I think your expectations of hospitality staff might be high, generally they be nice to you because it's important for customer service, plus if he doesn't want to hang out, he probably is a loner, possibly his house is messy. And maybe he doesn't have feelings for you, but it's good you have the courage to initiate things with guys you like, don't ever let a few doors closing on you from meeting new people and getting to know them.
I read it as "latest erection story" which I guess you were high so your mind was erected and my title works just fine. But Im sorry that happened. Been single all my life, so not much advice here. But yeah I imagine that kinda sucked, not sure why people do people like that
of course you're getting rejected, what woman in her 30s is still doing drugs
you don't have the body of the 18 year old girls who do drugs, and you aren't marketing yourself on the maturity and sophistication that women your age have as an advantage
He likes you. Isn't interested... at the moment. I think the situation will evolve. He's likely got someone else on the go who may be yanking his chain a bit. Continue as if nothing happened.
Haha no u read him correct but there are two strong possibilities here 1st - he is high when he works thts y huge smile, jokes etc 2nd - he is tired after a long day ( maybe had a bad day... ) don't be high while making decisions...
Dont worry about it. You seem a nice woman. You will surely get a nice man. Its his loss that he didn't get a chance to hangout with you again. Its a win-win for you.
Lol go and ask him out directly no games will see what the guy does try and fail but not fail to try smoke that joint from your ass get it warmed up to move to the bar.
Sorry it didn't work, if you didn't try, you would always wonder what if. You go girl, go after what you want
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That’s why you never ask a man out. If he wanted you, he would’ve asked you out. Don’t take it personally, he’s probably gay - most men are. That’s another reason why you should never ask a man out.
So you are only a special sort of idiot then? 97+ percent of men are NOT gay, otherwise the Earth would have never reached eight billion inhabitants. When someone is rejecting you, it means he is not interested, nothing else.
I think that’s why the bible made it a point to condemn male on male sex - cuz most males were having sex with each other and there was going to be a huge population decline.
Ah, well, this happens to many of us, so don't sweat it. You tried and that's all that matters. Although I would argue he does this for the business. He might be doing the same thing to the other clients too.
A drug den is not a place to go to meet quality people.
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He's an employee. You're a client. In a business that is regulated. Were you looking to get him fired? In certain jobs like this, they can't "fraternize" with the clients period.
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Never mind you had nothing to "hang out on". He rolled you a joint. Do you really want to know how many clients probably got that "special" joint.
I won't read all this but for MY OPINION, Girls shouldn't be like a whore jumping from a guy to guy until they are thirty and wonder why there no men, Again as my opinion as man I don't want a used woman
YOU SHOULD GO THERE and act like nothing happened. if you decide to not go there if he remembered you he might think its bcs of him. go there and ignore him. see wht will happen.
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I think your expectations of hospitality staff might be high, generally they be nice to you because it's important for customer service, plus if he doesn't want to hang out, he probably is a loner, possibly his house is messy. And maybe he doesn't have feelings for you, but it's good you have the courage to initiate things with guys you like, don't ever let a few doors closing on you from meeting new people and getting to know them.
I read it as "latest erection story" which I guess you were high so your mind was erected and my title works just fine. But Im sorry that happened. Been single all my life, so not much advice here. But yeah I imagine that kinda sucked, not sure why people do people like that
of course you're getting rejected, what woman in her 30s is still doing drugs
you don't have the body of the 18 year old girls who do drugs, and you aren't marketing yourself on the maturity and sophistication that women your age have as an advantage
30 isn't old. Unless you are into 13 year olds
@alina112 i didn't say it was or wasn't old. but it's TOO old to behave like this
He likes you. Isn't interested... at the moment. I think the situation will evolve. He's likely got someone else on the go who may be yanking his chain a bit. Continue as if nothing happened.
Damn. I give you ten points for having the courage to put yourself out there. Wayne Gretsky said you miss100% of the shots you don't take.
Haha no u read him correct but there are two strong possibilities here
1st - he is high when he works thts y huge smile, jokes etc
2nd - he is tired after a long day ( maybe had a bad day... ) don't be high while making decisions...
Dont worry about it. You seem a nice woman. You will surely get a nice man. Its his loss that he didn't get a chance to hangout with you again. Its a win-win for you.
Lol go and ask him out directly no games will see what the guy does try and fail but not fail to try smoke that joint from your ass get it warmed up to move to the bar.
If he says no roll that joint up his ass lol 😆
Sorry it didn't work, if you didn't try, you would always wonder what if. You go girl, go after what you want
That’s why you never ask a man out. If he wanted you, he would’ve asked you out. Don’t take it personally, he’s probably gay - most men are. That’s another reason why you should never ask a man out.
Is this sarcasm, I can't tell if your serious?
Goddamn, the pink troll is a special sort of idiot.
I’m not a troll.
So you are only a special sort of idiot then? 97+ percent of men are NOT gay, otherwise the Earth would have never reached eight billion inhabitants.
When someone is rejecting you, it means he is not interested, nothing else.
You're.. srry
lol Yea, let’s pretend gay men haven’t gotten married and had babies all the fucking time. You’re retarded.
I think that’s why the bible made it a point to condemn male on male sex - cuz most males were having sex with each other and there was going to be a huge population decline.
Ah, well, this happens to many of us, so don't sweat it. You tried and that's all that matters.
Although I would argue he does this for the business. He might be doing the same thing to the other clients too.
I sympathize w/ u girl, and stuff like that happens to everybody at least once. Don't stress about it or blame urself!!
A drug den is not a place to go to meet quality people.
He's an employee. You're a client. In a business that is regulated. Were you looking to get him fired? In certain jobs like this, they can't "fraternize" with the clients period.
Never mind you had nothing to "hang out on". He rolled you a joint. Do you really want to know how many clients probably got that "special" joint.
I won't read all this but for MY OPINION, Girls shouldn't be like a whore jumping from a guy to guy until they are thirty and wonder why there no men, Again as my opinion as man I don't want a used woman
She didn’t say anything about her previous dating history.
@DarkWinterNights I didn't write this magazine, Again it's my opinion
I didn't get any of that from her post.
YOU SHOULD GO THERE and act like nothing happened. if you decide to not go there if he remembered you he might think its bcs of him. go there and ignore him. see wht will happen.
I guess now you understand what it's like to be a guy. Hehe.
I'm impressed he didn't take advantage of you. Decent guy.
It happens, you seem sweet. Dont worry to much about it.
I'm pretty sure weed probably affects your intuition, since it affects other brain processes as well.
Not a good place to meet guys.
@plredhead Agreed.