So weird, same exact thing happened to me only in reverse. I would suggest not being friends. if you still talk often or even occasionally, you're still going to hold onto those feelings. Also, imagine what it would feel like to hear he was on a date, or hooked up with someone. I'd rather not know all together. Sure I question it, I go nuts thinking about it sometimes, but whatever. When my ex left me, I had a movie of hers I had to give back to her. So I suggested she drive to my apartment, I'd meet her out front and give it to her. I also got her a card thanking her for being such a great friend and girlfriend, and for having shared the best parts of my life with me over the past few years. I told her how much I loved her in it, and I wished her the best. I still also hope out hope that one day she will come back. But she's changed. She isn't the girl I fell in love with all those years ago. But it still doesn't change my feelings. If he has an expensive watch, he knows its missing. I would personally just mail it to him. Don't put yourself through the anguish of seeing him, hugging, anything like that. It's only going to make it worse for you unfortunately. I wouldn't contact his sister because it will look like a pity call. So just mail it all. He will see someday the love you had for him, and wish it was still around. For your sake, I hope you find someone amazing who you can give your heart to, and you'll get it in return times 12. Good luck and god bless.
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just mail it to him, if you really are dying inside you will make it worst to be in contact with him. Simply put a postage stamp on it and move on. No need to stress. your 25-29 so you have a lot going for you. Love is hard but there's always a bright light at the end if you can stand up again
Give his sister his sh*t! Pack all of it up nicely and give it back. Leave a note telling him you want to talk to him but your not ready wait two weeks. (its called a black out) and if you still care for him like a crazy school girl at the end call him and tell him how you feel if he doesn't feel the same cut your losses. but if you just want to be friends at the end tell him it is possible to be friends with your x ass long as their is no sexual attraction left at all. and please don't fall into the friends with benefits crap its just a good way for you to feel used and have your heart ripped out when he dosnt beg for you back "and getting him back is the only reason you would want to sleep with him but he may just think he gets to have a cake and eat it to.
you could mail it or call his sister up and have her return it too him.
get rid of it asap and avoid seeing him for a while.
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give them to his sister
In a box you took a dump in
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