Most people on here that refer to black women as loud, agressive etc. need to meet some of the sisters I know. They're educated strong beautiful women. What people don't understand is that women like this exist. I think its because they watch to much TV and live in segregated neighborhoods.
again,MOST people date within their own race as this what they're comfortable with..not many people date for the sake of being diverse or stepping outside of the box to test the waters of another culture..that's not dating..that's called exploring ...there's a difference/why is dating inside one's own race a big issue to some people anyway?..it's like some people are totally offended that somebody would have a preference.// good grief!
Different guys have different ideas of what they find attractive in a woman. I knew a white guy who would only date Black women, which kind of made it funny because I only dated Asian or Hispanic women and generally when guys, especially White guys would see us walk in a restaurant or club on a double date, they would automatically assume that his date (the Black woman) would be my date and my date (the Asian woman) would be his date. You should see the amount of white guys who would drop their jaws in disbelief one New Years Eve party we attended. Furthermore, it seems that they were not happy about the situation and would have preferred it to be that I was with his date and not with mine.
Wow ...as a white guy I never thought black girls were too interested. I think most white guys think the same. I did date a black girl for a few months at uni and I noticed that every black guy that passed us would suck his teeth. I took this as an offer of friendship.
Anyway black girls are the most sexy in the world...maybe even the universe?!
So, a 'civil' lady is supposed to drop a napkin and adore you for staring at her big ass?
It also depends on HOW you said it. I.E, "Love that fat ass or yours, sexy." Is not, shall not, and never be the same as, "Cute butt!" or, "Hello. How are you?" >>;
Nothing wrong with staring. You don't like it, then learn to ignore it. That's the CIVIL thing to do. Saying, "Ya better get off ma face else someding' bad gonna happen to you!" is completely unladylike when told "You have a nice ass." I told her to go eff herself after that and she just scoffed. Now your response to me is proof how some women are just too stuck up and overly conceited. Try relaxing into the world for a change, stop acting like such b$tches.
If I may ask how many black girls from other continents apart from America do u know? all black people aren't the same we come from different backgrounds
Why do so many black women get so offended when a Black Man is interested or is dating a white woman? Seriously think about it, it might answer your question.
I think that perhaps some black women get offended because generally speaking many of them don't necessarily find white men attractive, therefore, with many black men dating white women it leaves little selection for them to date black men - that's the general consensus in my experience anyway.
Out of all honesty, I'm not trying to be offensive or anything and I'm not saying this is true in every case But my dad is white and 52 years old and he grew up around a lot of racial crap. And he wouldn't not allow me to date a black guy but he more than likely would not approve of it and also I would never hear the end of it. I think a lot of it is stereotypical stuff and I personally would want to go out with a few cute black guys but I don't think my family or friends would ever approve of it and I don't want to dissapoint them. Even though blacks and whites all equal now there is still A lot of racism, and there always will be.
it's the hair. I've talked about it before with my friends, the skin is fine, but the hair just is never as soft or smooth, unless they take REALLY good care of it.
biracial girls, though, I find to be the best of both worlds, so if you marry a white man you'll probably have some beautiful children :)
jack you just sound stupid. Black women can change the texture of their hair. Our hair can be natural curly soft or kinky tight curly. We come in various shades and our hair comes in various textures. You just sound so unintelligent...go out and experience life and get to know people as people. My ex boyfriend is white and his hair stinks when it's wet...but he can't help that.
Negative sterotypes are one major key factor, a t of white guys usally think that black girls aren't attracted to them...thirdly they worry what other People (ie Friends, families, other black guys...ect) will think. Its a load of bullcrap but its the truth. Personally if I met a black girl that I"m attracted to and Compatable with I would harsh date her...and give anyone who has anything to say about it the finger...because its my relationship not theirs..
Because I find few black girls physically attractive.
And the few I meet that I would fancy speak as though they are from the 'ghetto' and/or have major attitude problems, even though they have come from nice families and are intelligent.
