Guys, how do you flirt with a girl you like?

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As what the title says. What are some of the things you do to get a girls attention? My crush does the following he would playfully push me and play with my hair. He would also play footsies with me

forgottenmonkey · Accepted Answer

I tend to be a talker so all this shit goes over my head. I don't really understand all the physical flirting nonsense lol. If I like you I will give you my time to talk and probably at some point tell you that I like you. But if I had to guess footsie seems like a good sign. I have never met a girl or guy who does that and they didn't like the person :)

Drath · Accepted Answer

depends, for example, potatoes day i flirted with this one girl i liked "happy potatoes day, you sweet potatoe :)" it may sound stupid but hey it worked

haha_ok · Accepted Answer

The thing with guys I've noticed is that when they're really into you, you wouldn't have to second guess it

SatoBlak · Answer

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Show me the booty fax.

QuietCutie · Answer

Look at her a lot and hope she notices me, but that's not helpful at all because I'm one of the shyest guys you'll ever meet :P if I happen to have her cell number, I'll start flirting around in texts, inviting her over to game with me, things like that.

AkumaKira · Answer

sadly i dont think im good at flirting. i smile, tell a joke or two to break the ice... touch her, lightly compliment. when i am to kiss her in the cheek i try to leave a passionate feeling lol xD
sometimes i think... i look like an idiot when flirting dont i? lol

amolak_khehra · Answer

it most certainly is... you see humans are only comfortable and receptive to touches of the people they know very well or like... if he dsnt know u much but is still physically escalating... its a clear sub-consicious sign that he is sexually interested in you.

yazzalv · Answer

I touch the girl on the arm and try to touch her knee with my knee. I find it disrespectful to you when a boy or a girl touches your arm if they don't have any interest.

On my group of friends, whenever we touch a girl or push her, touch her knee... We like her.

oldanddecrepid · Answer

My gf and I like to tease with banter. We have this thing where we tease with what we say... drop little hints in our going back and forth.

Kind of like mind flirting.

Other physical things I might do is... wear an outfit that she totally loves on me or a certain cologne.

She loves when I put on my reading glasses and peer over the rim at her when we are across from each other.

PT1911 · Answer

something like this

ncannon18 · Answer

Me, I never did flirt with any girl my entire life because that's one thing I'm truly not good at. But if a girl tried to flirt with me then that's when I would become the nervous guy who shakes up a storm from nervousness & fear in my heart & soul.

Theshaft169 · Answer

Does he rub his junk and make it visable for you to see he's semi? If so he wants u bad. Careful tho. He could fire in 5 seconds or less if you have him that excited.

2wheelterror · Answer

I flirt just enough to see how she responds to it! If i don't see a mutual feeling, then ill stop! Flirting is my way saying "Hey! Im into you girl... i wanna see if you can meet me halfway " But why continue the flirting if the girl ain't being responsive? Its like giving CPR to someone who's already dead!

Anonymous · Answer

I do a very distinct eyebrow movement and smile. If she is interested she should strike up a conversation when we're free and alone. (That's in a crowd mostly when I can't say anything.)
Otherwise it's conversational, but she has to be tough-skined and not easily offended. I'm usually direct and say exactly what I like (admire... desire...) and why. Its usually a compliment and the hint should be obvious. If not, she's not worth it or not interested.

AnimAaron · Answer

To be honest, when I first started dating I didn't even realize I was flirting with the girl I liked. I was just doing what I felt was right. I would tell her I loved her and stuff. A lot of times I will make stupid jokes I know aren't funny to try and get her attention. And yes, playing with her hair and the occasional game of footsies does happen

askmeY56 · Answer

If I was interested in a girl I would talk to her, get to know her and like playfuly get her attention by expressing the things I lke about her. Such as her smile her eyes... the way she laughs. I'd see if she might be also interested in me by shoving me back or punching me when push her. Making eye contact and then smiling at her when she notices me is another thing I often do.

RinXD · Answer

My generation fails at flirting women do this subtle hint BS that 90% of all guys dont pick up on and males tend to act distant when they like a girl so good luck getting much out of my generation on this

c00l_guy · Answer

Of course it is a sign of flirt. Or may be, he fancies you a lot. In my case, I usually start from completements. Be it true or not.

einAmerikaner · Answer

It is a sign of comfort. It's your job to reciprocate and then it will be mutual and if you allow it, it will turn into a relationship.

Agar2477 · Answer

I caress her arms, touch her hands, eye contact is key to flirting looking into their eyes while light touching and a little smile. Also buying her flowers and goodies

nerdybirdy42 · Answer

Hug her tight try and stay close complement her try to see if I have a chance by how she acts around me stare

Luvme66 · Answer

I keeep it classic!

Mr_Xavier · Answer

I like to compliment women that I'm interested in. I like to look into a woman's eyes and let her know how attractive she is.

Klaatu51 · Answer

i give her some chocolate cake i made with cherries on it basically ;-)

Anonymous · Answer

Depends where I'm at and situations. If I'm at the bar, a lot of eye contact (fuck me eyes). If I'm in class, I'll smile and try to intiate a conversation about school and how pretty they are.

AnotherBrain · Answer

when i like a girl i don't degrade the experience by flirting with her.

DocT1977 · Answer

I just continue on with friendship and let things run their course.

Anonymous · Answer

I shave my eye brows, pull my fancy pecker out and tap dance. If that doesn't work I show them my collection of lint. Am I a smooth mother fucker? What do you think...(rhetorical)

Anonymous · Answer

I get her to undress. Then I turn some music on. We both dance naked and I use my hands all over her! Her breasts, her ass, her legs, her vagina... I lick, kiss and smother my face all over!

hardboiled777 · Answer

a few times then quit and find someone whose interested

This_guy_here · Answer

Staring. If anything. Apparently while some guys can hit them, some of us can't even stare.

Popcorncake · Answer

I think i would do the same and smile a lot and seek eyecontact.

AlphaWolf922 · Answer

I give her the skull of our enemy, such a beautiful gift for a beautiful gal.

luis1011 · Answer

All guys have different ways of showing example if I like someone I'll show them by alwayz texting them tell them how beautiful they are et...

Sportsdude01 · Answer

ya i don't think I'd be pushing and playing with a girl's hair at all... at that point I would ask for a date or make it more obvious

Unseenhero · Answer

He is flirting majorly. Flirt back if you want something to happen lol

planetary · Answer

Eye contact is everything

ArchDruidMordred · Answer

I generally show cocky behavior around them.

ninety4bravo · Answer

As long as it stays playful

writerguy220 · Answer

I'm the worst at flirting

yourstrulyiswaiting · Answer

I don't do flirting I do talking and avoiding

pedro28 · Answer

yes ma'am it is..

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