Guys, which is worse? Always being available or playing hard to get?

[PennyLane09]

Do you get sick of girls that are always available (not always bothering you, just always around & easily accessible -no, not that kind of easy)? How do you feel about them? Does it p*ss you off when girls play hard to get? Or do you like a little chase? Opinions please.

[-StillWater-]

I SO don't believe you! [to gotc147]

Men think that THAT'S the right answer to this question, but honestly, if she was always there, whenever you call her she'll go out with you, she doesn't have a life of her own, and she'd do anything for you, go anywhere, whenever, wherever...it's VERY off putting!

Plus, if she's always with you , then you're certain she doesn't have anyone else she's interested in...

On the other hand, if she's HARD TO GET then she really might be hard to get! She's desirable, mysterious, shy/social butterfly, she's...always there for you to see, but never with you!

Yeah..that really messes guys up!

Trust me...it's always better to be hard to get than always available! xD

;)

[gotc147]

Wrong.

Says you're single, guess I don't have to wonder why anymore. I'd much rather enjoy a relationship with her than be constantly wonder what the hell is going through her mind. If all I do is get to see her but never do anything with her it drives me away, makes me feel she isn't into me so I move on.

There is nothing fun about never being with a girl I like.

[ouple]

I agree with gotc147.

You wouldn't understand what goes through a guys head, and when you think playing hard to get is going to be a good thing for you.........wrong. Guys unlike girls don't care about the girls social life, we only care about her and what makes her different. No offense or anything but this is not really the question for you to be giving the advice for.

[-StillWater-]

HAHA

Ok....calm down people! xD

It was just my point of view...

[and in my country, guys actually care a great deal about girl's social lives...or the lack of one. It just tells you a lot about who you're dealing with...]

[gotc147]

There is a difference between being interested in a girls social life and and caring that she will set it aside to be with us.

[darksouljoseph]

I don't know what ur smoking girl we don't want a girl to play hard to get itts annoying and makes us give up why play hard to get if you like a guy its stupid and doesn't make sense we would rather you be you and I mean that about everything I'm a guy that has been thru hell and back and my friend cleo kept actin like she didn't want to even try to date me but then I decide to move to florida and she tries to kill me she starts yelling and sh*t I'm like wtf she starts telllin me she likes me but I had b

[ALWAYSclassy]

I don't think any guy would think it's cute if you're playing games with him. You shouldn't play hard to get you should actually be hard to get. And by that I mean less available. Have your own thing going on and be busy. That shows your life is good with or without him and I think that's more attractive than just sitting around texting him all the time like you have no life. Guys don't respect that.

[ouple]

Its worse playing hard to get because guys think logically, not emotionally like girls (scientific studies have shown). If you play hard to get then the guy will just think that you're not into him, or she is just a whore wasting her time playing with him. Just be human...and act the way your heart tells you and it'll be fine.

P.S.

Don't call/text him everynight...let him do some of the work for you, but not all of it.

[gotc147]

Much worse when she plays hard to get.

[PennyLane09]

But does it annoy you if she's always around? or do you take her for granted? How's a girl supposed to play it w/o you backing off or pushing her away?

[gotc147]

Don't always make first contact but don't always make him do it first either.

If you smother him then obviously it's going to push him away but you're going to have the same effect if you keep screwing with his head. Show you're interested and keep showing him you're interesed

[WeaponZero]

I don't like it when she plays hard to get. That puts me off right away and makes me instantly move on to someone else. But that doesn't mean she has to always be available. Just do what comes naturally. Don't go out of your way to be there, and don't go out of your way to play hard to get. Don't go out of your way at all. If you do either one you're making a game out of it and that in and of itself is what puts guys off.

[bellybuttonlint]

I'm more a believer of "Don't waste my time and I won't waste yours."

But hard to get sucks. If any girl is hard to get, I'll stop pursuing her. Because if you both like each other, why waste time? Why not be together instead of just flirting all the time? Always being available isn't too bad though...but only if it's a girl that I like.

[Blankname1]

I'm the as wally a balance of both is needed.

Playing to hard to get will get annoying and the man may even feel like a loser.

Being there too much can at times be boring,so try for both.

Peace!

[palek]

Playing hard to get is much worse for me, as I'm an always available kind of guy. I hate playing games 'cause I'd rather spend time enjoying a relationship.

[wally]

I would say BOTH. as a balance combination.

[xxxToomy07]

Ja Hard to get ist sehr harder