I'm sure there are plenty of intelligent and beautiful black girls, it's just I'm yet to meet one.
well from what I found out from other white guys on here is that they don't kno how to approach black girls, because they dnt kno how we're gonna react - whether we'll insult them, be shockd or if we'll act completely normal. I was askin myself the same question cause I'm into white guys but never been approached by 1 - now I kno why =) dnt kno if thas helpd
Biologically black people as a whole are more masculine(reason why black men are more attractive to other races of women). White/Spanish people are an in between and Asian people are generally feminine. Most men want feminine women and as a result stay clear of black girls. In either case I'm one of the uncommon ones that actually finds black women to be extremely attractive. I also date them(despite EXTREME disgust and rejection from my family) and my first girlfriend was black.
I think you're kinda right. You have to be a real man to handle a black woman. I think that's why many guys don't even try. They are initimidated and think they can't measure up.
I think you could be right about the feminine/masculine thing. Off the top of my head... every black person I know just tend to be a little tougher than others, including myself. Good observation!
Yea I'm gonna hav to disagree with the black men are more attractive to other races of women, all of the white girls I know have a real problem with that idea, asian and of course black girls love them though
I stand to be corrected but I'm pretty sure that's an ignorant answer and black women are not 'more masculine' than white women. It should be treated as such unless someone backs your claims up with facts.
Its not biologically found that black women are more masculine or that white women are more feminine by nature. You have to look at the environment and culture of black people. A lot of black women had to take on the roll as mom and dad in there homes. They had to discipline their teenage, hormone raging sons, and manage the cruel world outside the home that made it hard for them to find decent paying jobs that would pay the bills and feed their kids. It makes you hard on the outside.
Not me, I am in the same boat you are, I'm attracted to all types of girls. While I will always believe that girls are more shallow than guys, I think that yes fear is involved with some guys. I am not tho, I don't care what people think of who I'm dating if I like her that's all that matters.
I do find many black girls attractive and would consider dating them. But the type of black girls that I find attractive is not the same type that most black guys find attractive I think. I really hate a big booty and too large breasts. And I don't like their hair sometimes, anything Rasta hairstyle for example. And I like fit girls no matter their race. Maybe you don't fit into that category who knows.
There are girls that I find attractive like beyonce (well most of people assume her to be black) and the actress in Cradle to the Grave (Jet Li starer). The girl in Mission impossible 2 was not that bad. So I think black women are not that ...u know. A better care of yoursef will improve the things for you, I think.
I think fear and social stigmas is at the top of the list. It is much more excepted if your families and friends are OK with your dating choices. The city you live in also has a big play in it. I live in Seattle and international dating is common here. I have been dating black men for 20 years and hence my son (34) loves black women and has even been in a long term relationship with a girl that I love and feel is a very good person. So don't blame the men you just haven't found the right one.
i assume she likes black guys, who are very manly or hard gangsters.
i will also assume whether or not she fits the stereotype by how she dresses, unless I already know her better. I am just so repulsed by the personality of the stereotypical black female that I want to avoid it at all costs. it's such a shame because I find that black women have a kind of beauty that is unique to them and them alone.
Lots of white guys love black women. I think Black women are very hot and super sexy. Some white guys do like black girls but may be hesitant of rejection. Other white guys have other silly reasons for hesitation but if you just talk to them, A white guy will melt in your arms. I don't think it has to do with lack of attraction or any sorta stigmas but fear of rejection may be on the list.
I find black women attractive and I will approach and be nice to black women.
BUT
it is difficult to relate to black women, I think it has something to do with education and culture. For instance last year I was fooling around with an african girl, and whenever I told her about my life and what my day was like or my interests she could not understand it. Its a shame the education system down there is so bad.
Not really every one is different every family has different values and even outcomes so that?s not really true I'm sure it?s a white guy that?s been threw something or similar to a black guys and a black girl to a white girl were all different but we all can relate in som kind of way!!!! But I respect your Honesty !!!
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Most people on here that refer to black women as loud, agressive etc. need to meet some of the sisters I know. They're educated strong beautiful women. What people don't understand is that women like this exist. I think its because they watch to much TV and live in segregated neighborhoods.
again,MOST people date within their own race as this what they're comfortable with..not many people date for the sake of being diverse or stepping outside of the box to test the waters of another culture..that's not dating..that's called exploring ...there's a difference/why is dating inside one's own race a big issue to some people anyway?..it's like some people are totally offended that somebody would have a preference.// good grief!
