Should I let my boyfriend carry me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I'm 16 about 67kg/147 pounds (I'm heavy I'm sorry) and he's older than me by a year and weighs less than me i think but he does gym often. He wanted to carry me several times and when I allowed him once... I really think he was suffering but was too nice to not say anything... I know I'm really heavy and fat even though I would love to be carried around but he keeps wanting to carry me - should I let him and not question his physical strength? I'm scared to let him carry me even though I want him to

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I'm 163cm/5'3 and he's 174cm/5'7

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just an update: I asked him if he wanted to carry me this time round and he said "you're not fat you're just fat" like what? I was so confused that he just called me fat suddenly so I just brushed it off and act like it didn't hurt me but I cried hmm sorry I'm pathetic guys

[Hannah591]

I think you're being paranoid and insecure. He wouldn't ask to pick you up several times if he felt he couldn't lift you. Be more confident in yourself. If he wants to pick you up, let him. Trust me, guys won't offer to lift a girl they felt was too heavy for them. You don't sound overweight/too heavy anyway!

[Anonymous]

I Think you should let him lift you of you are okay with it. But I also think you should tell him that he hurted your feelings. Emotion is natrual. I don't know why he would say that but maybe something happend to him that made him mad or something else

[Zendrya]

How tall are you because you could be a very healthy weight for your height. If it was too much for him he won't ask to do it again. He can look after himself and determine what he can handle.

[TonyRyan]

This, exactly this.

[Zendrya]

Say you are a little over weight (you are definitely not obese) you are not remembering that some of that 147lbs is the weight of your muscles. You could be really buff and still weigh enough to sound overweight but in reality you are just really fit. Maybe that isn't you. But in the end of the day your guy thinks you are smokin so be happy with how you are. And like I said he is old enough to determine whether or not he can carry you. I have given a piggy back to someone about 50lbs heavier than me and then next day my back was a little sore but I was perfectly fine.

[Anonymous]

If you are comfortable enough with yourself and him to carry you then I say go for it

[bryon]

You height and weight sound proportional. You do not sound to be over weight at all. If he wants to carry you that's cool unless your worried that he will drop you. He should be ok with it being he does work out

[9mfeo]

You need to work on your self-esteem, ok?