Why guys are confusing?

[Anonymous]

I love a man From my church. We make eye contact often. One day I confessed my feelings to him through message. And he asked me to call him. And he said that he see me as a sister. And I said its ok You didn't like me. I accept it. But he says that , he likes me but as a sister. He wants me to come to church but I said no I will never come to church. He said he will not also come to the church. I asked him why. He replied that if you come to church I will see you. And he speaked to me for an hour. To make sure that I'm feeling better. I'm confuse that why did he wants me to come to church. Why did he looks me. Why did his friends acts as he is interest in me.. Why.. I'm so confused

[Anonymous]

You read it way wrong. Just cause a man looks at a girl or makes eye contact doesn’t mean he likes you in that way. Too many women these days think that. Probably because they’re told all their life how cute they are by their friends, family. So when she’s out there thinking she’s perfect 10, only to realize men aren’t flocking to me. Why? Maybe because you’re not as pretty as everyone built your head up to be. I hope the best for my little sisters as well as brothers. I don’t go to church but I wish they’d do things that I do myself that helped me get my life back on track. He’s concerned about you, he cares about you as a sister as he said. Nothing more.

[normalice]

Religion complicates the courting process because there is always the chance someone is taking the religion seriously.

[In_Trance]

For the same reason women are