Different guys have different ideas of what they find attractive in a woman. I knew a white guy who would only date Black women, which kind of made it funny because I only dated Asian or Hispanic women and generally when guys, especially White guys would see us walk in a restaurant or club on a double date, they would automatically assume that his date (the Black woman) would be my date and my date (the Asian woman) would be his date. You should see the amount of white guys who would drop their jaws in disbelief one New Years Eve party we attended. Furthermore, it seems that they were not happy about the situation and would have preferred it to be that I was with his date and not with mine.
Wow ...as a white guy I never thought black girls were too interested. I think most white guys think the same. I did date a black girl for a few months at uni and I noticed that every black guy that passed us would suck his teeth. I took this as an offer of friendship.
Anyway black girls are the most sexy in the world...maybe even the universe?!
Well you ask us it would be nice just to ask because it a lot of us out there that do.
Lol nice.
I know this is an old post, but I just have to respond.
Black girls generally don't take well to compliments about their curvatures. Say something about their big beautiful butt and they'll slap you.
Too hostile, too aggressive, by nature it seems. Not a whole lot of ladylike civility in a woman who responds to a compliment in such a way.
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So, a 'civil' lady is supposed to drop a napkin and adore you for staring at her big ass?
It also depends on HOW you said it. I.E, "Love that fat ass or yours, sexy." Is not, shall not, and never be the same as, "Cute butt!" or, "Hello. How are you?" >>;
Nothing wrong with staring. You don't like it, then learn to ignore it. That's the CIVIL thing to do. Saying, "Ya better get off ma face else someding' bad gonna happen to you!" is completely unladylike when told "You have a nice ass." I told her to go eff herself after that and she just scoffed. Now your response to me is proof how some women are just too stuck up and overly conceited. Try relaxing into the world for a change, stop acting like such b$tches.
If I may ask how many black girls from other continents apart from America do u know? all black people aren't the same we come from different backgrounds
I'd like to answer a question with a question.
Why do so many black women get so offended when a Black Man is interested or is dating a white woman? Seriously think about it, it might answer your question.
Answer: Perhaps white men are on your side?
I think that perhaps some black women get offended because generally speaking many of them don't necessarily find white men attractive, therefore, with many black men dating white women it leaves little selection for them to date black men - that's the general consensus in my experience anyway.
Out of all honesty, I'm not trying to be offensive or anything and I'm not saying this is true in every case But my dad is white and 52 years old and he grew up around a lot of racial crap. And he wouldn't not allow me to date a black guy but he more than likely would not approve of it and also I would never hear the end of it. I think a lot of it is stereotypical stuff and I personally would want to go out with a few cute black guys but I don't think my family or friends would ever approve of it and I don't want to dissapoint them. Even though blacks and whites all equal now there is still A lot of racism, and there always will be.
it's the hair. I've talked about it before with my friends, the skin is fine, but the hair just is never as soft or smooth, unless they take REALLY good care of it.
biracial girls, though, I find to be the best of both worlds, so if you marry a white man you'll probably have some beautiful children :)
jack you just sound stupid. Black women can change the texture of their hair. Our hair can be natural curly soft or kinky tight curly. We come in various shades and our hair comes in various textures. You just sound so unintelligent...go out and experience life and get to know people as people. My ex boyfriend is white and his hair stinks when it's wet...but he can't help that.
Negative sterotypes are one major key factor, a t of white guys usally think that black girls aren't attracted to them...thirdly they worry what other People (ie Friends, families, other black guys...ect) will think. Its a load of bullcrap but its the truth. Personally if I met a black girl that I"m attracted to and Compatable with I would harsh date her...and give anyone who has anything to say about it the finger...because its my relationship not theirs..
Hey hon,I think you should answer my question,im superrr curious.lol
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/Dating-Questions/189740-why-do-guys-of-different-races-assume-black-women.html
Because I find few black girls physically attractive.
And the few I meet that I would fancy speak as though they are from the 'ghetto' and/or have major attitude problems, even though they have come from nice families and are intelligent.
I'm sure there are plenty of intelligent and beautiful black girls, it's just I'm yet to meet one.
