Alright I'll try that next time. It's just there have been 2 occasions where a cute girl was surrounded by her friends, obviously I don't want to be rude so I said hi to everyone and try to smile and be energetic. One of the times I was successful by being direct and telling the girl that I liked her but the leader of the group got really pissed that I didn't like her. The other time it felt like the conversation wasn't going anywhere.Recently there was a cute girl that I liked but I was always too busy to talk to her and when I had like 2 minutes to talk she was with like 5 friends so it felt uncomfortable and I didn't approach.I prefer to fly solo because I don't know anyone that would make a good wingman for me.
The best example I can give you is Ryan Gosling in "Crazy, Stupid, Love". Be yourself, always stay true to yourself, but match his charisma, confidence, style of dress & humor. Gosling was never on my radar until I saw this movie lol!!! Good Luck!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HLZqsx9wua8https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RWJd1jaYaeU
So that's what Ryan Gosling looks like, never seen him before.Anyways in the first link he failed and did pretty much what I would do. I didn't watch the movie so I don't know how he got the girl in the end. Thing is I can't compete with these male model types even if I do my best to look good.
Hey! You don't have to be him, just mimick the confidence, grooming, dress, & charisma. Be yourself, but dress it up. In the first video he didn't get the girl but he left an impression, he also handled the rejection with class. That's why I chose that clip. "Crazy, Stupid, Love" is a pretty good movie, you really should watch it, I think it may help.
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