I just want a girl who is not that childish. Hard to get is a big turn off for me
I'd be lucky to get a date let alone give it time to find her intentions 😂😂
Meh women that play hard to get make me laugh. NO woman is worth playing these childish games for.
You attract what you put out there
I'm only into games so this clearly isn't for me... but good take!!
this article is too long. The long and short of it is that sex = hard to get. no se = playing