Guys, why are Indian American women so undesirable to you?

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They are some of the most educaed in the U. S. and have perfect hour glass body with sharp features and big eyes. They are more introverted, but have nice personalities. 

Why do I see so few of them with men of other races? I am not talking about the ones that only date within their race, I know many of my girlfriends who are more open, but they don't have a lot of guys taking interest in them. There are whip smart girls, have no Indian accent, and have really nice hair, so what's the problem? Does being a minority in a majority white culture automatically mean less chances?

archiz · Accepted Answer

Hey, hey easy here. Indian girls are known to be the prettiest women😍 i find you gurls absolutely alluring. But there is common stereotypes that you can t avoid, you know.
And it is thought that indian women are nore conservative and traditional than americans or europeans. And let s face it, it is kindoff true no?
So the reason they re not as interested is due to difference in culture, interest and ideals.
But that s not a bad thing.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

You see less of them with men of other races because the Indian culture has a very strong caste system, and looks down upon interracial dating. Perhaps not so much with white people but it's still a hindrance, and I'm sure many white guys feel like they'd have to encounter a lot of cultural limitations in terms of dating and sex if they pursued a relationship with a brown girl.

idkwtftoputhere · Accepted Answer

I don't know about that, I'm Indo-canadian but I've met guys from different races that were interested in me and I know many Indian girls dating white guys so I wouldn't say we're undesirable in general. If no guys are approaching you or your Indian girlfriends, y'all are gonna have to take some initiative and approach guys.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That is a real shame, because the Indian women I've encountered (both born and raised in America, and ones born in India that moved to America) have been beautiful. There are probably factors I am not aware of that makes this happen, because I cannot come up with a logical reason.

aficionado · Accepted Answer

I don't know. From what I have observed, it's Indian men who are considered the least attractive by women all over the world. Even Indian women usually prefer men of other races, if they have a chance. Indian women, on the other hand, are considered really beautiful and attractive.

What I mentioned above, usually holds good for Indian-American people as well.

stubbsy · Accepted Answer

A lot of this is the girls lack of confidence to approach guys. Because in the UK. There's many amazing girls but no one approaches them because of the reputation of Indians never date anyone but Indians. So really. Indian girls should change this by approaching other men that are not Indian. X

theintrovert · Answer

Most Indian American girls I know don't like dating black guys. I have many who are friends , but none are just click with me. It's not that we don't want to date them it's that we're never good enough in your eyes. Majority of guys think they're gorgeous just un-approachable is all.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Snobbish attitudes are the problem. They DON'T have nice personalities, despite your claim. I don't know if it's caste system Bullshit or what, but class snobbery seems to be a major factor with Indian women.

And as for the highly educated bit...

So what? Men don't give a fuck about that. High school diploma? Masters degree? Don't care. That status Bullshit is a female preoccupation, not a man's.

I have a Master's degree. I simply don't care if a girl has one or not.

College =/= education
College =/= social status
College =/= importance

Is a girl pleasant to spend time with. Is she genuinely kind to the people around her. Does she have a good attitude towards men and towards sex. Does she treat people with respect. Those are the things guys are actually looking for.

We like smart girls. But that is not as important as the prior list.

And credentials? Shove them where the Sun doesn't shine.

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

Having lived in silicon valley and smelling curry spewing out of my neighbors windows, my honest observation is many Indians in the US struggle with associating with others outside of their cultural bubble.

It just makes them hard to connect with so this translates to them being perceived as awkward.

Anonymous · Answer

I didn't know all women from a certain country had the exact same personality and body. Hm... must not matter who anybody is with then, since they're all the exact same anyway, so men in India can just pick up any woman on the street and she's not special compared to the next one or the one before. Makes things easy for them I guess.

Anonymous · Answer

Not gonna lie, how on Earth can you say all Indian American women have a perfect hourglass body with sharp features and big eyes AND just make the assumption that they're introverted but nice.
I'm sure most are lovely, but there's not saying they're all like that and there's no saying that guys don't like them. Sure, some guys won't, but generally they won't rule you out.
This post is relying a lot on stereotypes?

Anonymous · Answer

Most Indian girls won't give white guys the time of day. I majored in genomics, and half the students in my program were Indians. I used to try to talk to some of them but they would always shy away from me (and other white guys) and stick with Indian guys. The reason I was told for this is that their parents strictly forbid them from dating guys who aren't Hindus. I'm attracted to them, but they discriminate pretty hard against white guys, for one.

Prof_Don · Answer

From my experience, the Indian girls I have known (and I knew quite a few) didn't seem very keen to dating, or even socializing, with black guys.

TheIndianTechie · Answer

As an Indian man being living in Europe and having friends from different European cultures , I can say it is because of the stereotypical views that Indian women are too conservative. It is absolutely true. They are so conservative that even an Indian guy with Western values won't like to date them. They have typical problem accepting any appreciation or flirting from guys.

Tiger288 · Answer

They are gorgeous but I just assume they are not keen interest in black guys and culture so I leave them alone cuz I'm not sure if they are attractive to black men.

BroDudeBro · Answer

I am not an American man but I love Indian women and I would happily date a Westernized Indian woman.

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

but they're not. they human bro, same as anyone else.

Ihav2fart · Answer

Who said they're undesirable?  I have found many of them attractive in my life. I either didn't have the cajones to talk to them or they just didn't seem open to me approaching em.

James0 · Answer

For me I never met an Indian women my age before so I can't be attracted if I can't see them lmao

Anonymous · Answer

I do not know what you were talking about and I love them maybe you're looking in the wrong places or something of that nature.

stratford · Answer

I'm not sure how you have arrived at this conculsion? Women of all races and origins can be lovely or not lovely.

TheGuyFromMiddleEast · Answer

What do you mean by Indian? Like native Indian, or Indian Indian?

apexalpha · Answer

guys dont approach them because they think they dont stand a chance given the stereotype of arranged marriages and culture differences

jjmarvin · Answer

I'm not unattracted to Indian/pakistani/whatever else around that area women.

clampfan101 · Answer

They're not. I don't find any kind of woman undesirable.

I_Own_You · Answer

you listed 3 good things. the full list is longer than 3 items.

Anonymous · Answer

Just don't find them attractive. Simple. And I do not like their culture either.

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

I just haven't met many, if any.

Vakarian · Answer

Why would they be undesirable to us?

Cablex · Answer

It's because of television and media that's why

gobsmacked3 · Answer

Desi women are stunning, especially 'Sindhis'

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