Should I contact her if she stood me up?

[munky89]

This girls is the third time SHE ASK ME OUT. and doesn't follow through. I kinda feel like telling her if you don't want to go out don't ask me out. She did it to me last night. She asked what am I'm doing and if I would like to go out with her tomorrow. I agreed and asked her what time. I never got an answer. She is going to give me another lame excuse. My parents saying that I can't say anything because we aren't girlfriend or boyfriend but now they said maybe I should. Should I wait till she contacts me to get my point across. And I know she will she always does?

And why ask out some one if you won't follow through. Its bad if you set up a date with someone. It just plain doesn't make sence when they do it? :S

[onemoreplease]

I can't say for sure what her deal is, because most people with a conscience wouldn't mess around with another person like this, but I'm guessing she's either SUPER flaky or she's using you as an ego boost or a backup plan and never really intended on following through. Either way, she's being incredibly disrespectful, and no matter what her excuse is, that just isn't okay. You could ignore her or tell her off, if you want... personally she sounds so selfish that nothing you say or do will really make a difference anyway. Don't take it personally.. some people just suck!

[rachel05]

hmm well this is a strange predicament indeed.. I don't know why any girl would flake out after asking him.. that's rude and totally unfair for the dude. I say leave her in the past and if she talks to you then just be a friend.. but don't agree to go on any more dates with her.. she's not worth it if she's treating you like this.. you can do better ;)

[angelwithin]

She's not worth it - don't go out with her ever again..

Only date girls who will respect you -- this implies that they will either show up or let you know if they can't show up before the date.

Next time she asks you out? It's your turn to give HER a lame excuse ;)

[gonyr]

dont be rude about it or cuss her off or anything

just say something like "hey, I was really looking forward to hanging out with you, but I guess you weren't."

[Erwin]

you should be tell her off. Say that it's rude and she's wasting your time. It will show her not to mess around with you.

[rachiee]

From personal experience, drop her. I don't know how many times I've done this to a guy and honestly it was because I was bored and not sure of my plans. If I really liked the guy and was interested, I'd go out of my way to see him. Not a nice thing to do I know. But drop her, she's not worth it.

[r0ntomyhermi0ne]

i think you should ask her why she is standing you up and if she gives you a bad answer/doesn't respond, then ignore her. if something came up like she had a meeting or other plans then you should tell her to let you know beforehand.

[is444]

treat her with indifference. Imagine if she's like this now, how is she going to be when you get closer, or going out, or in further dates?

save yourself headaches, ditch the b!tch

[AndyWes]

Set up a time with her, be there at the time, and then leave 15 minutes later when she doesn't show and forget it.

[prettymuscle]

Just play her game, if she ask you to hang out, just tell her your busy

[justanotherguy00001]

3 times?

The plans with you are clearly not important to her. Forget her.

[just_legit1998]

You should contact her one last time and tell her off. Then, you move on.