Girls, Do you ladies really find Indian men THAT unattractive/undateable?

[Anonymous]

So there have been various studies and surveys, showing that Indian men (those originating from India, not native Americans) are not considered dateable by women in most parts of the world. The reasons, as specified, were one or a combination of the following stereotypes about Indian men:-
1) They are physically unattractive
2) They are perverts/rapists
3) They are mamma's boys
4) They have small dicks

Indian men have almost always been at the bottom of the 'preference list' for women in the world. Is this true for you as well? Are Indian men so undesirable that you prefer all other races of men over them?

P. S. Please don't come up with pictures of Indian male celebrities, and claim they're 'hot'. Of course they are, and that's the reason they're in showbiz. Please restrict your answer to only the common, everyday Indian male.

[Anonymous]

1. yeah, hate to say it but yes.
2. YES. No explanation needed.
3. No, I've never heard that rumor before. Usually I hear they disrespect all women.
4. I don't know, never heard that either.

Based off my interaction with indian men, i would not date them. On gag alone- the only creepy messages I get are from indian men. It's so gross, creepy and uncomfortable. I don't understand how they can say that stuff to a stranger. Would they ever say that stuff to their face?
Also the culture of how "they deserve" women turns me off a lot.

[Asker]

So you you think ALL Indian men are perverts/rapists? It's unfortunate that you feel that way, but whatever floats your boat.

And on GAG (and other sites), a lot of men of other races are 'pretending' to be Indian men just to send such messages, because they now the current image of Indian men, and it's a 'safe' way for them to behave like perverts.

So you say 'based off your interaction', you wouldn't date them. But if there was someone who didn't stick to the stereotypes, would you still not date him?

[Anonymous]

I'm a white American female & actually no i don't agree with that. In my opinion i find indian men to be nicer , more genuine and cuddly. I feel like they'd know how to treat a woman. They aren't unattractive it's only idiots that say that. I've seen some cute indian men it's like saying all black are ugly or all Asians are ugly when it's not true. People need to STOP stereotyping it is highly annoying. And if you are indian don't listen to what ignorant retarded people have to say. Indians are fucking awesome!!!

[Asker]

Thank you so much! Yeah, I'm Indian. Just have a look at what the other two girls said. I thought maybe I should stick to Indian women, and never try pursuing women of other races because they wouldn't be attracted to me anyway.

Your words give me hope, though!

[Medicalbug]

1. One of the hottest guys in my department was Indian (objectively, agreed upon by everyone). Indian men, like all men, can be hot or not. Generally I find them attractive if they are not super tall and smaller in build and prefer their looks over white men. Only southeast Asians are comparably beautiful.
2. I know there are rape stories out of India but I currently live in the American south where I encounter everyday misogyny and perviness from white guys all the time. I think anyone has the potential to be a perv if the culture encourages it.
3. I doubt it? But what’s wrong with loving your momma? Lol. Seriously though, I don’t know what it’s like in India but the Indian guys I’ve worked with are pretty independent and confident away from home all by themselves in a new continent. I’ve been invited to home cooked dinners on a few occasions - hosted by Indian men.
4. Now if I could finally find an Indian guy who is not already engaged, married or in a relationship, maybe I could tell you more. But until I see a study on penis size conducted on a large enough sample of the population, I’m going to go with “depends on the person” for this one.


As a general rule, the Indian men I’ve associated with have all been taken (by white girls as well) and were pretty decent in both the looks and character department.

[marleyanna2016]

I think the pervert thing is what turns most girls off. Usually when people complain about Indian men I don’t really hear about them being ugly or mamas boys I mostly hear about people being annoyed about them asking for nudes or wanting to sext. So I think it’s more of the behavior than the looks.

[CaviarLilly]

I'll just respond by touching your 4 points:
1. Lie
2. Lie
3. True
4. Lie
Dating an Indian man. Speaking from experience.

[Anonymous]

1) i find them unattractive, can't help it
2/3) no, i just dont like the behaviour of most i've met, the culture does not align with me at all
4) size doesn't bother me

[Asker]

Fair enough! Looks like Indian men should stick to dating Indian women, because women of other races don't find Indian men physically attractive.