Girl won't give me straight answer?

[Anonymous]

When I ask her on dates. She's gone on one with me already, but it's always "I'll let you know" or "maybe" or "we'll see". She even said this before the first date and she ended up going and now she's saying it for the second one. Is she playing coy or do I just need to move on?

[Anonymous]

You know, I think a lot of girls have it up in their heads that by not giving a definite anser, it'll make guys want them more. Whether this is actually true or not, I really don't think it's the right way to do things if they actually do want the guy. But it also depends on the way she tells you. Does she clearly look unsure, does she look like she wants you to chase after her, or does she look like she just wants to get away from you? If you really can't tell, just go up to her and ask her right up front, this would be the easiest way to find out.

[Asker]

When I asked her to see this movie, she talked about the movie for a minute then looked at her phone and said "we'll see" and then we continued to talk.

[x_Zoe_x]

Okaayy

Well there's this guy that keeps asking me out and I have said no or maybe so many times I can't count. But I actually really really like him, I'm just scared to get into a relationship, I'm scared of getting hurt and I'm scared to commit. I no its really harsh that I keep messing him around but I don't know what else to do. She might be in a similar situation so don't give up on her- show her that you really like her and make her really comfortable around you. Hope that helped xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[michalezki]

before you just move on. I mean if this girl is worth it. then just tell her straight up. what the hell are you doing, just ask her if she's really into you or not because she's sending mixed signals and your not into games but you really want something to work out. and if you try to fix things and she continues to be a dumb girl. then you should move on to someone who deserves your attention! good luck :)

[wally]

Tell her this '' I will call you later '' don't call and ignore her because she's playing mind games with you. or tell her to be honest and stop being a child.

[Asker]

Well she told me she'd call me later, so I wasn't planning on contacting her unless she contacted me.

[Anonymous]

To hell with her, she's bullshi**ing, find another 1 before you start to like her too much

[Asker]

She even told me she wasn't doing anything the day I planned for the second date before I asked her and so I asked and she said we'll see. I mean, she said she had nothing that day! What is there to see about?

[Opinion Owner]

Yea man let that bird fly lol, don't feel bad they're crazy lol. Just hurry up and find another 1 like I said because I can see you're already starting to like her too much. Who knows, once you start paying her no mind or treating her differently she might like you more and want that date bad

[gabster210]

okay I'm going to be straight up with you...i am doing the exact same thing to this one guy and I always say maybe, we'll see, I'll let you know...and its because I'm really not interested but the reason I don't say straight out no is because I don't want to hurt him and I don't want him to be like f*** you and stop talking to me...so I just say those things and hope he moves on...sorry I know it sucks

[Asker]

Well, the difference here is that, because she's transferring, I won't see her at school anymore, so the only way I'd see her is if she hangs out with me. So, in other words, I won't be able to talk to her again unless we hang out. Even still, she said "maybe".

[Anonymous]

maybe she just wanted to arrange her schedule and see if possible

and the other assumption is that she doesn't want to seem so much into it, and was waiting for you to ask her for another date, so she doesn't wanted to seem desperate...

[Anonymous]

i don't think she's interested sorry

if I was truly busy and couldn't make it I would try to reschedule so he knows I'm not just blowing him off

[Asker]

She told me she wasn't doing anything that day, which is why I asked. And yet, she still said "we'll see". This is after saying maybe to the first date, which she eventually said yes to.

[joosydays]

She sounds like a bitch. It seems like she just wants to see how long she can get you to want her. She disgusts me.

[Asker]

She even told me she wasn't doing anything the day I planned for the second date before I asked her and so I asked and she said we'll see. I mean, she said she had nothing that day! What is there to see about? The only reason I can think of is she's playing coy or if she's waiting for anything better to come up.