Does anyone have any tips on how to flirt if you're shy?

[Horse-girl]

I'm shy and I'm not sure how to show people I'm interested. Any tips? Thank you! Xx

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah it’s understanding what flirting is and is not.

it’s breaking down what makes up a very mild flirt and how you sort of just let it peek out and sort of how the flirt gives a little ‘hello’.

subtle gestures, understanding body language, how symmetry works with someone.

it’s not being full on sexual.

you can actually flirt with someone and it be zero sexuality.

i flirt with my friends, there was a shit load going on over the weekend.

but it’s was just having a laugh.

using innuendo and body language / gesture can be a really easy flirt.

[Horse-girl]

Good advice, thanks!

[ChrisMaster69]

@Horse-girl also you can use your natural shyness to flirt, as you will likely blush easier. The tip of your tongue slightly poked the your lips, and a little turn of the mouth, can be enough to start the flirting.

It also greatly depends on how good they are as well, if they are rubbish then things kinda nose dive and it’s harder to do without being bloody obvious lol

[Horse-girl]

Okay sounds good.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Horse-girl it’s something we learn at school, I think most of us are natural flirts and can’t help ourselves.

Naturally lovable

[Horse-girl]

I obviously wasn't paying much attention in that class then! 😂

[ChrisMaster69]

@Horse-girl ah you have to pay attention in class.

Every day is a learning day

[Horse-girl]

I know, I'll listen next time.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Horse-girl that’s a good girl

Seriously though, just relax and be comfortable with yourself and let things flow, it will just happen

[Horse-girl]

I do try to relax, I've noticed that if I make eye contact with a guy when I'm out and about he usually winks or something like that. I just need to get the courage to make more eye contact.

[ChrisMaster69]

If a guy winks and you don’t won’t to make full on eye contact, then that tip of cheeky tongue can work wonders.

It’s cheeky and flirty

[Horse-girl]

Okay, thanks.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Horse-girl no probs

[ChrisMaster69]

@Horse-girl thanks for MHG, most appreciated,

[Horse-girl]

No problem! 😊

[boggboss]

Its super shit but u honestly have to step outside your comfort and do somthing trying to date or even flirt with a shy girl is like pulling nails as they don't give u anything just staring is not enough some even if u try to talk to claim up and say nothing

[Horse-girl]

Okay, thanks for the advice.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

WHAT ARE YOUR HOBBIES? NOT JUST ACTIVITIES BUT ALSO NORMAL AF CASUAL NOTHING SPECIAL KINDA ACTIVITIES? WHAT DO YOU ENJOY?

[Horse-girl]

Why? I don't quite understand how that helps. Thank you anyway! Xx

[Yucy_Gluttony]

Why? Use those hobbies. Drag him into your comfort zone. Yes you may have to leave yours to invite him, but if you do something you enjoy and he enjoys as well you will forget that you were shy in the first place!

[Horse-girl]

That's a very good idea, thanks!

[Yucy_Gluttony]

You can get invested in his hobbies too! Joking works too! Making eachother laugh! Or supporting eachother during sad times. Time brings you closer together <3

[Horse-girl]

I'll try some of these things out, thanks again.

[Super_nurse_88]

Make eye contact and smile

[Horse-girl]

It does work, I just have to work up the courage to do it.

[ohshee]

For me I just want the girls to feed herself and in doing so no matter what she's doing no matter what she saying her eyes can speak at the same time without saying any words and that is beautiful with every touch her eyes are saying everything but there's all different types of flirting you're just joking around flirting there's word flirting where do you change one word are the word has two different meanings to it and you take the sexy or naughter word and turn it into even something bigger or even I. To some thi g stupider lol

Don't be afraid to laugh about yourself don't take things or what people say to serious it's probably just a joke the go with the flow of it change it into something at the Split Second spontaneous and then look at the person like like what yeah that's what I said LOL when you can s t u n them and they don't know what to say art makes them think like what you just didn't say that but no matter which way you go it has to be a part of your personality it has to really be a part of you and it has to be a positive part if it's negative are stupid it's okay as long as there's a reason behind it it's part of the the flirt the joke the moment
Don't be afraid to touch hands
And don't be afraid of letting your guard down and being serious and letting them feel your words are your emotion through your words there are moments that flirting can be so beautiful can you post can fill each other at the same time it's a moment where you almost become one that is a very beautiful thing

[Horse-girl]

Love your opinion, thank you for taking the time to reply. 😊

[ohshee]

You're welcome and thank you for asking the question I refused to be exactly like you shy

[ohshee]

Time out I said I used to be exactly like you very shy for a lot of different reasons I'm an empath and I would feel people's energy and I didn't understand that at that time I thought it was me well it's a long story I'll tell you if you want to hear it back same thing could be happening to you now if you understand what I just said that's going to be great LOL

[Horse-girl]

Thank you, I think that I am just naturally shy though.

