Confess my feelings to my fwb?

[Anonymous]

I've been in a friends with benefits relationship for about a year now. We both get along great and I enjoy spending time with him. The bad thing here is that my feelings have grown for him. I realize I cared for him way too much more than I should. I know he knows how I feel about him yet he chooses to stay around knowing ill end up getting hurt. My question is should I let him know I’ve grown feelings for him. I’m sure he knows how much he means to me,, I try not to make it obvious but he has a club about it, but I would like to let him know straight up. I’m not planning on continuing this relationship anyways because I feel it won’t end well. I’ve realize what I mean to him,. Yes he says he cares for me, but at this point I feel its time to move on. Point is when I end our friends with benefits relationship should I let him know I have feeling and that’s a reason to move on or just go ghost on him once and for all?

[Paulina528]

I would go ghost on him once and for all because friends with benefits never ends well for one person. Usually one falls in love or catches strong feelings and the other doesn't care at all. That's why friends with benefits is a BAD idea. But now since you kind of already got yourself into this mess, the only smart thing to do is to get out of it. don't tell him how you feel if if you don't think he might feel the same because his answer will only end up really hurting you. If you feel like he might care about you in a romantic way at all, you could risk getting hurt but that is a big risk.

[Cam700]

If your worried you'll lose him completely and can't handle that don't tell him, however if he cares for you as a friend and doesn't feel the same way he'll overlook it.

At the end if the day you aren't going to know without asking

[Figleaf]

You're looking to end it with the upper hand. That never works. Have dinner. Agree to never see each other again, and stick to it.

[SunDevil11]

I think you should tell him why you are leaving

[Anonymous]

I don't think it will end up well, but go for it.

[Asker]

so you think is best if I just leave it alone and move on? I've been trying to move on for a while now I even told him a while back when we stopped talking for a month that I was trying to move on. He knows and yet he still kept hitting me up to hang and continue and I obviously felt for it again.

[Not_Helping]

So move on.