Girls, would you find it romantic or creepy if a guy you just met sent flowers to your work?

[Anonymous]

that's the question for this poll , I'm thinking about maybe sending flowers to this girl I met, and I met her where she works so that's the only place I could really sent them at the moment . but I don't know would you girls find this really romantic and want the guy more than before ? or kind of creepy or just not care what be your thoughts ? if a guy did this

I'd love them, it would be really romantic

Wouldn't care at all, I'd just ignore them

Kind of creepy

Updates

+1 y

wow the poll results are very interesting , there is a lot of difference among the girls who voted , most guys though it was creepy but a large % of girls would like them but a lot wouldn't so it would really depend on the girl and her romantic needs

[TayloQueen]

Ok first things first don't send her roses snce you just met her and lilies may be to much. Send her something like Daisies with a sweet note that says something like"Will you go out with me? Meet me at________(somewhere nice but not TO nice) at _____( O'clock )___"

Don't put the things in Parenthises pf course lol. but anyways you don't want to take her somewhere to nice because that sets her expectations real high. But you don't want to take her to fast food because then she thinks you are Cheap and no one wants a cheap date. Fast food is good for like the 3rd month or sooner if she suggest it.

[audreymarie21]

A guy did that to me before, we went on one date and the next day I had this huge vase of flowers delivered to my house. And with the flowers was a note "A beautiful rose for a beautiful girl." I still have the note, I thought it was very sweet, but unfortunately he just came off far too strong and scared me off, we remained friends to this day though.

[the-love-guru]

I put C, but it really depends on what KIND of flower you send her. A few dozen red roses would be something you'd see in a stalker movie. But if you sent her a small bouquet of pretty mixed flowers, that would be such a sweet gesture. It's all in the presentation. Don't go overboard or you may set off the "caution" alarm.

[Bilo007]

This girl who works at the clinic I undergo Physio therapy at. From the first day I laid my eyes on her, I was smitten by how beautiful she is and wow that killer smile of hers. Few months later, we are today.

I just wanted to say what a beautiful smile she has and how beautiful she is. So I sent her , to the work place, a small bouquet of mixed pink roses carnations and lillies.

creepy?

[OutOfMyElement43]

The only time you send a big bouquet of flowers to her workplace is after you've been in a relationship for at least 6 month, and you f***ed up in a really big way. She's probably still going to break up with you but all her co-workers will think your really sweet. When you screw up a relationship, start thinking beyond stage one.

[AshPhinium]

I would try to keep personal and work separate. Flowers at work are for after a relationship has been built, after weeks of dating. If you don't have her number, you could mail her a note at work, but I'd avoid anything that could embarrass her where her career is #1.

[Asker]

Actually I'm not sure it embarras her but the other girls who work there might be a bit jealous if they found out I was that into her

[jeeperss]

i would view it as creepy.

i would think it's sweet from someone I've known/dated a while. but not from someone I just met.

creepy is not really the right word for it though. I'd just think it'd be ... too much / rather strange. not creepy per se.

either way, I don't know who all these girls are who voted that they'd love it. ugh.

[Asker]

Well some girls just love attention no matter who it is coming from and some crave romance desperately as well

[jeeperss]

Yes. But those are the kind of girls you don't want to be interested in! She's not going to be interested in YOU as a person, she's just going to project all sorts of expectations on you- with this ideal image in mind. If she just loves the attention, then what's the point?

Unless you're just looking to score, and she's easy. But that seems like too much work for only that, no?

[Hughman]

Women will rationalise their emotions as they see fit.

If the guy shown he's alpha (ie lover material), a soppy romatic 'beta' move like flowers can be forgiven, even cherished. If she's uncertain about him, then it's going to get the 'creep/needy p**** label'. Though I think 'just met' is going to be über creepy for almost all guys unless they have major props - celebrity, CEO etc

[usagichan]

If you've met her really recently, just send her a funny note or something... save the flowers til after you're better acquinted/have had a first date.

[blueandwhitebleeder]

Agreed

[Asker]

Problem valentines day is fast approaching and I see her flirting with other guys and want to do somehing that get me noticed in a romantci kind of way , but I'm not sure about the flowers anymore or what to do

[Anonymous]

at nicky360...you said, "if he's creepy & there's no attraction..." when what you really meant was, If there is no attraction, then he's creepy.

IOW, guys are supposed to know ahead of time, before they make a move, if you find them attractive. If they guess wrong, they are "creeps".

It's a girl's world, we just have thne bad luck to live in it.

[Asker]

Yeah I know its half rediclous to deal with these girls , they just about put everyone in the creepy category unless he's brad pitt and even some of the girls out there crazy enouhg to accuse him of stuff too I bet if they had the chance

[BaseballGurll]

Lol I think Brad Pitt is creepy, I like a little facial scruff that's hot, but his beard looks like he is homeless. I agree to what nicky360 said. With most guy it takes me a couple dates to build a good attraction that isn't mearly physical. If you send flowers 2 days after you met then that's like too much. Its sweet but its alot. Creepy is not what we mean, I think we meen more just overwhelming I think.

[CurlyCurl]

if its someone that I find intresting, I'd think its rly sweet of him.

if its someone that I'm not that intrested, I still consider it sweet, beause someone being thoughtful of you is cute. (gesture wise)

[nicky360]

honestly it depends on what the guy looks like. if he's cute & I'm attracted to him then it'd be awesome. if he's creepy & there's no attraction...it'd still be flattering but awkward, & I would hope he doesn't stalk me

[sweet-thing]

I said kind of creepy, buuut...

If she likes you then she will probably love them. For example if I personally met a guy who I was kind of interested in, and he sent me flowers, id be really flattered =)

If you're cute then you're probably a shoe in no matter what (again, would be for me)

But if it wasn't either of those, I would think it creepy yes

Good luck deciding ;)

[jeeperss]

Agreed.

[SportyLove]

Hot or not, I would be seriously creeped out. But on the other hand, I'm not one for flashy romantic gestures even from a long time boyfriend.

[abra_b]

Big gestures when we don't have a connection makes me wonder what he's up to or if he's the type that jumps without looking ...

[LoisM]

It really depends on who sends them and the impression he gives off.

[Edwardcullensgirl1]

I would personally love it! I like that kind of stuff its so sweet and romantic!

[Anonymous]

What about just a small flower, or small amount of flowers? Wouldn't that be less forward but still showing they are very interested

[Anonymous]

re: your update, I just voted C because it's what I thought most girls would say, not what I really felt.

[Anonymous]

I knew it! I had to guess without seeing the poll results, but I knew most girls would say creepy! "Creepy' is a girl's favorite word.

[emzy-89]

it depends how much I know him.

[tink99]

If that's where you met her then I guess its ok!

[wantmore54]

Depends on what I thought about the guy.