We're both too stubborn to text first?

[TaylorHey]

I liked this guy for a while, but we sort of fell out of touch. Lately he's been liking all of my pictures and tweeting me.

I want us to "talk" again and give it another shot, but I don't wanna text him first. I want him to make more of an effort and take the initiative.

[Ihav2fart]

This is what is wrong with society! It is 2014!!! Girls like you should just initiate! Guys are too much of a wuss now... I would not call it stubborn I would call it HE IS A GOD DAMNED PANSIES! Take the initiative to talk to him if you're attracted to him. If you two continue this one of you is just going to end up regretting it when one of you two loses the chance.

GOD DAMNED PANSIES ONLY FEEL LIKE THEY'RE GOD BEHIND THE KEYBOARD NOWADAYS!

sorry for the caps but not really.

[JSmuve]

"I want him to make more of an effort and take the initiative"

How's he supposed to know you want this, though?

[TaylorHey]

Good question. I honestly wouldn't mind taking the initiatove if it weren't for the fact that I had to do that with him the last time. I just expect more effort from him this time around... ya know?

[JSmuve]

So what are you afraid of? Shoot him a text, it doesn't take long. If he makes an effort great. If he doesn't, you wasted 30 seconds of your life.

[Riley123454321]

I know exactly what you mean! Skip the texting thing. Just ask to hangout in person! Like just say, hey I'm really bored want to watch a movie.. it's completely okay to say that! just go for it, life is short!

[TaylorHey]

We go to two different colleges in PA but he lives in Jersey so it's harder to just ask to get together. Is there anything else I could do... at least until school starts back up

[Riley123454321]

School's coming up soon! but if you wanted to try to get in contact first, you could just ask if he's excited for school to start, or ask if he wants to meet up when you get back to school. Or study together, ect. Are you guys interested in the same thing academically? My boyfriend an I are both pre med, I was in the same situation. I just asked him if he could help me with my Chem. lab. Anything you guys could bond over would help!

[TaylorHey]

We have two different majors but actually have a lot of similar interests. I feel like we'd have great chemistry and connection with each other

[Riley123454321]

Just go for it! Its rare to feel like that! good luck girl!

[TaylorHey]

Thank you!

[Betwyn]

Well.. is he supposed to read your mind?

[Blue2]

HAHAHHAHAHAHHAH Yeah all guys have mind reading powers :)

[Blue2]

Just text him first.

[Blue2]

Being shy is not something to do in love but it always fucks up a potential relationship I had to learn that the hard way don't make the same mistake that many others have.

[TaylorHey]

I totally agree and I don't wanna miss out on something that may possibly work out. I'm just afraid to text him first because I made initiative the last time, then we stopped talking, and now he's back.

[Blue2]

Well maybe you have to push for 2 get back 1 or something. If you really want something to happen the choice is yours some guys need a push here and there to really do something. Good luck

[Anonymous]

Ok so... text him?