Guys, do girls who make the first move intimidate you?

[cl_517]

[Blondiee2014]

Well I would get that butterfly feeling in my stomach. For her to be making moves on me we obviously must have already established that we like each other so for someone I like making moves on me makes me feel a little nervous but in a good way. It keeps me on my toes.

[AleDeEurope]

No, it gives a better impression of her because she's willing to not give a fuck about tradition and stereotypes and to pursue what she wants, instead of just sitting and waiting, like 90% of the girls.

[cl_517]

and this is why we're platonic friends ahah :*

[AleDeEurope]

Exactly <3

[AleDeEurope]

Thanks for the MHO!

[cl_517]

you're welcome Ale!

[muspelhem_5]

No, not at all.

I know the social norm is for guys to do it, and I accept that, but I think it is very brave if women try it. It can be a scary thing to do, but it just shows that she has some drive and also the fact that she puts her heart on the line like that is both flattering and awe-inspiring to me.

[Hephaestus]

Only if the first move is pulling a gun
then I'd be a tad intimidated

[cl_517]

hhaha ohhh good! imagine! haha

[Red_Arrow]

Nope. She made the first move, then we got married.

[cl_517]

aww how cute!!

[Red_Arrow]

Thank you. :-)

[cl_517]

you're welcome :)

[Hans222]

Oh no! I'm rather shy and making first contact is my weak spot... you it would make me happy :D

[cl_517]

hah :)

[Hans222]

Haha I made a stupid typo... had to be "so it would make me happy" :D
It's getting late here in Belgium, I need to leave to go to bed (yaaaaaaaaaawns) :D

[cl_517]

see go to sleep, get some rest! :P

[Maxemeister]

Noooo. Please, I INVITE you to make the first move on the guy you like! Try it! It's a relief when it happens, trust me

[cl_517]

i've done it before lol

[Maxemeister]

Then do it again

[cl_517]

I don't like anyone at the moment lol

[Maxemeister]

lol then wait till u do

[404filenotfound]

Nope, I'm honestly used to it; I don't really have the greatest social skills in the world. Thankfully, I'm one lovable son of a bitch and they eventually sit me down and give me "the talk".

[sobg71124]

I wouldn't be comfortable with it at all. I would feel pressured/put on the spot. If I am interested in her, I will pursue her. If I am not, I won't.

[genuinlysensitive]

Actually the only people I've ever seen calling women who make the first move weird or desperate are women. The truth is most men don't care, and are actually relieved if they are shy, or they have no idea the woman likes them back.

[matheus_mb]

No, I don't think so. Girls making the first move can reserve us nice surprises actually.

[ImSuperBored]

Id prefer it. I've got an anxiety issue and it would make things SO much less troublesome for me..

[Still_here420]

No, it's better than veiled hints and missed opportunity.

[Rashad]

Not intimidating at all. As long as you don't come at them to strong.

[TJM27]

No. It's nice not having to make the first move all of the time

[DarkHumorRUs]

Nope. I don't know why you girls keep thinking that YOU making the first move would be bad.

What guy gets intimated by a girl for any reason lol

[Jamaluddin]

I would feel uncomforable with the kimd of girl who approaches me unless I want her to.

[hypno-trip]

It intimidates me. I like it if she shows interest but not make a move

[apearce]

No, quite the opposite. It's nice to know some one is interested.

[Moaz14]

Yeah It does not mean Girl is weird
I'll love It if a Girl makes the first move

[JackKerouac77]

No, it's like a spicy burrito - refreshing.

[cl_517]

hahah!

[Iron_Man]

No I like for them to make the first move I am shy

[cl_517]

hha no you're not shy, well at least not here

[Iron_Man]

True

[cl_517]

ahha

[Iron_Man]

I have to get to know a girl in person first then I am no longer shy anymore

[cl_517]

hha some people are like that, I'm not shy at all lol

[Iron_Man]

Us Swedish guys are like that we need to take some time to get to know you in person

[cl_517]

I mean that's great, some people are shocked to see that I'm not shy at all, that's how I am

[Iron_Man]

Thats cool Most latin women are not shy at all

[Metlahead]

Not at all, I would be impressed and intrigued.

[TimmyNTNgyn]

Not at all, but make sure to get the timing right. Know if he's somewhat interested first, don't be rash with it.

[Antizzl]

Hell no takes the guess work out for me

[sid312]

Not at all i like it takes pressure off of us

[Anonymous]

where are these girls. i hope some grow in my garden one day... .

[muspelhem_5]

Girls are carrots.

[Despondency]

Yes. I am easily intimidated.

[404filenotfound]

Boo.

[Despondency]

( clearly intimidated by proverbial internet ghost )

[404filenotfound]

Cower before my nonexistent presence.

[Despondency]

( Cowers like a coward begging for his life as though you were a female )

[ sidenote: A girl tried to set me up with her friend today. I do not know what to make of such. ]

[404filenotfound]

Fear not, I am not a real ghost.

I don't know what to say there man, I never do well in that situation. It's always really awkward for me, I usually shut down and don't say anything.

[Despondency]

( shocked at your not being a ghost, intimidated by your ability to lie well )

I kind of laughed and was like "uh..." and didn't quite know what to say. She seemed content to carry that conversation by herself until she changed the subject.

[404filenotfound]

That sounds about right to me. Was she vapid and annoying? That usually irritates me.

[Despondency]

I can't say she was vapid; I'm just new to the whole "date my friend!" thing because... well... yeah. :p

[404filenotfound]

Yea, I'm not a fan of it at all. People make all of these imaginary connections and assume that you're practically soulmates! The logic behind it generally involves the pairing making sense to the friend and little more.

It kind of bums me out honestly because I feel like my friends don't actually "get" me. :/

[Despondency]

Understandable, but don't let it get you down; no one knows you like you know you after all. :#

[cavmanier]

I don't remember that ever intimidating me.

[akadatank44]

Nope not at all :)

[cl_517]

and this is why you don't get a MHO from me! you're not creativeee!! hahah

[akadatank44]

Haha I am soooooooo creative except this one. I though you wanted a real answer for a mr someone :p

[cl_517]

haaaa!! noooooooo! you don't even know me :P

[akadatank44]

I know everything!!! Muwhahahaha

[cl_517]

naaaahhhhh

[akadatank44]

Stop ruining my funnnnn missy!

[cl_517]

ha! ha! ha! ha!

[BigbuttLvr]

Not at all, it's actually welcomed.

[StickStickity13]

It probably wouldn't