How to approach a girl surrounded by her female friends?

[Anonymous]

Some girls like to travel in packs and are rarely alone. How do I approach the group without seeming like an a**hole to the other girls?

[SexyTexas]

Go in Hot & Energetic. Start out with "Hello Ladies" with a big smile. You have to greet each one & show attention to each one, make small talk, tell a joke, be a real hoot & once everyone's comfortable with you in there space, go for the girl you like with a simple, "So, can I talk to you in private".

If she says yes, Handle Your Business!

If she says no, Don't be a dick, bow out with class & don't try to hit on anyone else in that group.

Just have fun, don't psych yourself out with over thinking :)

Also, don't always fly solo, having cool friends is always a plus, that way the other girls will be busy with your friends & unable to block you.

[Asker]

Alright I'll try that next time. It's just there have been 2 occasions where a cute girl was surrounded by her friends, obviously I don't want to be rude so I said hi to everyone and try to smile and be energetic. One of the times I was successful by being direct and telling the girl that I liked her but the leader of the group got really pissed that I didn't like her. The other time it felt like the conversation wasn't going anywhere.

Recently there was a cute girl that I liked but I was always too busy to talk to her and when I had like 2 minutes to talk she was with like 5 friends so it felt uncomfortable and I didn't approach.

I prefer to fly solo because I don't know anyone that would make a good wingman for me.

[SexyTexas]

The best example I can give you is Ryan Gosling in "Crazy, Stupid, Love". Be yourself, always stay true to yourself, but match his charisma, confidence, style of dress & humor. Gosling was never on my radar until I saw this movie lol!!! Good Luck!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HLZqsx9wua8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RWJd1jaYaeU

[Asker]

So that's what Ryan Gosling looks like, never seen him before.

Anyways in the first link he failed and did pretty much what I would do. I didn't watch the movie so I don't know how he got the girl in the end. Thing is I can't compete with these male model types even if I do my best to look good.

[SexyTexas]

Hey! You don't have to be him, just mimick the confidence, grooming, dress, & charisma. Be yourself, but dress it up. In the first video he didn't get the girl but he left an impression, he also handled the rejection with class. That's why I chose that clip. "Crazy, Stupid, Love" is a pretty good movie, you really should watch it, I think it may help.

[spuitkaas]

It depends. Do you know any of the girls? Do you have anything in common with one of the girls? (Sport, school etc.). Does she goes to parties, club etc? If it's just somewhere random, you have to be extremely charismatic and otherwise separate. Very difficult situation indeed.

[Anonymous]

The secret of girls- ALWAYS TRAVAL IN PACKS AND BOYS WILL NO TOUCHY!!!

[Tdieseler]

You have to relate to the whole group then gradually narrow it down. This takes time, skill, and experience... depending on what your intentions are. to approach one girl you have to gain approval from her gf's. After experience, its really not hard at all. If you really like this one girl, I recommend the direct/shameless approach. Express your feelings In Front of her friends. If something is real, you should be able to take the risk.

[Anonymous]

I won't reach her until she's alone but if there's no any choice except I reach her while she's with her group I would reach her no pro

[Anpu23]

A tactic that does work is to talk and flirt with ALL of the girls except the one that you like, she starts to wonder what's wrong with her snd she'll seek you out.

[Accipiter]

It helps if you already know at least one of them rather well. If you're on good terms with her for the most part, she will automatically introduce you to the rest of her friends then BOOM you're in!

[sillygirl13]

Say politely that you would like to please borrow said girl for a minute and then say thank you

[Anonymous]

walk up to them say hi and ask If you can talk to the girl you like

[DarkHumorRUs]

Separate from friends, it is the only way.