Why are guys so confusing?

[Anonymous]

Ok so every time I ask out a guy because they don’t EVER make the first move on me, I get rejected. I’ve always been single. I don’t understand why, either because I’m a confident and likable girl. So guys, do y’all like it when girls make the first move? And if so how do I get to know a guy I’m interested in and close to him?

[Horn_Hog]

I know the guy you're talking about. I taught him a Buddhist practice which is promised to make even Oprah look like a misogynist in comparison.

Here's what i taught him. You must look at the most arousing woman, and tell your body to stay completely unaroused for as long as possible. As soon as you penis does the slightest amount of inflation, look away. Cool down. Repeat this until you've prolonged your ability to hold an entire conversation without ejaculating. Or even secreting precum.

This world is overrun by misogyny. Just about all advertising in the world relies on objectifying women. It will save him a lot of time and money if he gains control over his own mind and doesn't fall for every hoe flaunting her flesh in his face. Buddha once said, that if man learns to resist seduction, he will save the world.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/dG5cZzbKvW0

[Anonymous]

In all honesty it’s more than likely because they don’t find you as. Whether that’s looks or personality. Looks usually get you in the door, personality is what keeps you inside. Like most women you probably think that whatever you think or do in certain situations that men should think and act the same way. But we don’t. We think more logically than emotionally. So if you want to think more like a man out more logic into it than emotion. I think women think men are confusing cause you think like a girl when it comes to what you think men are thinking. I know obviously that’s how most women think, w emotions. So you’re making it confusing by thinking w your thoughts rather than what a man would think.

[Abbycado]

Guys are dumb, in general. Especially at your age.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Douglas1179]

You're probably confused because you don't know anything about being a guy. It's not just about making the first move. It's about weighing the pros and cons. It's about asking yourself, "Is this girl worth it to potentially get labeled as a sexual aggressor or wind us up in jail? Is she going to turn psycho after I have sex with her and decide that I'm a rapist just because she feels in a different mood the next day?" All the laws are biased against us. This is the world that you and your feminist friends have created, so go cry about it.

[Horn_Hog]

Have you heard of Tibetan monks's yogic control of autonomic bodily functions?

www.snopes.com/.../

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3612090

And remember. If pavlov could make his dogs salivate almost at will, then we can also suppress spontaneous ejaculations using our minds.

[Horn_Hog]

My big ball meditation harvested 4 more views overnight.

[RavVid]

Generally I don't like it when girls make the first move on me if I don't feel sexual interest in them.

It is not just face and body; my sexual interest can be lead by my liking her character first and appreciation of her face and body second. Notice I said character not personality though we all like an extrovert. If I think a girl is genuinely nice I am likely to become interested in her.

If there is a guy you like the then talking to him is a good start.

[oldpigg]

In my case, I like it when a woman makes the first move, since it boosts my ego, however, I am not interested in having any kind of relationship.

[Anonymous]

Guys like when girls make the first move if they like them.