So there was this girl I met online. Everything started to go great, I didn't respond to texts as much. She would send 2-3 texts a day. I was looking to communicate with her more to get to know her better and for us to be more comfortable since she is a shy person. Anyways we were suppose to go Saturday, and I was not getting much text messages from her since she was working a lot. So I just said hey I was hoping we get a chance to talk so we can get more comfortable with each other and to know if we are still on for Saturday. If not, its okay I will make other plans. No harm. Since that message I didn't get any messages back. Then I sent 2 messages a day to the point of 5 messages without a reply. Now I know I over texted and made myself look needy and I am not. Pretty much she has an image of a guy I am not... Is there a way I can fix this? Will explaining anything get her to understand? Is ignoring her the best answer? Should I try a week later and if so just say hey and thats it and wait for a reply? Looking for some opinions. I really like this girl. :( We have never met, but I feel we like a lot of the same things in common and we would be good together. I don't want to give up on this girl. :(
I would reply the same amount if not more. I maybe showed her I liked her to much. Now I feel I should call her, but she won't answer the phone or respond to text to even talk about it. I guess I have no choice to let it go, if she wants to talk she will respond. I just dont know if I should leave a voice message as a last attempt to explain.
Haha, I feel the same way. But I always did when ever I could. She was the one who didn't text as much. Because she would be working a lot. Now I know she is not replying back and ignoring me. I wish she just gotten to know me before judging me after only a few text messages... In one message I told her how I felt and saw her as a special girl in my eye. Most often I would just not care any and just let it go. But I felt different about this girl. I guess I am trying to be persistent...