I'm very clueless. My sister beat me up once I said a guy at my job offered me rides home all the time and he would wait for me to finish my shift and walk me outside. Or a guy I just met gave me all his tip money. Yes, I'm absolutely clueless 😐
If we come in contact-I know 99.99% of the time. Like, I've had guys admit there feelings and I'm like, yea, I knew. And he's like "whaaaaa" men XD so cute.
@Toad-1 The way he talks to me, looks at me, the questions he asks. And I think it's because most times the guys who like me are really nice, so, they don't have a hidden motive and are just super open books.
@Toad-1 My number, if I'm single, (obvious ones) do I like this movie, that movie, my hobbies, help with this tiny problem google can solve* (how my current boyfriend got the convo started) For me, it's always been really obvious when a guy likes me and very easy to read guys in person.
@Toad-1 No. I just don't understand how people can't see it. Maybe the guys I attract are just super obvious and others are more cryptic (like anime level, haha)
@Toad-1 Yes and no... I'm just talkative (bc usually I don't talk to a lot of guys in class or things) and I like to be witty and joke with him and focus on him. To me, it's SO obvious. Like if he liked me, or had a small interest, my behavior would only encourage him to get closer.
@Toad-1 I dunno because I'm not friends with a lot of guys to know their insight. BUT from my friends (girls) experiences, they say guys are SUPER obvious as well. I'm sure we girls are mega obvious as well (I think I am 100% encouraging)
It's easy for me to tell. Most often I'm not into him though so I'm relieved when he doesn't act on it. When lesbians are into me though, I'm totally clueless.
9 times out of 10, I'm clueless. I'm not used to people being interested in me so I don't really know what to look for. I'm a pro at being able to tell when a person likes someone else tho lol.
i think most people try hard not to let that person they really like not know they like them even know its counter intuitive but yea i can usually tell
Despite not being good at reading body language on the spot, I usually know when someone has a romantic interest in me actually. It's pretty easy to tell.
Women flirt in a much different way than men do. So I honestly wouldn't be able to tell. But it Isn't like it matters to me. Relationships aren't for me.
How do I know if I don't know? No one has ever shown any signs whatever of liking me in that way, but from my perspective, that could mean I'm clueless of likes just as easily as them never happening.
I know most of the time cause i love to analyze and read in between the lines, others are just so straight up or i can't read them like i can read other women. I try my best none the less
So clueless. We are adults, we should let each other know. Dont know why people play games. But im pretty sure a girl can tell way more than a guy can tell. You just look at them, smile, touch their arm, flirt, and you are in.
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I'm very clueless. My sister beat me up once I said a guy at my job offered me rides home all the time and he would wait for me to finish my shift and walk me outside. Or a guy I just met gave me all his tip money.
Yes, I'm absolutely clueless 😐
Eye contact. Especially if he looks away when you see him looking at you.
If we come in contact-I know 99.99% of the time.
Like, I've had guys admit there feelings and I'm like, yea, I knew. And he's like "whaaaaa" men XD so cute.
What clues do you see that a guy likes you?
@Toad-1 The way he talks to me, looks at me, the questions he asks. And I think it's because most times the guys who like me are really nice, so, they don't have a hidden motive and are just super open books.
What kinds of questions?
@Toad-1 My number, if I'm single, (obvious ones) do I like this movie, that movie, my hobbies, help with this tiny problem google can solve* (how my current boyfriend got the convo started)
For me, it's always been really obvious when a guy likes me and very easy to read guys in person.
Do you feel maybe... special that you can easily sense someone likes you while others can't?
@Toad-1 No. I just don't understand how people can't see it. Maybe the guys I attract are just super obvious and others are more cryptic (like anime level, haha)
Are you pretty obvious when you like a guy?
@Toad-1 Yes and no... I'm just talkative (bc usually I don't talk to a lot of guys in class or things) and I like to be witty and joke with him and focus on him. To me, it's SO obvious. Like if he liked me, or had a small interest, my behavior would only encourage him to get closer.
hmmm well would you say girls are just as easy as guys when it comes to noticing if they like someone?
@Toad-1 I dunno because I'm not friends with a lot of guys to know their insight. BUT from my friends (girls) experiences, they say guys are SUPER obvious as well. I'm sure we girls are mega obvious as well (I think I am 100% encouraging)
It's easy for me to tell. Most often I'm not into him though so I'm relieved when he doesn't act on it. When lesbians are into me though, I'm totally clueless.
Yeah I know its all in the eyes. The eyes never lie
Hmm interesting!
Yes I see this in life
I would imagine so. Lol
Well thank you for that. 😊
Agreed man!
9 times out of 10, I'm clueless. I'm not used to people being interested in me so I don't really know what to look for. I'm a pro at being able to tell when a person likes someone else tho lol.
i think most people try hard not to let that person they really like not know they like them even know its counter intuitive but yea i can usually tell
A lot of eye contact, guys are visual so he will look at you a lot
Despite not being good at reading body language on the spot, I usually know when someone has a romantic interest in me actually. It's pretty easy to tell.
I generally know. 9 times out of 10 I can tell. People are pretty obvious even though they like to believe they have you fooled.
Women flirt in a much different way than men do. So I honestly wouldn't be able to tell. But it Isn't like it matters to me. Relationships aren't for me.
Not if he doesn't show it clearly, but I'm pretty good at catching pick up lines or small flirty moves 😋
I'm better now but I'm still kinda clueless. If he guys is subtle he is wasting time because I will never catch on lol.
I'm pretty clueless. A guy needs to be direct with me or I'd just assume he's being friendly to me. I'm not good at taking hints either. 😂
there's one way to no longer be clueless about guys feelings... GOOGLE.
Ha! Lmao
How do I know if I don't know?
No one has ever shown any signs whatever of liking me in that way, but from my perspective, that could mean I'm clueless of likes just as easily as them never happening.
I tuition. Staring. Feeling their attraction for you lkke magnetism when the come near you.
But if they don't make it known who cares.
i am SO clueless. one of my observant girlfriends usually tells me lmao or suggests the possibility.
I know most of the time cause i love to analyze and read in between the lines, others are just so straight up or i can't read them like i can read other women. I try my best none the less
So clueless. We are adults, we should let each other know. Dont know why people play games. But im pretty sure a girl can tell way more than a guy can tell. You just look at them, smile, touch their arm, flirt, and you are in.
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