Guys, does cuddling mean anything?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy at a party. And I stayed at his place during the night. We didn't have sex and we didn't kiss. We just lied next to each other he stroke my hair, ear, my face. He touched my lips and my breasts. He put his finger in my mouth.
We added each other on Facebook. And I thought I wouldn't hear from him again. Then he texted me, I answered and now nothing.
I'm confused. Why did he only want to cuddle? Does cuddling means anything? And why did he text me and then stop texting back?

[mwin2030]

Cuddling means he likes you on a level that is more than just casual sex between two people. He’s showing you he is willing to take the time to be close to you, to stay close to you, and show you affection that is beyond the scope of just being fuckbuddies.

That being said, he’s not texting you back, so something could be happening with him outside your knowledge you’re unaware of at the moment. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt he’s dealing with issues that’s preventing him from getting right back to you and try to be patient. If after a reasonable amount of time, he still hasn’t responded, then call or text him again and attempt to find out what’s wrong.

Try not to imagine trouble until there actually is a problem. Again, be patient. He may have a legitimate excuse for why he’s non-responsive.

[Hans222]

I hope he was not just in for "a pleasure"... normally if someone likes you and cuddles you on the first date that's a good sign.
But if he only wanted to touch a girl and enjoy himself than there's an unfortunate chance you were "his lunch" :-(
Maybe try once more to get in touch, you never know. But don't hope for too much :o

[Keiran1995]

Quite confusing I personally think you are confused because he is acting in a confused way himself. Give him some time Alone. If nothing happens then leave it and find someone else

[Anonymous]

There is something I am missing here. He was gentle and comforting and didn't pressurize you into sex. Did you want/expect more at the time?

You then texted and now nothing.

Based on the limited info it sounds to me like he liked you at the time, but something better in his mind has come along.
Or he is a secret service operative and... nah

[Asker]

I've just moved to his country. Most of the guys in my home country only goes to parties to find a girl they can sleep with. I'm surprised and happy that he didn't try to have sex with me.

I left his place early morning and he texted me the same afternoon that it was nice to get to know me/it was nice to meet me. I'm not quite sure how to translate his message into English.

[Opinion Owner]

If he wanted to see you again then he should have said so when you were texting. The possibilities are therefore
1) He is not that into you
2) He is inconsiderate
3) He has amnesia
4) He has lost his phone and has not bothered replacing it
5) Keeping women hanging on is part of his game-play

None of these sound good I am afraid.

[blazerock44]

It has health benefits like improving the immune system

[EddieJude]

he's rhe timid/shy type he needs that final push for sex next time dat happens kiss him yourself. or maybe he cnt get it up.

[Chris_68]

Cuddling means a lot for me.
Ask him why he doesn't text back any more.

[alexwood4real]

I think he wants to be a player but was too shy to go any further

[mits777]

baby, he is just gay. I wanted you near me my baby I would touch you and fuck you so hard and fuck you again every day every hour every second. these gays are so lucky getting girls.

[mits777]

and no I am not a maniac or anything. I love and respect girls so much that I want to please them in any possible way. <3 my love hope you find someone like me next time.

[iCroissant]

Cuddling means the guy is lonely. Really lonely. I would like to cuddle with someone, but only someone I love.

[Titanic1912]

Yes, it means time for a movie with your SO or a bath with your SO.

[StickStickity13]

cuddling is nice, guys are more likely than women to want to do things without commitment though

[Asker]

So it means nothing?

[StickStickity13]

it depends on how the guy feels