So, I want to be clear; I'm not a jealous person. I don't care if she goes out and does whatever she wants to do, whenever she wants to do it. It genuinely makes no difference to me, as long as she is safe. But something I find a little bit weird is that she won't tell me about things she does. Not that she owes it to me to tell me her whereabouts; I know she doesn't, and I genuinely don't care. I just find it weird that she doesn't.
This last weekend, for example; she went to a Halloween party. Dope. Awesome, I'm happy for her; I hope she had fun. I just think it's a little weird that we were texting over the weekend and she made no mention of it. Even after I said that I hate the fact I'm working over the weekend because I like to see people's costumes, I would have thought that would be a cue for her to at least send me a picture or something of her costume. Instead, I had to find out that she went to the party because she updated her Facebook profile pic. Social media which, according to her, she barely uses, but always seems to be updating her pics.
Like I said, I'm not the jealous type and I honestly don't care what she's up to, but like... just be real about it. And also about the social media stuff. I honestly don't care if you use social media, but don't lie and act like you don't if you're constantly updating your pics and shit. She did the same thing with WhatsApp before we started dating, and said she didn't even have an account, but then I found one with updated pictures.
I promise it's all good. I feel like she's just telling me what she thinks I want to hear.
How should I address this situation with her? It's not like she's hiding stuff I particularly care about, but it's weird that she feels the need to do it at all.