Consider yourself introduced.haha
well from what I found out from other white guys on here is that they don't kno how to approach black girls, because they dnt kno how we're gonna react - whether we'll insult them, be shockd or if we'll act completely normal. I was askin myself the same question cause I'm into white guys but never been approached by 1 - now I kno why =) dnt kno if thas helpd
Biologically black people as a whole are more masculine(reason why black men are more attractive to other races of women). White/Spanish people are an in between and Asian people are generally feminine. Most men want feminine women and as a result stay clear of black girls. In either case I'm one of the uncommon ones that actually finds black women to be extremely attractive. I also date them(despite EXTREME disgust and rejection from my family) and my first girlfriend was black.
I think you're kinda right. You have to be a real man to handle a black woman. I think that's why many guys don't even try. They are initimidated and think they can't measure up.
I think you could be right about the feminine/masculine thing. Off the top of my head... every black person I know just tend to be a little tougher than others, including myself. Good observation!
Yea I'm gonna hav to disagree with the black men are more attractive to other races of women, all of the white girls I know have a real problem with that idea, asian and of course black girls love them though
I stand to be corrected but I'm pretty sure that's an ignorant answer and black women are not 'more masculine' than white women. It should be treated as such unless someone backs your claims up with facts.
Its not biologically found that black women are more masculine or that white women are more feminine by nature. You have to look at the environment and culture of black people. A lot of black women had to take on the roll as mom and dad in there homes. They had to discipline their teenage, hormone raging sons, and manage the cruel world outside the home that made it hard for them to find decent paying jobs that would pay the bills and feed their kids. It makes you hard on the outside.
Not me, I am in the same boat you are, I'm attracted to all types of girls. While I will always believe that girls are more shallow than guys, I think that yes fear is involved with some guys. I am not tho, I don't care what people think of who I'm dating if I like her that's all that matters.
I'm a white guy, and I have absolutely no problem with dating a girl from any ethnicity. My first love was black, actually.
In other words: Ladies?
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Aww.:) lol
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I do find many black girls attractive and would consider dating them. But the type of black girls that I find attractive is not the same type that most black guys find attractive I think. I really hate a big booty and too large breasts. And I don't like their hair sometimes, anything Rasta hairstyle for example. And I like fit girls no matter their race. Maybe you don't fit into that category who knows.
There are girls that I find attractive like beyonce (well most of people assume her to be black) and the actress in Cradle to the Grave (Jet Li starer). The girl in Mission impossible 2 was not that bad. So I think black women are not that ...u know. A better care of yoursef will improve the things for you, I think.
Beyonce is black, and she doesn't deny it. that girl is very prideful.
i guess light skin means you aren't a black american. when in fact that's very black american.
I think fear and social stigmas is at the top of the list. It is much more excepted if your families and friends are OK with your dating choices. The city you live in also has a big play in it. I live in Seattle and international dating is common here. I have been dating black men for 20 years and hence my son (34) loves black women and has even been in a long term relationship with a girl that I love and feel is a very good person. So don't blame the men you just haven't found the right one.
Good Luck!
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Nothing. I love black girls and that's all there damn well is to it!
Lol :)
Someone is trigger happy with the darn down arrows * Wt*
Agreed.
i assume she likes black guys, who are very manly or hard gangsters.
i will also assume whether or not she fits the stereotype by how she dresses, unless I already know her better. I am just so repulsed by the personality of the stereotypical black female that I want to avoid it at all costs. it's such a shame because I find that black women have a kind of beauty that is unique to them and them alone.
Hey! I think you should answer my question,im superrrr curious.
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/Dating-Questions/189740-why-do-guys-of-different-races-assume-black-women.html
That's an honest intelligent answer :)
Lots of white guys love black women. I think Black women are very hot and super sexy. Some white guys do like black girls but may be hesitant of rejection. Other white guys have other silly reasons for hesitation but if you just talk to them, A white guy will melt in your arms. I don't think it has to do with lack of attraction or any sorta stigmas but fear of rejection may be on the list.
I find black women attractive and I will approach and be nice to black women.
BUT
it is difficult to relate to black women, I think it has something to do with education and culture. For instance last year I was fooling around with an african girl, and whenever I told her about my life and what my day was like or my interests she could not understand it. Its a shame the education system down there is so bad.
Not really every one is different every family has different values and even outcomes so that?s not really true I'm sure it?s a white guy that?s been threw something or similar to a black guys and a black girl to a white girl were all different but we all can relate in som kind of way!!!! But I respect your Honesty !!!