Certaint type of flirting will just come naturally if you actually like him but you should make sure every once and awhile you drop mad hints like for example the girl I'm seeing at a party took my hat that had my name on it in huge letters for the design and wore it the whole party it was an obvious hint that she liked me also to to "accidentally" touch him such as you touch his hand or his arm or whatever
I am also that way. But there is nothing you can do but get use to the feeling and you will never know until you try. What's the worst that could happen right. Some guys might even think its kinda cute that they make you act like that. So get in there a play ball lol.
I am socially awkward and I don't have too much of an issue with flirting.
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Being yourself is probably best, and if that comes off a little awkward, so be it.
"The one" is going to be someone who likes you the way you are, even if you're nervous, awkward, shy, at times little neurotic, and sometimes blurt out silly things.
By the way, there are plenty of guys who can relate to that. Any guy who has ever felt any degree of shyness or social anxiety is not going to judge it negatively in others, unless he is a total hypocrite.
But I would think that you want someone with empathy, and a dude with empathy is going to be touched that you're putting yourself out there at all for him, when it's obvious it's not easy for you.
I can't promise that your current crush has that empathy, because it's easy to like people who aren't right for us. But if they don't have enough empathy to understand your situation, then they're not "the one".
Also, it's nearly impossible for girl to come off as "trying too hard", especially a girl with social anxiety. The only thing that is "trying too hard" is if the guy has made it very clear that he is not interested in you, and you're still going after him.
But it's much more likely that the guy won't know you're interested at all, because you're afraid of "trying too hard". So you really need to try to dismiss this fear if at all possible, because it's not productive. Your friend is not helping you.
The only other thing you want to avoid is throwing out lies, because you're nervous. Like making up an excuse not to see a guy because you're nervous. A guy may interpret that as a blow off, or if he thinks you're sending mixed signals, he may start to believe you're playing a game. Much better to be super awkward than to come off as playing a game.
Being around friends will help... support.
Alcohol, in moderation will make you relax.
Don't ry to force it, talk about things you like, or ask him about himself.
best advice i can give you is stop think about it and being in your head just be in the moment relax and have fun with it dont everything you say and do go with the flow
Ähm you can't xD best is to get some confidence first but it can be cute to sound/behave awkward..
You can also try to fake your confidence but that most of the time doesn't work
Just introducing yourself is enough.
same problem here... I'll read this carefully haha
Your father should put you on a leash!!
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