It's age. 40+ kg isn't much at all for a girl, but it's a lot for a young kid. He can probably curl 10kg, 20kg max. He sees guys carrying girls and thinks he can, but movies have grown men not kids. To lift 40kg he will need to train at least a few years and for you to be really easy, he'll need to handle well over 40, like 60+. What he should be doing is carrying you by having you holding onto to him or over his shoulder. Yep, lol. Reality is not like the movies. It's not easy to carry someone for more than a minute with your arms even if they are small.
I had to read some responses to see what prompted this question.
No, you are not too heavy for your size, your BF just isn't strong enough to lift you comfortably.
He just isn't used to lifting, and would need to do some exercising to build muscle.
At 14, he hasn't fully developed yet.
94 lbs is not heavy at all. He has some problem :/ I'm 55kg/120 lbs and my boyfriend has no problem carrying me.
But one thing I would say, you should not be dating at 14.
This is by far one of the most pointless non issue questions I've ever seen.
He needs to hit the gym is all. Seriously not your problem at all.
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... why is that even a problem? He overestimated himself, shit happens. Being carried is objectively just that: being carried. I don't see the problem here. By the way, you're extremely thin.
It means you are too young to have a boyfriend, and you should focus on your studies. That is it.
It depends on inner strength of the person
I myself with 6'2 height and 62 kg weight
I'm super skinny as a stick
But I can lift a girl moth more than 80kg easily
Example my sister
I think your bf is weak from inside
so what? he's weak and proud. i'd not be abl;e to carry you as well
No your no too heavy He's not strong enough Just tell him to start working out and eat a lot and drink some protein shakes and he will start picking you like its no big deal. Hope this helps:).
His muscles just aren't developed to that point yet. Wait 3 years... He'll be good. You aren't too heavy.
rly? I weight the same as him and I can tell you, I use girls that weight that less to lift. when I don't have dumbells I lift 50kg girls
It's not like 200 pound. His just not strong. You would be like lifting up a can of coke at your currrent weight
I saw a question on here by a guy who couldn't pick up his gf, you should go answer his question, how you would want this question answered
He's a pansy. He should work out.
I can carry my 65Kg gf who's 170cm ( i am 175cm and weigh 77Kg )
lol no he's just weak
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