I am so confused about my idiot crush!

[lushlove]

Ok, I have a crush on a guy and apparently, a friend of mine told me that he isn't interested because apparently my crush told him... but my crush ALWAYS looks at me..like ALWAYS! How come guys look at you when they aren't interested in you? And once in a while, he will call me.

[mrsvincenoir]

I have never understood why women base the fact that a guy "looks" at you on how they feel about you?

I don't mean to sound harsh or anything but from my own experience if a guy really wants you...is really interested,he won't be calling you once in a while,he will be blowing up your phone trying to get a date,he would be doing more then looking at you,he will be actively making it known so that you have no doubt that he's interested.

He will want to make it clear to you.

If your mate told you something this guy said,it all depends on how much of a good friend he is,but personally I would find out for myself.

If you have his number phone him up and ask him if he wants to take you out on a date-how else are you going to know? and it saves a lot of time wasteing.

[germanotaku]

Well, how reliable is that friend of yours?

Does he quickly look away when you look at him and then looks back after a few seconds to check out?

How does he behave around you in general? What topics is it you talk about when he calls you?

If anything hides to flirting at all, why not just be blunt and ask him "Hey, what do you want? I've been told you're not interested and me, so what game are you playing with me?"

Just find nicer words than I do, hehe. Try to ask him in a calm way, though, not in an angry way my wordings may suggest ^^

[lushlove]

Why is everyone assuming that asking the guy out is easy?!? Yes he does look away quickly and when I smile at him, he looks away quickly. OUr convo is very awkward and he is awkward around me...

[germanotaku]

Oh honey, I'm in no way assuming asking anyone out is easy at all, haha.

Just telling you to do so is easy :) I mean, after all it IS the best way to approach things - even though it is the hardest, too