Why is my ex trying to catch my attention?

JackB
Howdy peeps, this is something that is starting to grate on me and I have no idea how to go about it.

I went out with this girl for about 5 months at Uni. She was my first love and the first person I ever slept with so I know she will always have a place in my heart. However, in the middle of Summer, she broke up with me completely out of the blue (we never argued as there was nothing to fall out about as we got on so well). Nevertheless, I was heartbroken.

The rest of my summer was spent working and working out. When I came back to Uni for my second year, all my close friends immediately made comments about how much weight I'd loss and this gave me a massive confidence boost. I was loving the attention from the opposite sex. I had a couple of girlfriends in the process but things never materialized.

Recently though, my ex girlfriend keeps checking me out. It makes me feel uncomfortable as I'm not sure how to feel. I feel more confident in myself and I now love shopping for clothes as I have a better body. On the flip side, she has put on some noticeable weight.

Could it be a sign of jealousy? When we first got together I was pretty big. I just get a little bit frustrated with the way she looks at me. Do I just ignore her or confront her about it? It a sense of attraction or just mind games.

Why is my ex trying to catch my attention?
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