Why do guys get confused in serious relationships?

[Anonymous]

Any insight would help. Is it actual confusion? An excuse for something else?

[nnitgy]

Usually a fear or not knowing how to react to the feelings they are having. Guys over analyze and rationalize everything. Sometimes they can do this so much they don't even know what they want anymore. Or Rationalize the feelings away because they don't how to deal with the feelings. Then you have to figure in the peer pressure they are getting from there friends. My advice is to in a subtle way let him know why he is in the relationship and what he will be missing if he exits it. Actions not words. And I am not just talking about sex. You know what makes him happy and excited about you and life. use that knowledge to show him.

[GIntrovert]

Its hard to tell if it is love or just sexual attraction.. some guys don't figure out that these two are not mutually exclusive.

[shenholds09]

ehh I had an ex like that but.. it didn't want me to have a tampon or anything like he completely didn't care but so I'm guessing its pretty normal

[Anonymous]

sounds wishy washy to me...too much work...should spend more time on a guy who knows what he wants...drop & move on.

[Anonymous]

Confused about what?

[Asker]

Sorry... saying they are confused and breaking up. What the hell is so damn confusing?

[Opinion Owner]

He's not "confused"... he's breaking up with you. He probably still likes you, but perhaps hadn't explored enough with other girls to know he wanted to be with you forever. His "confusion" was just an excuse to try and not hurt your feelings as much.