Is sarcasm a turn off?

[Anonymous]

I'm a very srcastic person and my friends think I'm funny but I wanna know if it's a turn off to guys

Yes

No

Don't care

[GoodManDave]

For me, it's usually not... depends on if it's "funny mean" or meant just to be mean and bitter. If it's a constant thing too, then for me, it wouldn't be attractive. Otherwise, if there's a little bit of "trash talk" in there, it's more fun.

I'm sarcastic, and I'll use a line, but it's usually pretty obvious it's meant to be a type of "trash talk" or "brotherly" joke, not meant to really destroy you. And I will back off if I think it's really going to hurt someone.

So for me, if a woman can do that, but know when to back off on the comments, or when something is too far (and not use it against someone), then it's kind of awesome.

[AmericanPoet]

There is well timed sarcasm and then annoying sarcasm. The latter being a turn off. Sarcasm should be subtle and well timed for the best effect. I know people who every other sentence is sarcasm, that isn’t sarcasm it is just annoying. Time it well and it’s cute.

[MaskedSanity]

My boyfriend and I revel in each other's dry wit and stinging sarcasm, we're very compatible in that sense.

I'm sure it might be a turn off to guys, while being a plus to others.

Although I don't know whether your sarcasm is friendly or if you're constantly being snappy. The latter would definitely put people off.

[Anonymous]

It really depends on now often you use it. If you use it in moderation so that the people you are with chuckle on occasion, fine, but if it's a constant stream of sarcasm... ugh. It does get a little overwhelming and isn't as witty as you may think it is. (This applies to guys and gals.)

[redeyemindtricks]

It will have a way of getting in the way of intimacy.

If yr not in the market for an intimate relationship right now, that may be exactly what you want. But, if/when you want that, you may find it's something you need to tone down a bit, or at least keep to yourself at times.

[nicole_SOA]

I'm a very sarcastic person too and a lot of times I feel like it is a turn off. But I find it a turn on when the guy is as sarcastic as me. Ya know? Then you kinda have someone to compete with 😂
Overall I think maybe to some guys it is and others its a turn on.

[CheerGirl38139]

If it is I'm totally screwed.

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[sweettckae]

I don't like sarcasm... I mean I'm very sarcastic in most things I say but when you're talking to a person on a serious topic, sarcasm can't come in to play.

[e900325151]

To an extent. That goes for everything in general. If a guy was always sarcastic with me it would make me feel dumb and disrespected. SOmetimes its funny sometimes it gets a little too much which is offensive

[HandsomeRaj]

Once in a while maybe ok but if it's a regular thing at every or almost everything / one around then yes it's a huge put off - at least for me. Cause to me it symbolizes insecurity & low self esteem / complex in someway :)

[Matchmaker7072]

It's not as long as you use it with common sense. If you constantly use it the wrong way it can come off really negative and annoying. Then again I'm sarcastic as hell myself but I use it to try to get people to laugh not to put them down.

[Barturi]

If you're genuinely funny and and fun to be with I can't imagine why guys wouldn't like you.

[ConsultantIsBack]

Nooo way, just be playful and flirty tho. Not condescending, or obnoxious, so it can be either really attractive or really bad

[Yellow_]

If you watch your tone and speak truth, then no it's not a turn off.

If it's to insult others, or mock others , others' beliefs etc then that's a turn off.

[Miyonis]

Um.

A bit of sarcasm can be a turn on, but cynicism is never a good thing.

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[SilenceMeansPatience]

Hopefully not or im screwed

[Asker]

Lol :)

[Pat8707]

Unless it's constantly sarcasm towards me, no it's not necessarily a turn off.

[JuicyBrain]

I have the same kind of humor 😊

[takumii]

No, absolutely in no way its not >__>

[serious]

Yes, of course, it's 100% a turn off.

[Anonymous]

Nope, cause I do it all the time