How To Flirt With Your Crush At The Movies?

[Anonymous]

My crush and I have been really close friends for around a year, and we both admitted to each other ages ago that we liked each other. We agreed however, that we weren't in a rush and loved being each other's friend.

He's very laid back and not obviously romantic, but I think that's because he's trying the "hard to get" thing. He doesn't compliment me to my face, and as much as I appreciate that, sometimes a girl wants to hear that mushy stuff. We tell each other everything and we trust each other. We are so close that we tease each other and bicker like an old married couple, but I have been waiting for a time where we go somewhere together that isn't initiated by me.

The other day, he asked me whether is like to go to this new movie when it comes out. And I'm really excited but also shockingly nervous because I've never been anywhere with him by ourselves before. I've never had my first kiss (I'm 14) and I want it to be with him but it doesn't have to be at the movies.

That's the background info- so my question is, how should I flirt with him during the movie to be cute and flirty but not nessecarily initiate kissing? (However, if it happens it happens)

I don't know how I should flirt and how he will react, because like I said, he doesn't show that he likes me because he's either shy, or pulling a "hard to get"? So I dont want to make a fool of myself if he doesn't respond to my flirts.

Please help me!

Thank you.

[Paris13]

From where I am sitting, sweetie, you have done Everything Right so far with 'My Crush,' and it appears to be paying off. You are Not rushing him, you are being patience which in the long run will be a Virtue someday, however I am Not sure just When Because-----He's very laid back and obviously romantic.
He is contented at this point in time to be 'Close friends' because he wants to nurse and nurture what you both have started. He is still young yet here, dear, and wet behind the ears in Years so it may take him a Month of Mondays and then Some to 'Initiate' Anything... he may not be ready nor raring for much more in store, not even with being in a heavy relationship.
I am seeing an amazing chemistry between the both of you. You are playing your cards right and not making him jump through any hoops which is good... you don't want him to grow cold duck feet and wander quickly back into the murky waters where you and him are Not even buds at its best.
By him 'Initiating' this movie idea, don't over think it, don't over do it. Let nature dictate what might happen. Yes, getting cozy, not just with popcorn and candy, but holding hands and even making out Has and Does happen when the movie is playing. However, being it is your First real time alone together, just enjoy yourself, share some sweets and treats and once shoulder to shoulder, you might be pleasantly surprised if he makes a Play unexpectedly by either taking your hand or putting a loving arm around you.
Good luck and keep up the good work. xx

[nert73]

Just simply start with getting really close to him. Like leaning on his shoulder or something. Maybe even try holding hands if you think you want to/are ready to. As far as the kiss goes, you could try after the movie when it's still dark-ish in there. Or even try right before you leave each other (you might have a better chance here).