[ohshee]

I used to be. I mean I was so shy I could be walking and I would hear somebody calling my name and it was either one two three girls and they're all headed for me
I would say God please I beg of you make them turn around make me disappear because the minute that they would get up to me and start talking with me my mouth will get dry baby almost starts a stutter and I would get this feeling rushing through my whole body like this very sensual beautiful feeling almost like I was having sex and I would in the moment I would feel that I would say no why is this always happening why please I got to go I want to run I would start getting all sweaty and this and it basically happens every single day in school and it wasn't until about four years after and I was introduced to this lady and she started telling me about myself and then she wanted to know how long I was an empath for I said I don't even know what an empath is she asked me about 20 questions and every question she was right and then she was telling me that when those girls were coming up and talking to me it wasn't me that was feeling all those things going through my body I was feeling them and all of a sudden me a hundred times more sense to me and then ever since you started saying made sense to me and ever since then I just changed 100% close to one hundred percent I still get shy sometimes very rarely though I still feel those feelings when somebody walks and talks to me but I know it's actually them and I know it's not mean I can feel the difference now so you might be an empath to who knows

[Horse-girl]

I guess I could be, not sure how to tell though.

[ohshee]

The best way to do it probably well there's a couple ways here can you DM me so I can find your messages otherwise I might not find for a day but there's a couple things you can do that will Enlighten you also ask Google what an empath is I would think that it would explain that to you or you could take a test or something

[ohshee]

I mean there's a couple things that we could do it I could tell you but ask Google first if you look at any of my answers that I answer on here it's two pages long so I could just imagine trying to explain to you what an empath is Google could probably do in one sentence LOL anybody could except for me LOL

[Horse-girl]

Okay, will do.

[CallmeTheKnight]

You're better off telling them you find them cure and would like to get to know them

[Horse-girl]

Good advice, thank you.

[lamaguy]

I’m very shy and am not good but I inadvertently flirted a few times by foot kicking and stuff (she led it to more) but yeah I don’t know

[In_Trance]

To be honest it's like anything else; you have to practice at it

[lamaguy]

I don’t get it someone blocked me and it says the opinion here is blocked but I don’t know who would block me or why

[Still-alive]

if the guy ever makes a joke even if you think its kinda lame always laugh at them.

[Horse-girl]

I usually do, just to be polite though.

[Chiarac2003]

Be less shy.

[Horse-girl]

Easier said than done! 😂

[Chiarac2003]

I know… I didn’t mean anything other than to lighten it up. It’s hard being shy.
Do you have horses? A horse.

[Horse-girl]

I don't have a horse but I do ride.

[Chiarac2003]

Oh nice. My family breeds horses. Mostly Friesian.

[Chiarac2003]

An I’ll say something on flirting that works with me. I’m naturally inquisitive…. So I ask questions. It’s natural and easy to keep up a convo.

[Horse-girl]

Oh I love Friesian horses, they are so beautiful.

[Horse-girl]

Same, I generally ask the questions and listen.

[Chiarac2003]

Well that’s flirting except… the way you look at them.

[Horse-girl]

I guess, so I have to give puppy eyes?

[Chiarac2003]

Oh they are. They are a handful too!😂. You would think that with their size … they wouldn’t be so much a baby. 5 of them follow me wherever I go like puppies. If i leave them outside they will find a way out to the house. Or 5 horses lined up along the fence looking at the house. But all of them are big babies. I jus don’t ride them much because I fell once. That’s all that took. But I ride here and Italy a lot.

[Horse-girl]

Sounds lovely, you're so lucky!

[Chiarac2003]

Oh I wouldn’t say that but thnx. A lot of work.

[Horse-girl]

At least it's work with beautiful animals. 😊

[Chiarac2003]

This is true…. All with their own personalities!!… babies but personality. Lol