Girl stood me up twice... what to do?

[JasonF]

Both in college and fairly close friends for a while now. A month ago she came back from a semester off school and said how much she missed me and wanted me to visit her at her work. I text (twice) a week later asking if she wanted to hang out... no reply. To either text. The next day I was quiet around her in class (purposely) and she text me that night asking if I was okay and that I didn't seem my normal self. Now, Monday I text her that I was going to need to drop something off at her work today and was going to come pay a visit and she asked me to bring her lunch, so I did. I told her the time and day I'd be stopping by. I show up at that time and day and the secretary tells me she went out for lunch without even letting me know. I'm going to see her in college class tomorrow. I am tired of these games she keeps playing with me. Should I tell her straightforward or just do what I did before and simply ignore her?

[JSmuve]

Ignore her ass. Let her come to you and don't do anything for her. She's probably just using you to stroke her ego.

If she talks to you, you've got three ways to play this
1) ignore her and she'll either go away or try to get you to chase her
2) act cordial with her and the sane thing will happen as option 1
3) tease her in a slightly mean way, which might get her interest piqued either positively or negatively. Whichever one doesn't really matter. Best case scenario is she begins chasing you.

Right now its a power struggle and she has it.

[Anonymous]

It depends on whether you consider her to be just a friend or something more. If you're just friends, have a short chat with her and let her know it wasn't cool for her to do that. If you're interested in being more than friends with her, she's wasting your time, so just delete her phone number and move on.

[pooper89]

Just ignore her

[Kabloosh75]

Tell her straight up.

She will mostly likely reject you. At least you'll know where you stand from there. Don't listen to these people that tell you to ignore her or whatever. You need the cut the string yourself and the best way is to approach the person directly, let them know how you feel, and then take the rejection like a man, and then move onto someone who is worth your time and effort.

[Consultant]

Pretend she never existed and move on with your life brother

[dudeinohio]

You move on to someone else. Ignore her. If she asks.. say you aren't into games and leave it at that. Tell her to go away,

[Anonymous]

Ignore it for one more time, if this shit happens again - then be straightforward and Confront her

[been_waiting]

Don't talk to her ever again